1. Children don't need to be too smart and edgy. I don't think this is a good thing; The key is to cultivate good habits;

The environment is very important, so you should do it right.

3. Don't form a bad habit easily, so you will find that it takes twice as long to correct a bad habit and three times as long to form a habit; Don't introduce new bad habits to children because of short-term interests. For example, because children don't eat, turn on the TV for children to watch, so as to achieve the purpose of feeding more.

4. Respect children and get used to empathy;

5. tell the truth When you find that some truth may not be effective, you should pay attention to your speaking skills. You'd rather speak in half than lie.

6. Say what children can understand. A mother who is used to reasoning should be concise and avoid being like Tang Priest. Teach children to pay attention to skills, step by step, don't eat fat, step by step; Understand the characteristics of children now, and don't encourage them.

8. Have the foresight to know that doing so may cause children's strong resistance and compromise with themselves, so don't interfere with children, otherwise the final result will only be worse and not better.

9. Eat, pay attention to a more balanced proportion, not too fine; /kloc-before the age of 0/year, children should ensure the amount of milk; Pay attention to three meals after one year old; One day's diet can't be balanced. One week's diet can be matched and all of them can be taken into account.

10 children will not starve themselves.

1 1. You must eat in the dining chair. If you don't eat, please leave.

12. When going out to play is not as safe as eating at home, there is no need to worry too much. Pay a little attention within your ability, such as choosing a clean restaurant; Others, such as whether there is monosodium glutamate in the dish and whether the dish is green food, don't worry too much.

13. Be conscious of calcium supplementation or something. Get more sunshine.

14. Don't pay attention to clothes. Unintentionally

15. I wear almost as much as my mother.

16. Dressing up children, one less is better than one more. Children exercise a lot, and it is easier to catch a cold when the wind blows, and it is more difficult to get better.

17. The child has a runny nose and put on some clothes.

18. judge whether it is hot or cold and touch the child's back neck;

19. If you don't give your child a time, you will take small medicine at every turn. In the cold season, give your child some vc from time to time, or eat some fruit rich in vc every day.

20. When the cold symptoms are mild, such as just a runny nose, you don't need to take medicine at first, you can pour more water;

2 1. Most colds are viral, and viruses have no specific drugs. /kloc-just take the medicine for 0/4 days, and don't take the medicine for 2 weeks; Many times it is the psychological comfort of adults themselves. If you go to the hospital with a cold and fever, try to ask for a blood test;

22. Is it possible for a person not to get sick? Impossible; Therefore, don't panic when your child has a cold or a minor illness. Dialectically speaking, a cold is equivalent to an injection. There is no need to pay too much attention to this macro-inevitable thing.

23. Playing is not afraid of getting dirty.

24. Don't interfere with children's behavior too much without affecting their own safety and the interests of others.

25. Let children play freely, as long as they don't break their heads.

26. Not all dangerous things are forbidden to children; Within the controllable range, teach children where the danger is and how to avoid it.

27. Give children as many opportunities as possible to experience themselves, and don't directly tell the results; Let him grope, bump and fail;

28. Teach children to wait;

29. Teach children to be responsible for their actions;

30. Teach children that giving and returning are two-way, and learn to be grateful.

3 1. Try to sleep with your child.

32. Pay attention to protecting children's attention and interest.

33. Cold training

34. Many methods of "early education" in society, when you don't know how to do it, don't do it, do something different; I believe that it is better to be frugal than to be extravagant.

35. Children are children of society. Don't think too much of yourself as a savior, just as a child.

36. Don't dwell too much on the reasons and theoretical basis of your own parenting details. Just do it, fait accompli, not so much attention.

37. Try to ensure that one parent can play with the child for a certain time every day.

38. Try to make children laugh, and laugh several times a day.

39. Life is gamification, and games are gamification.

40. The most important thing is that I only need a child with a score of 70, so I only need to be a mother with a score of 70; Don't be hard on yourself, just get by. After all, it is the first time to be a mother.

4 1. I can't accept teaching children to face failure, but I can bear failure. I can choose to give up or attack again, but I can't cry in front of my opponent.

42. If a child attacks, learn to assess the situation, first tell him once, and then the basic principle is, fight if you can, and flee if you can't; In kindergarten, you can shout loudly to attract others' attention.

43. Don't hit people first.

No matter who starts first, you can't be the first to cry.

45. You have the right to decide your own affairs;

46. I plan to introduce the mechanism of weekly allowance to my children after I am 3 years old-I will start to learn how to do what I want to do with limited money, learn to open sources and learn to cut costs.

47. Often take children on foot and go to the suburbs; Not afraid of wind and rain

48. Try to go back to your hometown in the countryside once a year and lead a different life.

49. Don't bring the troubles of work home.

These 49 sentences have given me great enlightenment, which I think is very classic. Come and share it with everyone! Supplementary answer:

● Children are "congenital" worse than others. In fact, this "congenital" is the first three years of life, and it is the "congenital" that causes children to regret for life.

● Many tragedies begin to grow naturally, and then children are not allowed to bloom naturally, thinking that such flowers and fruits are too small.

If people miss the sensitive period of intellectual instinct, it is impossible to get the best development.

If there are proper conditions, most children can learn almost anything. And the right condition is early education!

● Another "new" concept against early education is "I want children to let nature take its course". The mistake of these people is to regard "nature" as "nature".

● As long as we all work together, it is definitely not an unreachable dream for children to successfully overcome dyslexia in kindergarten!

● What a person sows is behavior, and what he gains is habit; What is planted is habit, and what is harvested is character; What is planted is character, and what is harvested is fate.

● EQ is cultivated through potential education. It is not the school that determines a person's emotional intelligence, but the family. True EQ depends on parents' EQ.

● It is not that early education is magical, but that people's childhood is magical. The magic of early education is just another manifestation of this childhood magic.

● The development of a child in the first three years after birth. Its degree and importance exceed any stage in a child's life. ...

● More and more educators believe that a child's education before the age of three has even decided everything for him.

A woman's name is mother. A woman's greatest social responsibility is to be an excellent mother.

● Parents can't accompany their children for a lifetime, so they must cultivate their social awareness and independence awareness from an early age.

Family is the earliest, best and highest institution of higher learning. The starting point of education is not primary school or kindergarten, but family.

The success of education must be the success of the mother, not just the success of the teacher; It must be the success of the family, not just the success of preschool institutions. -All of the above are excerpted from "Looking for Mom".

● Children's good habits should start with correcting some bad behaviors. -Yang Keye

Spoiled parents should remember that everything is for their children and they don't want their children to do anything harmful to them. Children usually don't need to be spoiled and have a sense of responsibility; The result of overindulgence and coddling is insult. -(British) Lee

● Overprotection is the strangulation of children's creativity.