1. Tell your child why you want to go to school.
Primary school and kindergarten are two completely different stages. From playing to formal learning, there are no more teachers in the class playing with twenty or thirty children. Many changes first cause children's psychological discomfort. Therefore, psychological preparation before entering school is the first and most important level.
Parents should first let their children know why they want to go to school and how to treat them. They can often describe primary school life in positive language. If possible, they can take their children to primary school to familiarize themselves with the campus environment in advance.
2, safety education should be done in the front.
After entering school, the safety of children is the first thing parents should pay attention to, such as game safety, and tell children what to pay attention to during recess activities as soon as possible;
The transportation is safe. You should make an appointment with your child in advance, and let your parents wait where they are when they don't come. Don't run around or go with others.
Eat safely, wash your hands before and after meals, and drink the water in your own cup.
Pay special attention to children, and no one should offend the area covered by underwear and vest.
3. Help children adjust their schedules.
Compared with the relaxed and happy kindergarten, the life in primary school is much more tense at once. Parents should adjust their children's work and rest in summer, infer the children's wake-up time according to the general admission time of primary school, gradually shorten the nap time and slowly adjust the children's biological clock.
4. Simulate training with children
Such "simulated routine training" includes bringing school supplies to school and arriving at school on time; When I heard the bell ring, I went into the classroom, sat on the seat and put my bag in the desk. The teacher came to the classroom and stood up to say hello to the teacher; Pay attention to the lecture in class, raise your hand before speaking, and train repeatedly to form good habits.
5. Establish children's awareness of rules.
Although there are many rules in kindergartens, they are relatively loose. Entering primary school is different. Children need to obey more school rules, social rules and so on.
During the holidays, parents can make some rules, such as greeting people, sincerely apologizing after making mistakes, washing hands before and after meals and so on. From less to more, from easy to difficult, all family members should abide by these regulations, so that children can gradually understand and persevere.
6. Gradually let go and cultivate children's independence.
In the first grade of primary school, it is often seen that children who can't tie their shoes and shoelaces, can't tidy up their schoolbags and stationery, and some even can't open their pencil boxes are easily laughed at by their classmates, causing psychological pressure. So parents should encourage their children to do what they can. If you encounter difficulties, you can help your child find the reason together and communicate with your child afterwards.
7. Clever combination of learning and games.
Many parents think that it is enough to let their children learn more about primary school, but if the way is wrong, it will make their children lose interest in learning, but it will not pay off.
8. Create a good learning environment for children.
At home, parents should provide their children with a fixed learning place, with the emphasis on quietness and neatness: prepare tables and chairs with suitable height, and the height of the chairs should make the children's feet flat on the ground; The height of the table is exactly the height of the child's heart after sitting down. Let children participate, choose school equipment and daily necessities, and feel the happiness of "going to school".
9. Take the children out for a walk.
Parents should take their children out for a walk, get to know more strangers and eliminate their fear of strangers; It is also necessary to encourage children to interact with children of different ages and enhance their ability to interact with others.
10, establish a small enrollment file.
Help children know themselves, learn to introduce themselves, and write their own names and phone numbers; Remember home address, parents' unit and birthday; Parents can prepare personal files for admission with their children. Young convergence is an important turning point in children's life growth. To cross these transition periods, we need to accumulate a little wisdom and careful thinking.
Parents should not be too anxious, but should focus on their children's "bright spots" and recognize and appreciate their children from the heart, so that their children's light can bloom.
In the process of children's growth, as parents, it is better to grow up with children, face, adapt and change together, and meet new challenges in the best state!