1, communicate effectively with children
When parents find out that their children are stealing money from home, most people can't be calm, their emotions will be violent, and even they will directly question their children. This practice is not conducive to children's mistakes and corrections, but will stimulate children's rebellious psychology.
2. Guide children to satisfy their wishes reasonably.
Children steal money from home, which may be because children like a toy or other items, but children have no money or pocket money is not enough to satisfy their wishes, so they will steal money from their parents. The more wishes a child has, the greater the demand for money.
Parents should pay attention to their children and know their wishes and needs in time. Parents can appropriately meet their children's reasonable wishes and needs. For children's unreasonable wishes and needs, parents should guide their children, establish a long-term wish list, exchange their labor for money, and reasonably meet their wishes.
3. Give children pocket money appropriately.
When children grow up, parents can give them some pocket money appropriately and let them control their pocket money reasonably. Children can use pocket money to buy what they need, or they can use pocket money to manage money, earn more "income" and better cultivate their financial management ability.
The reasons behind children stealing money:
1, probably because the material needs are not met. Parents always think that it is useless to waste money on what children want, and neither buy nor give pocket money. They are afraid that their children will develop the habit of spending money recklessly and lavishly, that their children are short of money, and that they envy others for getting what they want, so they will tend to steal money.
2, or bullied or blackmailed, children are afraid to tell their parents or teachers and can only secretly take their parents' money.
3. It may also be that children have not formed a mature moral concept, thinking that taking their parents' money is not stealing, just like other items in the family, they have the right to use it independently. Under this "self-centered" psychology, there will be unconscious theft.