Personally, the sunshine mentality can be more important. After all, optimism itself can affect children for a lifetime.
First of all, help children to establish basic concepts, such as diligence, perseverance, hard work, carefulness, good observation, good expression and so on. These good qualities do not mean that children should discover it themselves the day after tomorrow, work hard and have an epiphany by themselves. So why do parents need them?
Consciously cultivate small things, such as hard work. When children have the ability to do housework, they should participate in the cleanliness and neatness of the room and give them a sincere affirmation, which will affect them for a long time. Other good qualities are the same.
How to discover children's own good moral character? This requires parents to have their own bright spots in order to discover their children's bright spots. Let's talk about what happened at dinner. A little boy at the next table had dinner with children at other tables, and it was unpleasant. The little boy's parents said to the child, go! Go and scold him! Let's go Don't be afraid, how did I teach you! The parents there hurried away with their children, which touched me a lot. If parents don't correct their values, they will unconsciously affect every detail of their children, not to mention this distorted education.
So, correct yourself first. How can you teach your children if you can't see your own bright spot?