Thirteen-year-old children are disobedient and really don't want to take care of them. Every child will have such a stage of adolescence, and many children will rebel at this stage. Children's moods are changeable and grumpy, which makes many parents very upset. I really don't want to take care of the disobedience of thirteen-year-old children.

Thirteen-year-olds don't listen, and they really don't want to care. 1 1. What can parents do if their children don't listen?

1. Don't talk about terms with children. Whenever children don't cooperate with themselves, some parents always like to encourage their children with rewards. Promise your child one thing, let him finish what he is doing first, and then reward him afterwards. In fact, although this kind of education has a good effect, it is not worth popularizing. Because children may get used to "talking about conditions" with you in the future. If you don't satisfy your child, he will be angry and disobedient.

2. Don't scare the children. Many parents will give their children a fright when their temper comes up, and let them do it by threatening. For example, you will say, "If you don't listen, you won't watch cartoons today." . Even if the child does as you say, he is not convinced. Using this trick will make the parent-child relationship more tense.

3. Communicate patiently. Some parents will keep urging their children to finish something as soon as possible, which will make them feel impatient. I hope parents can show patience. After parents can express themselves, they should give their children enough trust instead of urging education.

Second, I really can't control it. What if I don't want to control?

When a child has serious problems, parents can send the child to a special "special training school" if they can't control it. Xiangtan Youth Quality Education and Training School has obtained the national school license, and has rich experience in rebellious education to ensure students' psychological cognitive changes.

Cultivating their good learning interests and habits and developing their learning potential can not only solve the problems existing in students' psychological behavior in time and efficiently, but also steadily improve their academic performance and lay a solid foundation for students to return to school. The system is sound, the training system is perfect, the team provides professional, efficient and stable psychological counseling, and comprehensively cultivates students' leadership and self-management ability; Through legal gratitude education, students can have good qualities of responsibility, honesty, gratitude and self-confidence.

The quality education model for teenagers includes behavior education, psychological education and gratitude education, which organically combines mental health education, gratitude inspirational education, legal moral education and parenting education. Let children quickly improve their personality and change themselves. Moreover, there is 24-hour monitoring, which not only ensures the safety of children, but also can find problems and help children at any time. Let children open the window of the soul, untie the shackles of the soul, restore innocence, and help these teenagers gradually get out of confusion.

Thirteen-year-olds don't listen, and I really don't want to care. 2/kloc-What about children aged 0/3 who are rebellious?

First, give up the bondage that binds children and let them be free.

In several stages of children's growth, especially the "third resistance period"-12-16 years old, children have basically reached the stage of flying independently. If parents still tightly bind their children at this time, it will inevitably lead to strong resistance from children. From the analysis of the above characteristics, it is not difficult to see that children almost always show a nervous mood when facing the control of their parents.

Therefore, it is better to treat the children in the "third resistance period" by blocking the flood, giving them freedom and giving them a flying sky. In this way, children can easily take their parents' opinions and suggestions seriously after experiencing the joy of soaring.

Second, understand the psychological and physiological characteristics of adolescent children and respond rationally.

Many parents lack understanding of the physical and mental characteristics of adolescent children, and usually lack of learning and accumulation of relevant information, resulting in parents unable to read and understand their children, and do not know how to communicate and communicate according to their psychological and physical characteristics.

In fact, children in the "third resistance period" are at the peak of their physical development. The secretion of androgen and estrogen makes boys and girls full of anxiety, especially the change of feelings and the shift of attention, which often makes children more prone to extreme problems.

At this time, parents must communicate with their children rationally on the basis of understanding their psychological and physiological characteristics, and fully respect their opinions from the aspects of tone of voice, way of respect and choice of things.

Thirdly, parents should know more about the times, accept new things and break the "generation gap".

Many parents always fall into an empirical way of thinking. Parents who always use their own experience or opinions to discipline their children just ignore the progress of the times. Times are different, and new things emerge one after another. If parents can't keep up with the times, don't accept new things and don't update their ideas, there must be a "generation gap" in parent-child communication.

When children feel that their parents don't understand themselves, they are gradually reluctant to talk nonsense with their parents. For example, for many parents, because they don't study, understand and practice, they are wary of the internet, which will only lead to their inability to communicate with their children, or even to correctly educate and guide their children to use the advanced tool of the internet reasonably.

Thirteen-year-olds don't listen, and I really don't want to care. 3/kloc-How do children aged 0/3 correct their rebellion?

1, no moral judgment. For children's rebellious behavior, parents should not label their children as disobedient, unreasonable, emotional and weak-willed, but should look at it from a developmental perspective. Adolescent rebellion is a normal phenomenon for all.

At this time, in the communication with children, we should pay attention to reducing their moral judgment, and don't let them "go online" when they make mistakes or have some inappropriate actions. If your children have adolescent rebellion between the ages of 12 and 18, you should be happy, because they are stepping into the ranks of adults, growing up and sorting out their self-awareness. This process is long, but it will pass.

2. Understanding and tolerance. The more rebellious children are, the more they need their parents to have a peaceful and stable mood. At this time, we can't judge children's behavior by right or wrong, but give them more understanding.

For example, when a child's exam results are not ideal, don't automatically think that it is caused by the child's lack of care, and you can't blame more when you see the decline in performance. Instead, you should say, "I know you are under a lot of pressure, and you have worked hard in your own way."

Parental tolerance will create space for children's psychological growth, let children precipitate their emotional feelings to the greatest extent, and then better transform their behaviors and ways of doing things.

3. The principle of companionship. Under this principle, the most important thing is to establish a loving parent-child relationship. There is such a case that the child has been rebellious with his father, and even when he grows up, his relationship with his father is still not good. He later recalled that it was because his father had been working in other places and only went home once every two months. Always educate him when he comes back, making him feel that his father came back to take care of himself on purpose.

But his father said it was out of love for his children. Because I have less time at home, I want to take time to take care of my children's study every time I go back, but I ignore the communication and play with my children. Paying attention to learning only adds some psychological burden to children who are already under great psychological pressure. Children naturally reject this father who always wants to take care of himself.

This case tells us that spending more time with children is an important factor to alleviate children's rebellious psychology, but it is more important to let children feel the love of their parents. Parents' efforts should make children feel it in an effective way.

Caring for children is not necessarily just learning, but also including children's lives and thoughts. Spending more time with children and getting to know them may be much better than just "managing" them.