As we all know, "women chasing men" has a natural advantage, because there is a saying: "men chasing women, blocking the wall." Women chasing men, laminated yarn. "

In the vast sea of people, fat and thin people in different parts of the world meet a shocking male god, and they can go hand in hand with a touch.

When the wind is dark on a certain month, I cook uncooked rice into mature rice with a touch of drunkenness and deep affection, and then bid farewell to the Jin Zuo fighter and win the diamond back.

Therefore, in the life outside the idol drama, there is often a combination of "flower ancestors", which makes people feel that the world is really fair. My cousin is such an example-I hope she doesn't look down.

To tell the truth, she looks really casual and has a dark face. She often declares that she wants to lose weight in the circle of friends/Weibo /qq and other global platforms. After that, lift dumbbells in the boudoir. She doesn't like meat at ordinary times, but is a vegetarian. As a result, she fainted in the subway station several times because of anemia, which almost scared people to death-the first time I saw the porcelain subway.

But it is such a wonderful good woman. She has just won a handsome boy who is nicknamed "Little Wallace Huo" by a person in the class. If you ask me, the two of them standing together to take pictures really give people the illusion that "good cabbage is arched by pigs" ... Well, if this continues, my cousin will probably ignore me in the next life.

In fact, take my cousin for example. I really want to say that the behavior of "women chasing men" has its own "face value attribute", just like some people in the movie can't die because they have their own protagonist aura.

Of course, if you happen to have some beauty, it will be easier to catch up with the male god.

Just like in the hit TV series "Ode to Joy", the quaint and beautiful Qu Xiaoyu faced Dr. Zhao, who is famous for his grass and has a cold figure. He didn't jump the queue boldly and succeeded in occupying a position, and finally made a positive result (this behavior is never advocated in this article).

But then again, although "women chasing men" conforms to the short-term competition law, does it conform to the long-term sustainable development law?

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A while ago, the media sensation Mi Meng publicly declared:

There are several reasons:

In addition, from the biological point of view, the work of ancient male animals was mainly hunting, and the pursuit was to attack, seize and conquer. He has the ambition to dominate the women in the world and continue his genes in his bones-even if he is a loser who can't get into half a fight every day in real life.

Women, on the other hand, are more defensive, especially in the relationship between men and women, because the cost of inheriting their genes is too high (it is no joke to conceive in October and give birth to a healthy baby before confinement).

So once this biological attribute is violated in essence, the result is unpredictable.

In this regard, as a straight man, I also have certain feelings, for those women who chase me (don't shh! I don't pay much attention to it from the bottom of my heart, and the more they take the initiative to attack, the more flattered and bored I am, and even if I am together, I have no sense of accomplishment and don't cherish it.

Of course, if a female compatriot uses "cheap" to describe this behavior, I totally agree.

I have another example here, which happened to an old friend. She recently divorced her husband, who proposed it on the grounds that she had no feelings.

If you ask me, this reason is totally unreasonable. You know, they started from free love, and after seven or eight years of ups and downs, two small mouths had a son of about two years old, but her ex-husband resolutely left her.

The reason is that it is a friend who is chasing her husband. And when we were together, we broke up several times, but all our friends licked their faces and tried to save them.

Finally, I got married, but my friends thought I was practical and didn't care so much about my husband. Coupled with the baby behind me, my center of gravity is even more deviated (it can be said that it is the embodiment of the law of compensation), and my husband is not a fool (and happens to be an irresponsible Chen Shimei), so I suddenly felt a huge gap, and then there were many contradictions, which eventually led to separation.

But then again, if you meet your favorite male god in life, can you really ignore it? Isn't the beautiful white snake practicing chasing Xu Xian for thousands of years? !

So the answer is, of course! The real question is how to chase.

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For women chasing men, the famous psychological counselor Lu Li once said:

In other words, "women chasing men" is by no means such strenuous exercise as running, as long as it is long-term exercise, perseverance, patience and endurance. What it really strives for is skill, brain power and wisdom of self-awareness and target management.

In this regard, in the American movie "Heartbeat", we can know a thing or two:

If you are still confused about this, here is a successful case of "women chasing men", which I read in "Luo Ji Thinking" before:

In addition, as you know, in a dream of red mansions, Jia Baoyu always liked Lin Daiyu, saying, "I'll take a spoonful of water for 3 thousand", but later I married the exquisitely carved Xue Baochai.

To some extent, it is Xue Baochai's cleverness. He knows how to create a potential, a potential power that the whole Jiafu Xuefu can help him achieve the goal of "chasing men".

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In fact, for "Women Chasing Men", the famous Luo Pang once put forward several suggestions in a program, which benefited people a lot, such as establishing weak connections, dealing with the subconscious and moderate acting hints.

Combining the program experience and personal feelings, here is also a summary of the four killing tricks of "Women Chasing Men", which is useless and for reference only:

Do a good job of market research in the early stage, understand his emotions, hobbies and habits, and let him decide that your magnetic field is right and synchronous, resulting in a sense of destiny.

At the same time, let him inadvertently discover that you just like what he likes, hate what he hates, think that you are very congenial and have a tacit understanding, and then subconsciously build a bridge.

In fact, you can completely understand it as "evil", that is, planting a brand in his heart, which is called "heart anchor" in psychology.

In other words, people think that you are always there, and they are used to some behavior in your life. For example, when I am chasing a girl, I will leave an article of not less than 300 words in her qq space every Sunday night. It may not be a disgusting love letter, but it is full of warmth to resist the severe winter.

In fact, the establishment of potential energy has been emphasized above. What I want to add here is that when we are studying, we often encounter a situation where we obviously like someone but are embarrassed to say it. So he deliberately let out the wind, let the students say that two people are together, and then see each other's reaction-this is a kind of potential energy in itself.

If the other person is interested in you, you won't be so flustered and anxious to throw away the gossip hat given by public opinion and pursue it.

Don't speak your mind directly. Hint at each other, such as inadvertently revealing your birthday. If the other person cares about you, he will definitely do something.

Or, when you go out with him, you dress carefully, from clothes to eyebrows, from foundation to socks ... but once you go out with others, you go out with almost no makeup.

If he still doesn't understand your mind, then he is either really not interested in you or stupid. Throw it early.

Finally, I want to add one point in particular. Having said so much about "women chasing men", the most important thing is that they are evenly matched. Skills are only superficial, and the real core is to make yourself worthy of each other.

If you have to think that as long as you chase hard, chase with your brain and spend a lot of money to learn all kinds of techniques of flirting with men (there are many special training courses on the market at present, such as teaching you to deliberately rear-end a car of a male god to create an encounter), it is really a sword that is biased and an idiotic dream. You should know that "obsession is persistent and pain is lasting."