(1), let children know that self-control is a sign of maturity: a mature person is a person who can easily control himself and prevent himself from making mistakes. Confucius believed that "70% do whatever you want without overstepping the bounds" is the highest realm of life.

(2) Let children learn to focus on lofty goals.

(3) Cultivate children's firm will: let children stand firm and correct, learn to resist the temptation of the outside world, and don't get lost in the world of flowers.

(4) Cultivate children's gentle personality: teach children not to think only about themselves, but to consider whether they are doing well from the perspective of others and treat people around them gently.

(5) Let children gradually learn to evaluate themselves: Let children judge whether their actions are right or wrong with the concepts of "can and can't" taught to them, so that they will consciously restrain themselves from doing things they shouldn't do.

(6) Let children learn to be patient: the main performance of people who lack self-control ability is that they can't control their emotions. It is easy to get excited and angry, which will create a bad impression on others and damage interpersonal relationships.