A psychological study of child violence 1. Psychological research on children's aggressive behavior holds that aggression is a stable psychological characteristic. This behavior of the baby is called aggressive behavior, which is a very important content in the process of children's social development.
2. Intrinsic attack tendency With the growth, the performance of emotional, willful and uncontrollable gradually decreases, while retaliatory attacks gradually become common, which are manifested as throwing things, grabbing things, biting things, attacking, swearing, talking back and being stubborn.
Intellectuals: People are naturally inclined to attack.
3. Give correct guidance to children's behaviors such as complaining, crying and losing their temper. Because they are no longer recognized by their parents, these behaviors will automatically decrease. If guided correctly, aggression can be transformed into strength, patience and perseverance in the process of growth.
Children's psychology research believes that aggression is a stable psychological feature. 4, the attack has foreshadowing research proves that children who love to fight at the age of 3 still love to fight at the age of 5; The aggressiveness of 6- 10 years old indicates the tendency of 10- 14 years old to fight, ridicule, tease others and fight with peers.
Intellectuals: This kind of stability applies to both boys and girls.
Extended reading: the disaster caused by parents' behavior deviation of doting on their children
Extended reading: children's willful behavior and parents' correct education
Second, there are reasons behind the aggressive behavior of children 1. Children, like adults, will not lose their temper for no reason. If he bites other children, it must have his own reasons. Only about 1 children can't explain themselves yet.
2. Difficulties in expressing ideas/It is difficult for children aged 0-0 to express their true thoughts. Because of this, children can't establish effective communication with others, so they choose to bite or hit people to vent their dissatisfaction.
3, from the instinctive defense Sometimes the child hits people out of a kind of defense, maybe the child grabbed his bottle and toy, or someone hit him first, or the child grabbed his hair.
Intellectuals: Babies will never tolerate being bullied. He will try his best to protect his own interests. This is just an instinctive reaction.
Extended reading: correcting children's selfish behavior is more important than words and deeds.
Extended reading: parents really educate their children about bad behavior
One of the biggest drawbacks of attracting parents' attention to intergenerational parenting is that the baby before the age of 3 is in the critical period of parent-child attachment, which is an important moment to establish a sense of security of love and trust. The lack of parents will make the baby feel insecure.
Intellectuals: Children who are subconsciously worried that their mommy will suddenly leave may take destructive actions to attract their parents' attention.
5, negative emotional impact When children feel depressed, depressed and other negative emotions, it is most likely that children will fight each other. In addition, 1 year-old children are easy to hit people when they learn various abilities and encounter failures.
6, oral discomfort caused the baby to be around 1 year, and the teeth and muscles in the mouth have achieved different degrees of development. He likes to put instruments in his mouth to bite people, which can help him alleviate the discomfort caused by oral development, including biting behavior.
7. Cognitive learning shows that when babies learn to speak, they also like to put what they can catch in their mouths, including other children's arms or hands. This is only a reflection of his views on things. It seems that only by allowing him to do so can he get an accurate understanding.