I think of one of my elders. His family trained three college students, namely Fudan University, Zhejiang University and Wuhan University, all before the enrollment expansion in the 1990s. Our families all come from the countryside. Sometimes people in our village will say that this family is really filled with smoke, it is not easy for rural people to have a college student, and their three children actually study better than one.

Later, I found that my aunt had an obvious feature, that is, she was very curious. Although they are rural, in their seventies, they not only learned to use smart phones, but also learned pinyin typing and video interception Tik Tok. Often two people go to play with their bags on their backs, and they tremble after playing. People are 75.6 years old, and they don't find it difficult or necessary. They can do whatever they want. And my mother, I asked her to learn an atm to withdraw money, but she said she wouldn't and didn't want to learn. I can't take a bus with a bus card yet. I'd rather walk.

Let me talk about myself shamelessly. Although I am also a salted fish living at the bottom, I think I can do it. My wardrobe was found in the second-hand market and assembled by myself. Many hoses in my house are grounded, waterproof and changed pots by themselves. Repair the washing machine and refrigerator. Saved a computer bike. I just didn't get a chance. I want to save a car if I have the chance.

I always think about what others say. Is it true?/You don't say. Look at some papers cited in Zhihu's highly praised answer. Go and search and have a look. What happened, my first thought is, what to do and what is the solution.

I now find that my daughter is a bit like me. Sometimes when she reads a book, she can point out the mistakes in it. I bought her a book on appreciation of ancient Chinese prose the other day, and she said that the word "Tang" after Li Yu's name was wrongly printed. Southern Tang and Tang are not the same thing. She won't think of what is written in the book.

Sometimes, she reads English novels by herself. I said, do you know them all? She said that I have Casio's pen and Hanwang's pen. Why can't I check it myself? In the process of children's growth, I value three things most. The first is called "values", the second is called "driving force" and the third is called "methodology". If you can't set an example by yourself and brush Tik Tok with your mobile phone every day, wait for the training class to teach your children, and they can learn well. That child is really a grateful child.