1. Talking is a common way of education between parents and children. But you must remember where and how to say it. As far as occasions are concerned, don't talk when you are angry and have guests. We need a two-way communication in the way, instead of parents nagging and clinging to a small problem, to arouse children's interest and teach them their own experience through interest points.

2. Praise and reward are both an affirmation for children and a good incentive in education. When children behave well, you can give oral performances or intimate gestures, but praise the things themselves. There are also material rewards as a means, but remember not to use money as a reward. It can be guided correctly through books or hobbies.

3. Set an example. Many parents' behaviors will lead to children's imitation, so parents here must set an example and match their words with deeds. In addition, when you need to pay attention, don't take too many notes of others and children, which will make children rebellious.

4. Apologizing is a display in the family. If parents misunderstand that their children need to apologize, don't feel humiliated, but it is a means to convince them. And parents must sincerely apologize and can't make excuses.

5. activities. If a family wants to develop well, it needs a good atmosphere, and a good atmosphere of identity is also conducive to education. Parents can take part in activities with their children, such as outing, shopping, interest activities and so on. In this way, parents can sum up and deepen their relationship with their children in the activities, and also find out their needs.

6. Tolerance means that parents can forgive their children calmly when they make mistakes (this is not a big mistake), such as showing a sad mood and touching their heads, but tolerance does not mean that they will not discipline their children.

7. criticism. When criticizing children, family members should not criticize today's mistakes together with previous mistakes, but keep calm when judging. You can praise its advantages and criticize its shortcomings first. Or criticize yourself first and then judge the children. After all, it's not the godfather's fault.