After studying art, painting is ok, and I can basically get a good grade in art class, but I have no talent and can't develop in this direction.

Dance has been jumping from kindergarten to the third grade of junior high school. Even in high school, they wanted to ask me to dance, but in order to study, I firmly refused. After all, what about dancing at school, even if I lead the dance? Jumping around, in the end, it's just a matter of splitting the waist or something. It is useless for a boy to ask for these skills. No, these skills have no impact on life.

English helps me the most. English earned the first 1 the first 100. I earned my 1 house by learning foreign languages. Foreign languages are the most useful, and you can get a comfortable life in a more relaxed way.

English is a compulsory subject in the college entrance examination. If you have to learn, you must learn English, which will also be of great help to the college entrance examination. As long as your English level is good, no matter what major you study in the future, if you have the opportunity to go abroad or go abroad for further study, that opportunity is probably yours.

If a foreigner comes to the company, you can show your speaking and listening skills in front of the leader, and it is hard for the leader not to value you. At least they will take you with them when they go abroad.

At present, the middle class in China has great difficulty in making money between those who can speak a foreign language and those who can't. It is usually easier to speak a foreign language. After all, foreigners are relatively rich. It is much easier to spend money from foreigners' pockets than from Chinese ones.

For the same income, it is enough to earn a sum from a foreigner, but it may take 100 times from a China person to achieve the same effect.

Therefore, foreign languages are very important. If possible, don't just learn one English. It is better to master other languages. I can speak German and English.

Of course, in my day, the training class was free, and the school begged you to go, so I learned art and dance at no cost. Learning everything now costs money, and it is very expensive, even more expensive than normal education. Therefore, from the economic point of view, if you can afford it and your child has a strong learning ability, you can let your child learn anything. If you can't afford it, you can only choose one thing. It is recommended to choose only English.

I'm telling you! I won't choose any of these three "scientific" reasons! Facts have proved that "insiders" in these three fields do the same.

The premise is that the child's age is preschool:

1 Art focuses on artistic thinking and the ability to understand, examine and interpret life! Not painting "technology", every child is a born artist, and the most artistic potential stage of an artist is her "childhood"!

The country is gradually canceling the art test because of the above logic! Art classes and art exams on the market are killing children's artistic talent, this appeal! It is the voice repeatedly issued by many master's and professional colleges in China for many years!

Creative art in the market is a good idea, but there is a lack of professional teachers. When I say major, I mean to know which part of classroom teaching is the core element of art, how to protect the power of art, and integrate into the advanced experience of art, with the focus on understanding children! Even feel the children's perspective, impression and thinking dimension of this artistic content! These, looking in the market, are unrealistic!

It is the right way to take children to experience the richness and beauty in life, to appreciate works of art and to feel the artistic energy! When children have an interest and a unique understanding of life, it is "timely" to find a real professional tutor in formal channels to learn "technology" and improve "skills"! A good tutor can transfer real artistic energy to children.

2 English, the current international trend of this subject is that it is a basic and necessary subject, and it is no longer a dominant subject. Employment prospects have been unpopular for many years, and the gold content of the application is not very high! The Ministry of Education has begun to reform. Some provinces and cities implement the English middle school entrance examination to lower scores!

In this era of all kinds of translation machines and information explosion, whether English or German, French or Chinese is more mainstream is not the key. The key is that the trend of language learning is no longer bilingual, but multilingual! Whether it is the second generation of the world's leading enterprises or the second generation of students, they usually begin to prepare for a multilingual environment when their children are very young because of their visual and conscious advantages. Think about it, do we still need to pay a large proportion of cost and energy to compete with them in bilingual? Of course, children have the will, except interest! English should not disappear, but should be left to those children who are good at and like English!

The best way to learn English is to "soak" more, listen more and watch more appropriately on the premise that the mother tongue of the child is basically stable after the age of three (cartoons are only in pure English without subtitles), with the emphasis on "full context"! Even make-up classes, or even one-on-one classes, are not the right environment for English learning. The real learning state is that children are fully integrated into English life for at least half a day in a pure bilingual kindergarten!

Moreover, the pronunciation standards of English cram schools and super-long classes in the market are not standardized, and some foreign teachers are not "teachers" abroad! Therefore, it is irrational to train students in the whole context from childhood, or to follow the school regularly, or to continue studying in the whole context of an international school and find a class outside! The cost performance is too low!

3 Dance is also an art. The truth of people in the art circle is that they are not eager to let their children "study and train" art projects prematurely, but only through years of "suspense" and "gluttony", and then carefully find a truly professional teacher for their children to learn, and this teacher usually means not only teaching, but also professional improvement.

Dance training should pay attention to children's bones not to open so early! Will affect the development and growth! Many dance classes in the market will be eager for quick success, induce parents to take exams, strengthen the training of children, and often have injury accidents. What is even more frightening is that the invisible harm to the child's future will gradually appear after more than ten years! The result is not only physically hurting children, but also killing children who were originally full of imagination and yearning for dance in interest and psychology!

Now the dance class has evolved into a complete "training"! That's the way of animals, not what we humans deserve! About beauty, about rhythm, about love, has gradually disappeared in the part of classroom content structure, because what parents need more recently is the so-called results. What have they learned and how many can they jump? grading ...

When I was young, I liked more dance competitions and programs. Keep a good foundation yourself, and let your children learn when they are full of interest!

My daughter took dance lessons for a semester when she was three years old. The main purpose is to teach her basic skills and introduce her interest in enlightenment. Later, when she was six years old, she was no longer allowed to take dance lessons. She likes to watch dance storms, and she always dances by herself. The disadvantage is that her movements are not standard. The advantage is that she has a deeper understanding of music, body and emotion and a deeper degree of love! She likes to compose and dance according to different music! And she persisted in the basic training on weekdays, and the softness of her body was not abandoned. I believe that if she enters the professional dance in the future, dancing has already become one of her lifelong loves, and this is the real value of the special dance class!

If you only choose one item, it must be English; If conditions permit, learn all three.

The reasons for choosing English are based on the following considerations:

First, English is very important for grades.

English is a compulsory content for children from primary school to graduate school. Moreover, from primary school to high school, English is a basic subject alongside Chinese and mathematics, and its importance is self-evident. Although some people say that learning is not all about exams, at least it is mainly for exams, right? In the case that many children in the same class are tutoring English, learning English after class has become a choice that parents have to make.

Second, English is very important for work.

Since the reform and opening up, China has become more and more international, and it is likely that children will inevitably come into contact with and use English in their future work. If he can't learn English well, it will cause great obstacles to his future work and study.

Third, learn English earlier and more. Language environment is very important, but family education can't meet the requirements.

English is not our mother tongue. Of course, the sooner you learn a language, the better. After children's knowledge of Chinese is formed, they should learn English. This time is about 3 years old. Language learning is divided into "listening, speaking, reading and writing" stages, and ordinary families cannot provide an environment for learning English. "Listening" can also play recordings, but "speaking" is difficult for most parents. On the one hand, many parents used to learn "dumb English", on the other hand, many parents have no need to speak these years; The third is that many parents are not confident in their teaching ability. "Reading" can also use tools, and "writing" is very difficult for parents. Therefore, if conditions permit, it is very necessary to choose a professional English training institution as soon as possible to let children learn English and stick to it.

About dance and art, if possible, try to learn. Homework in primary school is not tense, and there is no conflict between learning English and dancing art, otherwise children may spend all their time playing. Don't believe in happy education, release children's nature. Children should study more, otherwise it is a waste of nature.

Through the process of learning, observe whether children have this talent and interest, to determine whether they can embark on the professional road in the future and provide more choices for children.

However, it is not recommended to learn dance too early, because some experts have said that learning dance early will affect children's physical development, and it is recommended to be after 6 years old. And in the process of dance practice, we must pay attention to protection and not cause physical harm to children. Do your best. As for art, we should start from kindergarten, and professional art should start from primary school.

Dance and art, if you have no talent, it is not recommended to continue studying, otherwise it will be difficult for yourself and your children. Of course, we should also consider the economic situation comprehensively.

A little advice, please forgive me if there is anything wrong.

Thank you for your question and share my views and experiences.

Viewpoint: If you can only choose one, then this question should be asked to the child, which one does she like best? All interest classes are based on children's interests, children like them, parents insist, remind and encourage children when they are lazy occasionally, and finally they will surely reap the fruits of victory. On the contrary, we just force children to choose from the eyes of adults, and children will resist learning. In the end, it will only become more and more disgusted and more and more resistant. Parents think that if they spend money, their children will not study hard and waste time and money. In the end, all their grievances will be sprinkled on their children, which will lead to tension between parents and children, which is the last thing we want to see. If all three children are interested and parents can only choose one, I suggest dancing. Because painting and English children will have contact at school, and the school also has professional teachers to teach, so there is no need to register extra. On the contrary, dance can only be studied in off-campus institutions. Dance can shape children's body and temperament, and growing up into society is one of their own specialties. Nowadays, many companies have various league organizations. If you have a good specialty at this time, you can also stand out and leave a deep impression on the leaders. So I suggest learning to dance.

Experience: My boss also signed up for an interest class when he was 8 years old. I was also in the stage of learning and exploring. Because I didn't know what my child's specialty was, my child didn't understand these interesting lessons at first, so I took him to learn and explore. When applying for classes, you should choose to hand in the semester instead of the academic year. In this way, if the child is not interested in this course after studying for one semester, he will give up after the first period. Of course, choosing an interest class here is not a blind choice. Trying all these methods is also a waste of time and money. Just choose a few popular courses suitable for children's age.

The above personal views are for reference only!

I think it varies from person to person. English school teachers can teach and study well at home when they go to cram school, which is also twice the result with half the effort. Most of my daughter's classes are in the new concept English cram school, and her grades are not stable every time. There is a cram school student who took the exam in the fifth grade and got about 85. His mother asked the teacher how the exam was so low in the parents' WeChat group. Unbelievable. I'm confused, too. The child's parents are very responsible and the child works hard. He punches in the circle of friends and recites English words and texts every day. It stands to reason that he should be able to achieve better results. But this is the city's fifth grade primary school unified examination, computer marking, very fair. What's the problem? On the contrary, my daughter got full marks in the third grade. Later, it was about 95 points, and this level actually got the first place in the class. This strengthened my decision. Grandpa Mao, who is attending an English cram school, might as well let his children learn something other than learning, such as guzheng and painting. Some people think that these are useless for learning, so it is better to learn English. I think the two complement each other. I don't intend to let her rely on this in the future, but I just want her to cultivate her sentiment, not for makeup other than life in the future.

In the sixth grade this year, at the beginning of school, the teacher asked the parents in the WeChat group who would go to the English cram school and asked them to take the lead. Only a few didn't go.

Everyone will go, but you won't, which makes me a little suspicious. It would be better if the children went to cram school. Am I doing the right thing or the right thing?

Hello, this parent! I am a kindergarten teacher. I have studied vocal music, dance, art, piano and English. My child and I had differences on the choice of her interest class before, but later I respected my child's choice. Let me talk about my views and experiences!

First, respect children's choices. Many parents may think that if I respect my child's choice, he may not report any of them. Don't worry, put this question in the back. Respect children, because only children know what they really like. Only when people are interested in what they are interested in can they have strong motivation and learn actively, not passively, for you. My child is interested in playing table tennis and chess, and later I supported her to learn these.

When my child is in kindergarten, I really hope she can learn dance. Girls will become excellent when they learn to dance. But this is just my hope. Children are not interested in dancing at all. Once, the teacher said to me: when the child is in the dance class, he stands there motionless. My teacher and I have been communicating with my child for a long time, hoping that the child can seriously attend class and encourage her. But it's no use. Children always do this in dance classes. This shows that children are just not interested in dancing. So, I let my child learn, but she doesn't want to learn, and it's no use. It is important to respect children's choices.

Second, understand the areas that children are good at. Every child is good at different fields. If a child studies and develops in the field he is good at, he will learn easily. On the contrary, you will feel very tired if you persist in areas that you are not good at. He needs several times the time of others. How to judge which field a child is good at? Look at his language expression, mathematics, logical thinking, artistic sensibility, creativity and so on. Parents can advise their children where to develop by observing their outstanding places.

People's left and right brains are different, and their development is unbalanced. Generally, the left brain has the functions of language, concepts, numbers, analysis and logical reasoning. The right hemisphere is responsible for all activities on the left, and the right brain has the functions of music, painting, space geometry, imagination and synthesis.

People with developed right hemisphere may have stronger perception and imagination.

Moreover, perception, sense of space and ability to grasp the overall situation may be stronger.

All kinds of movements are relatively more agile.

The left brain is active in social situations and is good at judging various relationships and causes and effects.

Developed left brain, good at statistics and strong sense of direction. The left brain is developed and good at organization.

The left brain is developed and is good at doing technical and abstract work.

Because of the difference between the left and right brains, it is decided that everyone is good at different things.

English is considered as a very important subject. I have been learning English since I graduated from school. My bachelor's degree is English major. At that time, I thought I could go to some educational institutions to teach after learning English well. I study very hard. Listening to English, memorizing English words and practicing oral English in the English corner every day, but I find that my grades are not very good after I have paid so much. Poor listening and speaking ability. I didn't think I was fit for this, so I gave up. Later, he was deeply cultivated in the field of education. It was later found that this should be caused by the difference between the left and right brains.

A good major depends on your suitability. It will be easier to do what you are good at and like, and it will be easier to make achievements.

Of the three options you mentioned, if I had to take my child to choose, she would choose English. But the reason why I choose English is because English is not developed as an interest, but because of the needs of exams. I can't help it English should be studied in universities, and English should be tested when going abroad. English is a compulsory course for exams and a language tool for communicating with people after going abroad. Therefore, learning is necessary, not because you like it.

If you want to really cultivate your child's interest, start from his interest! There are so many subjects in the world that there are always children who like them. Why limit yourself to these three choices?

You must let your children learn one of the three options: art, dance and English. I suggest studying art.

There is no shortage of beauty in this world, but a pair of eyes to discover beauty. rodin

From the beginning of primary school art, children can improve their hands-on ability, observe their concentration, be influenced by beauty, and learn to discover and appreciate beauty.

Quiet as a virgin, gentle, isn't that what you often say about other people's children?

Art, dance and English, if you can only choose one of the three, what do you suggest? This should be analyzed in detail. What is suitable is the best.

Our boss took part in all three projects. Let me give my opinion.

Art, the first grade of primary school, the child just went to school and couldn't sit still. I have several friends who study art, and we auditioned once. The children thought it was fun, so they signed up for Chinese painting. After studying for a semester, the child doesn't want to learn, so it will go away. Another student has been studying until now because he likes it, and the district and city cultural performances always win the first prize. Listen to your mother and prepare for the Academy of Fine Arts.

If there is a clear training goal, children will follow this path in the future and will be exposed from an early age. If you go to high school, you want to take the Central Academy of Fine Arts or something. I'm a little nervous about studying again. And now the art test is not as simple as everyone thinks. All the premises are that children like it, at least not exclusive.

Dance, practiced by most little girls when they were young, plays an undeniable role in improving girls' temperament and figure. Our children have been insisting on this hobby since childhood, and they are still practicing in the second year of high school, and they are not going to take the art test.

Some people may think it's not worth it, but sticking to any hobby has its advantages. Children have participated in numerous performances since childhood and have good stage experience and typhoons. Be able to speak calmly and confidently in front of all teachers and students. This is also an ability.

Compared with other majors, the disadvantage of dancing is that if you don't practice, your bones will harden. Unlike musical instruments and art, learning is learning. Pick it up and you can play and draw.

Like the choice of art, if the goal is clear, you can choose from primary school. It's a little late to learn in the third and fourth grades, and the bones will harden, which will be a little hard.

English, our children began to learn new concepts from kindergarten to the fourth grade of primary school, and learned the first half of freshman and sophomore before the sixth grade of primary school. Junior high school English has always been a dominant subject. I seldom worry about English study. Listening and pronunciation are very standard. It is also the greatest benefit of exam-oriented education in all training courses from childhood to university.

Generally speaking, from the perspective of exam-oriented education, if you can only choose one of the general ways of entering a higher school, push English. The other two are just icing on the cake. And if you pay attention to English learning, it will really help exam-oriented education.

Teach without class!

Teacher Kong, a great educator, said that children can teach well. However, many children are delayed by confused parents and teachers!

For example, people who ask questions are likely to mislead others.

The difference between people is great!

Hobbies, growth experience, IQ level, personality and physique ...

There are no identical children in the world. So how can there be a universal education method? How can there be a learning style suitable for all children?

We can only say that according to the syllabus, art class and English class are all in the syllabus. So study. However, there is no suggested type of extracurricular learning that is useful for all children!

Some of them turned against each other for learning piano.

Some of them become enemies because of learning English!

Give me another one, I know. The mother was forced to learn dance because of the child's skeletal dysplasia. As a result, the bone cracked when practicing martial arts, and the child cried after being injured! The doctor said it might affect walking in the future. ...

Parents are dumbfounded!

My brother's two sons are one and a half years apart. Their story, I said, you listen to:

Just call a pair of monkeys to do the experiment!

The big monkey and the little monkey are the same father and mother. Same family, same house. The same nanny, the same midwife, even the bed, clothes, food, toys … are all the same.

Now, a twelve-year-old monkey. Learn to bully one!

Olympic champion. Or a monitor. First prize in the poetry competition. Piano Band 8. Just say it! The prize won by the big monkey is equivalent to the sum of the prizes won by me (his sister), his father, his brother and his mother.

Certificates can be pasted all over the wall!

The teacher said, this is the seedling of Beiqing! What he likes best is the lecture given by Mr Luo Xiang, a lawyer. A primary school student's hobby is listening to the French exam (bar exam) to make up for it. Do you find it strange?

The big monkey's dream is to be a human rights lawyer.

The other son is a little monkey.

Little monkeys are also famous at school. People send nicknames: learn to stick to people! The villain's stick!

He humiliated the whole grade by himself. Developed four classes of underworld backbones. He once wanted to hit a classmate. He perfectly avoided all the surveillance, used seven classmates to bring his enemies out, went to the toilet, and then ordered the thugs to commit crimes!

A perfect excuse for not being there.

He is having dinner with his girlfriend. Right under the camera of the surveillance system ...

If one of his men hadn't made a mistake and pushed the "victim" on the playground in advance, this strange "toilet falling case" would not have been solved. His brother said that he would not need legal fees to defend his brother in the future. )

As for study. Little monkey tasted the forbidden fruit for the first time. Failure appeared in the third grade.

Little monkey's hobby is crosstalk. He can remember the names of newspapers. "Roast duck, roast deer tail and roast goose. ...................................................................................................................................................................

I can also sing "Exploring Qingshui River". Say allegro,

I like erhu and I play it very well. It's like a funeral, and the piano sounds like crying.

My neighbor's aunt dare not stay at home alone!

The queen's sister left next door just moved here for half a year, so she took the time to go on a blind date!

Grandma Wang downstairs always misses her wife and dreams about him! Although my wife has been dead for twenty years. ...

I can't eat well. I eat and he plays the piano. I always feel that I am eating a "big white banquet" in my hometown.

He just stubbornly dislikes the piano. Schumann, Chopin, Mozart and One Piece are all inferior to A Bing.

Little monkeys like painting, too.

What do you see and draw? Very vivid. However, he hates painting classes.

I specifically consulted a director of the Artists Association and asked what to do in this situation. After watching the little monkey's practice, the expert's advice is: "Never report to class!" " "Let the children play their own understanding. He has a gift for painting. It was ruined after the early shift. ...

Oil painting of the little monkey at the age of seven: in the ocean. After being exhibited in a gallery in Singapore, it was auctioned at the price of S $850 (equivalent to RMB3,000). Brother said that the little monkey can support himself by art in the future.

Little monkey's English is very poor. I didn't like it since I was a child. I don't like memorizing words. When the big monkey is ten years old, he can write poems in English.

There are no identical children. Only rigid and stereotyped education methods!

Every child is a genius, but most geniuses will be killed!

Don't be so rigid in educating children. Observe carefully, think carefully, and then make learning choices suitable for children. This is very important! Otherwise, there will be a situation of learning one line and being tired.

Education is not a buffet! Make yourself at home. ...

Art.

Art and dance seem to be both specialties, and English is now a compulsory course for children at school.

But if I choose only one item, I will choose art.

If I am a parent of a junior high school or a senior high school student now, maybe I will choose English, because English is about grades.

But now I am the mother of a five-year-old child, and I choose art.

In my opinion, art and music, like words, are a way of expression.

When I am sad, some people choose to sing, others choose to write (writing novels, diaries, letters, etc. ), some choose to paint, and some choose to play musical instruments.

The same is true when you are happy.

I choose painting because I want my children to have another way to express themselves and express their feelings.

So when he is in a good mood, he can write and draw. ...

I don't ask him to make a living like this, nor do I ask him to become famous like this.

I just hope he can express himself more comprehensively and express his emotions.