1, the "high-pressure policy" formulated by parents. Many parents will show a strong authority in the face of their children's teaching, and they can't help their children talk and arrange their life path reasonably. Many children are worried about the disparity in strength between them and have accumulated deep dissatisfaction and grievances. In the long run, children will mainly show anxiety and mania in their daily lives because they are not looking for a better breakthrough.
2. Affected by the surrounding environment. As we all know, people are all material under conditions, and the natural environment can bring people positive initiative and teach people negative. Many children are in a competitive area for a long time, and it is easy to be scared and question themselves. At the same time, there are still many successful people here in the surrounding environment. If you try your best not to see clearly, your child will appear anxious and feel helpless.
Parents often compare their children with their peers. I wonder if it is a folk custom in China. Many parents like to compare their children with their friends to stimulate their children's efforts. I don't know that under the "cultivation" of parents, children will magnify their own shortcomings and always feel that they are inferior to others and lack self-confidence. This makes children very anxious.
In fact, in contemporary society, both children and parents have a lot of anxiety. However, if children can't get rid of anxiety for a long time, they will lack self-confidence. Therefore, parents must pay attention to it, help their children pick up happiness as soon as possible, and use the quicksand rule to help them get rid of anxiety.
Law of quicksand: I think everyone knows that quicksand is a very horrible appearance. Once you fall into it, if you are smart enough, you will honestly stay put, otherwise you will only be unable to extricate yourself and even miss the good opportunity to be saved.
In fact, anxiety is such an invisible quicksand. Once people fall into it, they will break free more and get deeper and deeper, which is actually more anxiety and will lead to more harm to themselves.
What are the benefits of quicksand method to solve children's anxiety? 1, the child's antidepressant ability is also stronger. Children who learn "reason" well will also reduce their own harm. When parents teach their children to apply the law of quicksand, children will look at the whole process of development rationally and will have the fear of facing anxiety. When you encounter other anxiety in the future, your endurance will be higher and it will be easier to solve anxiety.
2, the child's attitude will be very cheerful. With the improvement of children's anti-depression ability, children's anxiety will be reduced by more than half, and it is difficult to form any stormy waves with the remaining anxiety. Therefore, the child's attitude will be more optimistic and positive. Whether in daily life or in study and training, such children will convey a large number of positive energy and like-minded people around them and make many excellent friends.