The reality is cruel. No matter how hard and tired children are, only a few will eventually become "people", only a few will succeed, and the vast majority will eventually become "ordinary people" like their parents!
Although the rationality of many young parents tells them that the probability of their children becoming "talented people" is very low, they still have an illusion, and they are also worried that if they don't force their children to study hard, they can't even be "ordinary people".
In fact, we all know that neither people nor heinous criminals get it suddenly, and childhood experiences often become the reference for their adult behavior. Having a happy and normal childhood is generally difficult to produce evil thoughts and behaviors. Of course, happiness is not the extreme indulgence that makes children become people, but the daily happiness of ordinary people whose parents and children are the same. Children learn social behavior norms from their parents, and occasionally they can be spoiled. If they make mistakes, they will be warmly reprimanded by their parents and then tirelessly taught. ...
According to social status and wealth, becoming an ordinary person is a high probability event for every family and child, but not everyone can become a happy ordinary person.
Many children go through hard childhood, adolescence and adolescence, and finally become an ordinary and painful ordinary person, and many children go through happy childhood, adolescence and adolescence, and finally become an ordinary but happy ordinary person.
It is the wish of every hard-working parent, but it is a pity that hard-working children suffer hardships during their studies, because their physical development is not perfect and their intelligence and psychology are not sound, which means that suffering in adulthood may be a high probability event. Don't think getting into a good university is a bitter experience. A psychology confined on campus, without the influence of normal social environment and without full development, may not stand any baptism at all.
Chatting with colleagues at noon, I have a * * * knowledge: children can grow up healthily and safely, even if they become ordinary people, why not? Of course, it is not easy to make a child become a happy ordinary person now.
It is even more difficult for young parents to accept their children as ordinary people than to make up lessons, choose training courses and try to make money to choose schools for their children. In fact, isn't the child's suffering brought by parents?
Children are destined to be ordinary people. Why not let them be ordinary people happily? It is still a test of the wisdom of these young parents who have little life experience to let their children become ordinary people in happiness and pain!
Author: Hirono