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A few years ago, Bill Gates gave back all his 58 billion possessions to the society, leaving no children, and suggested that having unearned wealth is not good for children standing at the starting line of life. ? Educational point of view, which makes many parents think? Raising children in poverty? This is the exercise for children, and it is also the wealth that our parents give them to make them independent. So parents' educational concept has also been realized? Rich kids? Arrive? Raising children in poverty? Change.
However, there are often some children who grew up under the concept of social poverty education. Although they were born in poverty, they finally got the qualification to work hard in big cities through ten years of hard work, but because of their narrow vision, it is difficult to resist the temptation of material things. Finally, they lost themselves in the materialistic big city.
Under such circumstances, many parents don't know whether to make good use of the current economic development when educating their children. Fuyang? Children, provide children with a better life. Or should it be the same? Poor support? Children pay attention to the cultivation of children's spirit and ignore their material life. In fact, these two educational methods have their own advantages and disadvantages, so no matter how parents choose, they should avoid the misunderstanding of the two educational methods.
The benefits of raising children well.
What are those? Fuyang? Our children may broaden their horizons, see more things from an early age, accumulate knowledge in their hearts and have more experience in handling things. Such children will also be more confident in their normal lives.
The benefits of raising children in poverty
As the saying goes:? Children from poor families take charge early? There is some truth in this sentence. Children with poor family conditions usually have perseverance and hard-working constitution. They know the importance of knowledge to change their destiny, so they study harder and harder.
Enrich children's misunderstandings
Actually, what are we talking about here? Poor support? And then what? Fuyang? It is based on economic conditions. Some parents think? Can't it be bitter again? Therefore, even if the economic conditions at home are not so superior, we should bite our teeth and buy brand-name clothes for our children just to prevent them from showing their faces in front of their peers? Shame? .
In fact, this educational concept is problematic. It is not wrong for parents to try their best to provide their children with good learning and living conditions, but it is wrong for parents to try to satisfy their children's material life beyond their tolerance.
Such an educational concept will lead children to form a psychological comparison. Moreover, they don't cherish the fruits of their parents' labor, and think it's natural for their parents to earn money for themselves. Once parents are unable to support their children's consumption, it may cause parent-child conflicts.
The misunderstanding of raising children in poverty
Some parents have developed a good habit of thrift in order to make their children sensible from an early age. It will limit children's living conditions to a certain extent. Children who grow up in such an environment may be wronged by themselves in order to achieve the degree of saving required by their parents. Even after a long time, you will feel out of place with others, which may lead to inferiority complex.
In short, these two educational concepts have their own merits, but at the same time, what if parents do not control the education of their children? Degree? . It may have a negative impact on children's growth. So parents should provide the best environment for their children to grow up within their own ability, but? The best? Not only material life, but also spiritual wealth can accompany the baby all his life.