The main methods of education: first, we should establish good interpersonal relationships with children and let them know that they are not "disobedient children", so that they can easily receive psychological education and guidance. Secondly, we should let go and discipline appropriately. If the discipline is too strict, it will be counterproductive if it is not in line with their personality. Give him some freedom, some time and space for activities. Thirdly, patient teaching: patient education and persuasion, through reasoning, let children understand that some of their "opinions" are not so good and do not conform to social morality and norms, so as to give up their "opinions" on their own initiative, overcome their own problems and gradually move towards the road of growth.
The second category: children who are not attentive in class. Such children are mainly active, fun and talkative in class, and even absent-minded when studying at home. Regarding the education of such children, some parents said, "That's a school matter, and I shouldn't be in charge, and I can't sit next to the children." In fact, to cultivate children to concentrate on listening, we should start from daily life, because living habits and study habits are closely related.
The main methods of education: first, parents should train their children to listen and do it at once; Secondly, in life, parents can consciously train their children's obedient ability, such as arranging three or four things, what to do first, what to do later, and what to do finally. Parents can observe whether their children are like this; Thirdly, parents should consciously cultivate their children's attention and talk to them. Children must look at your face and listen. Fourth, parents can also tell their children some tips for attending classes; Fifth, parents should try their best to let their children retell the contents of the class, or talk about the most impressive problems in the class.
The third category: children who pursue money and material enjoyment. This kind of children are mainly characterized by "wearing famous brands and eating fine products", paying attention to food and clothing, and some have to go to school by motorcycle and tricycle.
The main methods of education: first, parents should set an example, be hard and simple, and tell their childhood life experiences and stories; Secondly, parents should tell their children about their family income and expenditure plans and seek their opinions appropriately; Thirdly, effectively educate children to spend money in a planned way and educate children with typical examples.
The fourth category is children who have no attitude towards the education of their elders. Such children turn a deaf ear to the education of their parents and teachers.
The main educational methods: first, let children understand the painstaking efforts of their parents and understand that any educational methods of parents and teachers are for the healthy growth of children; Secondly, education should be carried out in a harmonious atmosphere to eliminate their "hostility" and make them willing to listen; Third, give the child the right to speak and let him tell the reason, even if it is incorrect or untrue; Fourth, be more tolerant. After education, we will do something wrong, give us a chance to correct it and wait patiently. Fifth, the tone of educating children should be firm, and parents of both sides should speak in the same way. Some parents are joking, some are careless, some are understated, and some are boastful, which is not conducive to education.
The fifth category, children with serious inertia. This kind of children are mainly manifested in passive learning, incomplete or plagiarized homework, which leads to blank test papers or cheating in exams and lax life.
The main methods of education: first of all, we should start training from the usual housework, and don't let children open their mouths to ask for food and reach for clothes; The second is to help children make plans and strengthen supervision and inspection; Third, parents should lead by example and lead by example in everything; Fourth, we should cultivate the habit of hard work from the little things that children can do, persevere and insist on training.
In short, as long as parents adhere to the education of "moving with emotion, reasoning with reason, guiding with action and perseverance" in family education, from the perspective of current families, most parents place their hopes on their children. Whether this hope of "wishing your child success" or "wishing your daughter success" can come true requires a lot of efforts, and family is the first "school" for children, and parents are the first "school" for children.
It has been said that the fate of a country is in the hands of parents rather than those in power-the future of society must be borne by the new generation, and parents shoulder the heavy responsibility of shaping the future. Therefore, it can be said that the parents of the contemporary "only generation" in China have great responsibilities.
From the current children's point of view: because they are only children, they are "little sun" and "little emperor" at home. Some families ignore their children's mental health education, or fail to adopt correct educational methods and pay attention to the cultivation of good behavior habits, which leads to their self-centered and self-centered psychology. Over time, form bad behavior habits. According to the survey data of relevant parties in China, the qualified rate of children's psychological quality in China is only 19%, that in the United States is 4 1%, and that in Japan is over 60%. Some people say, "The intelligence and wisdom of China children are world-famous, and the differences in psychological quality are also famous." Therefore, we must attach great importance to family education and use correct family education methods to ensure the healthy growth of children until they become talents.
First of all, education should start with understanding children, strengthen emotional communication with children and establish good family relations. Understanding is to understand the child's personality, interests, hobbies, what he is thinking, what he usually does and what kind of people he associates with. Understanding means not to ignore the role of children in the family. Children have something to express their opinions in the family, and don't say "what do children know". We should listen to their opinions in major family affairs and build a democratic family, that is, the rights and status of every member of the family are respected. Respecting children's rights and status at home is not blindly doting on children and putting them in the position of "little emperor". Obedience to children is not respect, but doting.
Shenzhen Yaya Rabbit Children's EQ Paradise is a professional training institution for children's EQ in China. The main clients are children aged 3- 12 and their parents. Focus on cultivating children's/teenagers' social emotional abilities, namely, self-confidence, anti-frustration, independence, emotional management, interpersonal communication, empathy, problem solving, responsibility and self-discipline. (I hope it helps you)