The way to improve emotional intelligence: the first move is to listen.
"I want to hear its sound and silence." It means that when others are talking, we just need to listen quietly. This trick is very simple, because communication is a process in which you listen to me, and listening is necessary.
The second measure is convergence.
It's like playing hard to get If you want to play hard to get, you must learn to "get close" and keep quiet. You must first learn to converge.
The third measure is modesty.
To put it bluntly, it means to put a low profile. Everyone likes the feeling of being above and being held by everyone. This is normal, and vanity is at work!
The fourth move is to give up.
"If you want to take the opposite", if you want to get what you want, you must give it first. This is the highest state of speaking, similar to the third measure, which is to lower your posture and know how to pay. When communicating with others, if you want to get information, you need to keep asking questions and throwing out opinions, thus guiding others to speak.