Speech at the exchange meeting of parents' experience 1 Hello, parents and teachers!
First of all, thank you for giving me the opportunity to speak here, and thank you for listening. Honestly, let me tell you. I am really scared, because we are all sitting here with some excellent parents, who are more experienced than me and do a better job in educating children. The children in this class are also excellent children, showing extraordinary talents and unique characteristics in some aspects, which also reflects the Excellence of our parents. So I'm worried that my speech is teaching others how to teach others how to swim. However, today is the parents' experience exchange meeting, and I have carefully summed up what I think is a relatively successful experience and shared it with you.
Let me make a self-evaluation of my children first. In terms of learning, children's junior high school test scores have been maintained in the top 50 grades. I think learning is very good, whether in front of children or behind their backs. When others talk about academic performance, I will be proud of their academic performance, which is the first advantage of children. In terms of mental health, I think the child is very sunny and has always been a cheerful and happy child. He has no negative emotions such as melancholy, sadness and depression. He faces us with a lovely and childish smile every day, which makes his father and I very happy. It is also extremely happy to have such a child. In moral quality, children can be kind to others, have the same appearance, stress social morality and abide by social order. In a word, I have always been satisfied with my children. Of course, children also have shortcomings that give me a headache, such as laziness and laziness. However, the child is still recognized as a good boy. Of course, I also hope that my parents, like me, appreciate and are satisfied with their children. I think this is the basis of successful education, identify with your children, like your children, and be proud of your advantages! The following is what I have done for my children's strengths.
First of all, I think making children grow up happily is the most important step in family education.
First, let children be happy physically and mentally. Parents should love each other. Children want their parents to love each other most. Parents can't be too intimate in front of their children. For example, when our family went out for a walk, his father and I sneaked around, and he followed us like a puppy. I think children's happiness is based on the harmonious relationship between parents. It is very important to give children a happy and warm home.
Second, always show love for children. Love for children can't just be kept in your heart, but should be shown. When my child comes home from school, I often give him a hug or kiss when he comes in. This child is really cute. I often want to hug him at home and kiss his delicate and smooth face from time to time. Children will also hug their mothers from time to time, especially when they ask their mothers. I call him "Baby Bay" and he calls me "Mama Bao". This kind of closeness of skin and words naturally brings the relationship between mother and child closer. Even if I sometimes lose my temper or hit him in a hurry, he knows that his mother loves him the most and won't hate him. Before his tears dried up, he smiled and stuck it on my cold face.
Third, always listen to your children. Children have no brothers or sisters at home, so they can't hide anything in their hearts. When they came home from class, they went on. Whether I am interested or not, I will pretend to listen carefully. Sometimes I really need to listen to understand what the child is doing and thinking. Moreover, while listening, I think of myself as a person as big as him, and I think of myself at the same age. I can't take out my parents' theory to educate him. For example, someone's secret was discovered today. Who said "I love you" to a lesbian under their temptation! How do the female students behave now? How funny they are. He often talks about boys and girls when he goes home. I told myself in my heart not to surf the Internet, and I couldn't tell him anything like "Don't always pay attention to boys and girls", because paying attention to the opposite sex is the characteristic of his physical and psychological development at this age. He can tell his parents that this is a healthy performance, but not saying it does not mean that he does not attach importance to the opposite sex. With parents' listening and unconditional acceptance, children generally don't have psychological problems, and they don't need to go outside or online to find people who listen to themselves and accept themselves. Children also feel that their parents understand themselves as their intimate friends and will tell their parents when they encounter problems.
Secondly, it is very important for children to grasp the general direction in their studies. The meaning of children to learning is often not as clear as that of us adults. If children don't know the meaning of learning, they won't stimulate their long-term strong learning motivation and persistent interest, especially those learning projects that need persistence. If they didn't know the use of studying, they wouldn't work so hard. My children have been instilled by me since childhood, knowing that they have advantages in learning and can take the road of university-master-doctor-high-end science and technology professionals. He agrees with this kind of self, and consciously strives to shape this kind of self, so he is willing to learn and willing to learn. For example, in English, I said that learning English requires practicing oral English, and listening, writing and speaking and writing are the real skills. Only in the future can he study abroad and participate in international academic activities, so he is willing to imitate sentences repeatedly with English tapes, so that he can watch online videos with English subtitles and try to translate them sentence by sentence. As long as a child knows the meaning of learning in his study, he will study consciously. As for how he learns, it depends on the teacher. In fact, my child is very talented in math study, but he is not very savvy in English and Chinese study, so I give him more guidance in English study, and I am not savvy in Chinese myself, so I can't help him much. I tried my best to urge the teacher according to his instructions. I haven't been in charge of math since his primary school, I haven't checked his homework, and I haven't given him any lessons. It's all taught by teachers. It's just that he has a problem and can't do it, so I gave him some inspiration. For example, I met an engineering problem in primary school, and I really couldn't solve it. When I was asked, I was afraid of the engineering problems in primary schools, and I was also the most confused, so I asked him how to solve such problems first, and he told me how to solve the engineering problems, and then I solved them for him in the way he told me. I am good at junior high school problems, but I deliberately asked him to tell me how to solve them first. Sometimes when he tells me, he will understand. Sometimes I give him some inspiration and he suddenly realizes, but he doesn't encounter too many problems, so I feel very relieved. Of course, this is one of the great advantages of my children. Different children are highly savvy in different aspects, which is the credit of the children themselves. In short, learning is to grasp the direction from a big angle, let children know the meaning of learning, be willing to learn, know what to learn, and his learning will naturally come.
Finally, the cultivation of children's morality in life can not be ignored. On the one hand, my father and I try to be role models for our children. Be kind to others, don't cause trouble to others, abide by public morality, respect the old and love the young, abide by the law, be strict with yourself and do no bad things. On the other hand, I insist on watching some legal programs such as the Law Lecture Hall of cctv- 12 with my children every day. My children have learned a lot of legal knowledge. At the same time, I often tell him some news I saw in the media, discuss the truth, goodness and beauty of human nature together, learn lessons from negative examples, so that I won't repeat the same mistakes, see the power of morality from positive people, and turn it into an example for children to learn.
Now, our parents are most concerned about their children's academic performance. In fact, as long as children are happy and healthy all day, know what kind of person they will become in the future, receive good moral education, and be loved and appreciated by their parents every day, children will naturally love learning, and the more they learn, the better. Some children may study late, and once they get the hang of it, they will make rapid progress.
Parents sitting here, if our children study well, we should be proud of them; If our children don't study as well as we expected, don't worry, as long as our children are happy all day, as long as our children have ideals and know how to realize them, as long as our children have good moral quality, we don't worry, they will get good grades sooner or later and their lives will be wonderful. What we need is to get along well with children, and what we need is to wait patiently.
Finally, thank you teachers and parents!
Speech at the parents' experience exchange meeting 2. Hello, teachers and parents!
Thank the school for giving me this opportunity, and I hope everyone will give me more guidance.
First of all, I want to thank the school teachers for their hard work. The children have hardly had a few days off since school started last year. But behind this incident is the teachers' greater efforts. I often hear children say, "Teacher Wang Xiaojie, the class teacher, lives in Jiaozuo and went back for a few days during the May Day holiday after school started." She is the owner of this place, and everyone stays in the classroom except for dinner time. Who doesn't have a home and who doesn't want to be comfortable! But the teacher sacrificed his home and time for our children. I won't say much about praising teachers, they are everywhere. I just often teach children to be grateful: there are thousands of occupations in Qian Qian, but only teachers are the noblest, and only teachers impart all their knowledge to students without reservation. High school teachers work harder! The child is very tired, but only for three years, but the teacher will accompany the child for a lifetime, and hard work is also a lifetime. Knowing this truth will make her know how to be grateful, make children cherish the teacher's efforts, understand the teacher better, and consciously abide by school discipline.
Let's talk about communicating with children, cooperating with school education, and sharing my feelings: As we all know, teachers have arranged their children's study properly, and our parents actually need to adjust their children's state, including their life and psychological state. There are as many as two children now, and there is only one in our family. You can imagine how naive these children are. I have never beaten my children, and even criticized them loudly for a limited number of times, but when children grow up, they have more and more troubles and less temper. How to care for our children and guide them with our life experience is really a big problem! I'm nothing special. I just make friends with our children. It's not intentional. It's maternal love. My heart is full of her. I played whatever she played when I was a child. When she grows up, she tells me everything, because I can help her without scolding her. For example, after this division, she obviously began to feel uneasy, and the advantage of big synthesis no longer existed, and her performance ranking fell by more than a dozen places. She is no longer so confident in sunshine. She is annoyed with everything around her: what classmates talk to her, the food at school is not good, and the students in the dormitory don't sleep …! It's not right anywhere anyway. In fact, I know what she lost was confidence. It doesn't matter if the grades are poor. Without confidence, there is no motivation! But it's no use rushing. She won't listen to you. I remember an educator said: When a child needs to talk, he must be good at playing this role, and don't judge whether what he said is right or wrong. They are young, and it is inevitable that they will see things one-sided or even extreme, but in any case, don't contradict him and let him spit out his grievances quickly, so that he will relax. It's also easier to listen to others. At this time, moderate guidance will lead him to the right path. All I can do is vent with her, care about her as much as I can, find her advantages and praise her. Sometimes when she is busy at work, she will leave a hand-painted smiling face on the table in her room to show her encouragement. In this way, children will be calmer, their state will be adjusted, and their studies will make obvious progress.
Everyone sitting here today has the same identity-parents in the eyes of children and parents in the eyes of teachers. Everyone must have the same wish: I hope your son will become a dragon and your daughter will become a phoenix. My idea: Jackie Chan and Cheng Feng should either be admitted to Tsinghua Peking University or let their children grow up healthily and study hard. Children's grades are high or low because of such factors, but this does not mean that our children are not good. Doesn't mean they won't succeed. So I often tell our children that it is a good boy to go to college, and it is also a good boy to go to college. The key is to do the right thing and do the right thing. We should study hard and unite our classmates at school. When I grow up, I won't regret wasting time.
What kind of parents are good parents? I think they are parents who patiently accompany their children to grow up. Even if our saplings are not as strong as others, as the closest relatives around us, we should take care of them patiently. As a parent, I think it is to understand the teacher and cooperate with the school! Work hard for three years to give children a blue sky!
Speech at the experience exchange meeting of parent-teacher conference 3 Hello parents, I'm Han xx's mother. Today, at the invitation of Mr. Chen, I feel honored and ashamed to exchange my experience in educating children at this parent-teacher meeting, because in fact, the experience is far from it. At present, most families have only one child. I am also crossing the river by feeling the stones and constantly exploring how to better educate my children. So I'm just here today to talk about my experience this semester, I hope.
My experience mainly includes the following three points:
First, the teacher's requirements should be fulfilled to the letter.
Before xx entered primary school from kindergarten, we were very uncertain about how to make the children transition smoothly from kindergarten life with play as the main task to primary school life with learning knowledge as the main task, so as to complete the young connection. I have read some books in this field and consulted some people who have experienced it, but what impressed me the most is the words of a friend who is also a primary school teacher, that is, "What parents can do well is to cooperate with the teacher and fulfill the teacher's requirements to the letter." Come to think of it, it's true. Educating children, we are all amateurs, and we all cross the river by feeling the stones. We constantly correct the education methods that are not suitable for children in our mistakes. Although this has also achieved results, the results are limited and the cost is high. Because of the professional relationship, teachers have rich experience in educational methods, steps and key arrangements. If we can actively cooperate with teachers, complete teachers' learning requirements for children without discount, and form home-school interaction, we will go less.
Second, the cultivation of good study habits.
I remember when I first entered school in August last year, the school teacher gave our parents a parent training. During the training, all teachers, without exception, repeatedly stressed that it is easier for parents and children to form good study and living habits that will benefit them for life from the beginning. Therefore, from the very beginning, special attention has been paid to helping children develop good study habits, from getting up early and going to bed early, reading and writing in a correct posture, to developing the habit of copying exercise books and doing homework as soon as they get home, from reviewing homework to reading extracurricular books. Every day, we let him do it according to this fixed pattern, which has been maintained for a period of time. The child has basically adapted to this law and the learning effect is good.
Third, the cultivation of learning interest.
Love to play is the nature of children, not only children, but also adults. Only when they are interested can they learn quickly and remember. Therefore, in order to make children fall in love with learning, they must be interested in learning and learn while playing. This is the best effect. Before Han xx went to primary school, he had some contact with mathematics. He is also sensitive to numbers, but we are not too worried about math. But xx has never been exposed to Chinese Pinyin. We are afraid that he will be mixed with English, so we spend more time and energy on learning Pinyin, telling him that as long as he learns Pinyin, he can know all the words through Pinyin, and insisting that he memorize all the newly learned Pinyin every day. I encourage him to read more interesting extracurricular books with pinyin and practice spelling by himself to stimulate children's interest in learning. After he became interested, xx thought he could know many words, so he began to ask his parents to dictate to him. In this way, xx will dictate more or less with his homework every day, especially when the teacher dictated in class for the first time. xx listened to all the words easily and was praised by the teacher, which increased his confidence and interest in learning. Also, xx prefers to play with mobile phones, so we give him the task of texting at home, so that he can practice pinyin spelling while playing, and also exercise his children's expression ability.
The above is my superficial understanding of educating children this semester. Every child is the treasure of parents, and parents place all their hopes on their children. However, every child has his own distinct personality characteristics and strengths, some are gifted in music, some are gifted in mathematics, some are lively and active, and some are quiet and thoughtful. Our parents can't expect their children to be excellent in all aspects, especially in learning. Every child has a different method that suits him. We should pay attention to individual differences. I believe that parents have better and more educational methods. In short, what suits your child is the best. Thank you teachers and parents.
Speech at the parents' experience exchange meeting 4 Dear teachers and parents:
Hello everyone! I'm Ou xx's mother. First of all, I would like to thank Mr. Chen for giving me such an opportunity to discuss children's education with you. I am also very grateful to the teacher for his careful cultivation of Ou Yang. The children's progress in school permeates the hard work of teachers. Here, please allow me to say, on behalf of the parents present, "Thank you, you have worked hard!" " "
In fact, speaking of family education experience, compared with the parents present, I have not done enough. Here I mainly talk about two fragmentary experiences, which I hope to discuss with you:
First, cultivate a good schedule.
Because of the nature of my job, I can basically lead a regular life. Occasionally work overtime and come home late. No matter whose family it is, there is always someone who promises to accompany Ou xx in life and work. I make breakfast in the morning (try not to eat out), grandma takes her to school, and I go to work. By the time I got home from work at 6 o'clock, Ou Yang had finished her homework with grandma. I just looked at her schoolbag and homework, looked at what she learned that day and checked her homework that day. After dinner, I will ask her to review what she learned that day and preview her lessons for the next day. Then go downstairs with her to do proper exercise, jump rope and run. Go home on time around eight o'clock, make a glass of milk for the child, then wash with her, make sure to go to bed at nine o'clock on time, read books separately in bed, or read books together, and turn off the lights and go to bed at nine thirty on time. According to this schedule, parents will give up a lot of their own entertainment time, but after forming a habit, enjoying the process of staying at home with their children will bring you a lot of happiness. In addition to a good schedule, children should also pack their own luggage, dress themselves, learn to take care of themselves, and undertake some housework, such as taking out the garbage and sweeping the floor. After children have a sense of responsibility for life, they will naturally have a sense of responsibility for learning and know how to take care of people.
Second, actively cooperate with the teacher's education plan.
It is my essential job to read the teacher's blog every day and complete it one by one according to the requirements in the blog. Only by actively and solidly following the teacher's teaching rhythm can the learning foundation be solid. Usually we also use games to train our children, such as going to the supermarket. We told her that she can buy what she wants with 20 yuan today, and it can't exceed the money given by adults, so that addition and subtraction can be applied to real life. There will also be "solitaire games", such as: white rabbits, rabbits, melon seeds, watermelons ... parents should interact with their children so that they will not feel bored.
In addition, in order to cooperate correctly, parents should keep close contact with teachers, learn about their children's performance in school from classmates and teachers, discuss their children's education with teachers, listen to teachers' opinions and demands with an open mind, and cooperate at home. Usually, when children encounter problems at home, they should get in touch with teachers in time, build a bridge of communication, exchange opinions in time, and let schools and families cooperate with education.
Educating children is a very complicated project. We may really not find a standard route to train children, so we can't always be right. I can only keep thinking every step of the way and patiently accompany my children to grow up. I have talked so much about my own educational experience here and shared it with all the parents present. I sincerely hope to get more help from teachers and communicate with parents. Let's treat our children with care and make progress with them! Thank you teachers and parents!
Speech at the parents' experience exchange meeting 5 Dear teachers and parents:
Good afternoon, everyone. I'm Wang Haoxuan's mother in Class One. I am very happy to speak as a representative at today's parents' experience exchange meeting. I can't talk about my experience, but I have some thoughts and feelings about educating children. I want to share with all my parents and learn from them.
First, pay attention to the cultivation of children's character.
First of all, parents should have a good attitude and don't impose their ideals on their children. In the family, husband and wife respect each other and care for each other to form a democratic and harmonious family environment. This will help children grow up happily in a healthy atmosphere, help them form a good personality and make them more kind, friendly and helpful. Jessica Hester Hsuan is not only the right-hand man of the class teacher, but also actively helps other children at ordinary times. I am also the "little warm man" at home. It's sweet to watch me do housework hard, rub my back when I have a cold and send me hot water. As the saying goes, reading thousands of books is better than taking Wan Li Road, so as long as we have time, we will take Jessica Hester Hsuan to travel, increase our knowledge, broaden our horizons and cultivate children's cheerful, confident, optimistic and strong character. Every time I come back from a trip, I will find that my children are more sensible when they grow up. Jack Hodge, an American writer, said in the book "The Power of Habit": "Behavior becomes habit, habit forms character, and character determines fate".
Second, pay attention to children's reading habits.
Some time ago, when I came home from school, Jessica Hester Hsuan suddenly said to me, Mom, I want to tell you something. Now I report recipes to my children every day. I asked him, are you the only one who reported the recipe? He nodded and said yes, because only he knew more words. Indeed, the literacy rate in Jessica Hester Hsuan has not been accurately counted, but it is about 600 to 700 words. Even in a small class next semester, he knows nearly 100 to 200 words, so he can read newspapers every day. However, before going to kindergarten, Jessica Hester Hsuan only knew a dozen basic words, such as size and numbers. Then why did he know so many words in just one year? Do we teach children to read on purpose? No, there is only one answer, and that is reading.
When Jessica Hester Hsuan was over one year old, I would tell him stories every night before going to bed. When he is older, he likes to read by himself. Maybe he couldn't read at that time, but he liked to look at pictures. He just sat there and looked at the words he didn't know. With the increase of reading, some words he doesn't know will follow the meaning. Later, when we took him out to play, he would point to the street signs and shop names on both sides of the road and tell us what to read. Only then did I realize that he had learned many words unconsciously. After reading some parenting books, I have different views on the cultivation of children, but they all have the same view: let children read. Suhomlinski, an educator in the former Soviet Union, said: "The way to make children smart is not to make up lessons or increase homework, but to read and read again." With this awareness, I bought many books suitable for his age, including Babe Bear series, Tom Rabbit series, Golden Childhood, magic school bus and so on. Jessica Hester Hsuan likes them very much, reading for more than half an hour every day and sometimes reading for more than an hour on weekends. He took the initiative to watch it, so I don't have to worry at all. Moreover, books are the most widely placed at home, so that he can take a book to read wherever he is. Sometimes he is so absorbed in reading that he can't hear a few words clearly.
Some parents may say that your children have developed the habit of reading, but what about my children? According to my personal experience, if children don't take the initiative to read books when they are 4 or 5 years old, forcing them to read books will only arouse their rebellious psychology. The solution is to set aside at least half an hour every day to tell stories to children. There are no children who don't like stories, but because their parents are busy or negligent, they don't develop the habit of reading. After a period of persistence, you will find that children are more interested in books than TV and computers. When telling stories or children reading books by themselves, we must create a quiet atmosphere. Parents can turn off the computer TV, put down their mobile phones and read newspapers and magazines. When you read carefully, children will pay more attention. But parents should pay attention to it. Don't tell a story. Tell it later and ask your child how many words he knows. Repeating the contents of the book to me will discourage the child, and he will think that this is the task left by his parents. We let children read books in order to cultivate their autonomous learning ability and let them feel good from books, rather than reading books for learning something. When a child's reading reaches a certain level, his reading and writing ability and understanding will naturally improve.
Third, pay attention to children's daily behavior habits.
Educator Ye Shengtao said: "What is education? In a word, it is to develop good habits. " This habit includes both study habits and daily behavior habits. Before restraining children, parents should first set an example and promise their children to do their best, so that children will trust you more and listen to you more.
Jessica Hester Hsuan usually likes watching TV, especially cartoons. But I will control the time. Before he watches TV, I will tell him that he can only watch two episodes or watch for half an hour, because watching too much is bad for his eyes. When he makes it clear, he will naturally understand and consciously abide by it. Once, there were only two of us at home. I was going to buy food, so I turned on the TV for him to watch, lest he run around. I also agree to watch only two episodes. Actually, I am usually at home, so he is very obedient. I don't know what he will do this time. I came back half an hour later and saw that the TV had been turned off and he was playing with toys. At that moment, I knew that no matter what I cared about, he would keep the agreement. Parents set rules and give them some trust, and children will do more than you think.
At home, I usually ask him to do what he can, such as dressing himself, folding the quilt, packing books and toys. Please ask him to help me remember what I want to buy before I go to the supermarket. In the supermarket, I will deliberately say that I forgot a few things. Let him remind me and help me think about it, which will make the child feel a sense of accomplishment. In fact, children are willing to help their parents do some small things at home, and sometimes they are not so perfect and even help them. At this time, parents must not blame their children, encourage them more, and let them participate will also cultivate their sense of responsibility.
Robin, a success expert, once said, "Everyone has a special talent, which is like a sleeping giant, waiting for us to wake him up." I think every child will have his own bright spot. As parents, as long as they can recognize their children, understand their advantages and disadvantages, tap their potential, teach them in accordance with their aptitude, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, they will certainly be able to shape their children into useful talents.
Thank you all.