Looking at it, why are you getting more and more worried and angry? Why is happiness so excellent and capable? I don't understand why I married Wang Qinglai, a loser. It's really flowers in cow dung!
Personally, I feel that it is an inevitable choice, or a kind of fate, to be happy at the beginning, and whether it will come to the end in the end may only be known by the director himself. He Xingfu and Wang Qinglai: Two people whose fathers are not around meet and hit it off. Some people say that choice is the most basic wisdom in life, because we are making choices all the time. What is the logic behind the choice? In fact, it is the external manifestation of the collision of internal demands. Congratulations on happiness and marriage are the choices made by congratulations on happiness, so what is the appeal behind her choice? This should start with childhood happiness, single-parent family, father's untimely death, mother's support and sister's luck.
In the countryside, if there is no man at home, it is equivalent to no pillar. He Mu, a typical rural woman, has always been gentle and speaks softly. This weak woman has a hard time in the village and must be bullied often. And what mother confides in is only two happy and lucky sisters. Therefore, it is conceivable that He Mu, who can't fight her fate for countless nights, always tells her daughter sourly, "Our family is different from others'. We must be sensible, don't bother our mother, grow up quickly and find a reliable man to marry, so that our mother will have hope. " Even on He Xing's wedding day, after He Xing was bullied, He Mu said to her daughter, "Bear with it, this is the life of our family. We have been wronged and swallowed up. "
"Life in our family" is He Mu's orientation to her family, and it is also a label and brand for her happiness since she was a child. This brand of family background is hard to get rid of. How happy she grew up in this environment is actually extremely insecure. Without her father and mother, she can't support herself. What can she do? Let's take a look at Wang Qinglai's childhood. He was always bullied by other children when he was a child.
Originally, it was normal for children to fight and tamper with each other, but every time it was clear that Qing had suffered, it was her mother who led her to someone else's house to make amends. This scene must have stung Wang Qinglai deeply. He told himself why I always make mistakes and can't make them again. At this time, Chiang Rai's father was absent. Although you have a father, it is better than nothing, because Qinglai's father never goes too far for Qinglai, because there is no car-scrapping man in the Lao family.
Children who grow up in such a family environment will naturally become very inferior. When I am in trouble, I am afraid to express myself. I'm always afraid of making mistakes, and I even stutter when I speak loudly. The life experience and way of doing things that Wang Qinglai learned from his parents is that some people are very hard on themselves, so they should be patient and give way. There's really nothing we can do. Forget it. What can you do without his father's support?
Childhood is the source of life, and all one's happiness or misfortune can be found in childhood experiences. As the saying goes, the dragon matches the dragon, the phoenix matches the phoenix, and the blind matches the cyclops. Two children who grew up without their father, their lives are incomplete. One is insecure and the other is extremely self-abased, and both need the help of outsiders to be complete. So, why must it be Wang Qinglai? What kind of happiness is insecure? What I like is Wang Qinglai's honesty and reliability. Even though her ability is almost irrelevant, the more honest she is, the longer this sense of security will last. Unlike her father, she used to be very practical, but she has long since disappeared. This is what she wants from the bottom of her heart. Wang Qinglai can make up for the lack of her life background, so it is natural to choose Wang Qinglai. And Wang Qinglai, who is extremely inferior? In fact, since childhood, there is no choice. As long as the other party is willing, he can only passively accept it. This is his fate and his sorrow.
Will He Xingfu and Wang Qing get divorced? Is it necessary for two distant souls to get entangled? When two people get married, one must need the other, or two people need each other, and when two people divorce, this need must be gone or replaced. With the wider external world, stronger personal ability, more independent personality and wider gap with him, divorce seems inevitable.