Kindergarten children cry, just to vent their emotions and express their anxiety. As parents, they are actually very anxious and uneasy.

Parents' anxiety and anxiety cannot be expressed by crying. When their children go to school, they can only be a wall climber, and when their children come home, they can only be a nagging questioner.

When I got home, I watched my children wolfing down their food at night, and I couldn't help but let my parents sigh: Is the child hungry and bullied in kindergarten?

In fact, it is very likely that parents are adding drama, and it is difficult for children over three years old to understand these soul problems of their parents.

Separation anxiety makes children reject kindergarten.

When children go to kindergarten, they worry about when their mother will pick me up every day and cry all the time. The whole mood is quite uneasy.

At this time, the mother asked the child if he was happy in kindergarten, and the child must say that he was unhappy.

I will even say to my mother: Mom, can I not go to kindergarten tomorrow? I don't want to go to kindergarten. Kindergarten is not fun.

I will also follow my mother's words and say that the children bully me and the teacher criticizes me.

Attracted by new things, I didn't pay attention to what my mother said.

Children begin to adapt to kindergarten about a week after going to kindergarten, and gradually enter this fresh environment. Children will find the slides in kindergarten very interesting, and it is not bad to play with toys with children.

Twenty or thirty children in kindergarten are also very happy to eat together, so children will be addicted to these new things in kindergarten.

Parents asked their children what they had eaten, but the children were confused, unable to remember and unable to answer their mother's words.

Children are young and lack the ability to express and remember, and the things they recall will be disordered.

I remember when Jingjing was in a small kindergarten class, she told us when she came back that her aunt had brought her steamed bread in the kitchen disinfection cabinet.

We find it strange why steamed buns are put in the disinfection cabinet. At that time, we thought it was because the catering hygiene in the kindergarten was not up to standard.

Later, after communicating with the teacher, I learned that children usually eat steamed buns in kindergartens. Some children don't go to kindergarten, and they get two or three more buns every day. Jingjing likes eating steamed buns very much. After eating her own steamed stuffed bun, she stared at the steamed stuffed bun on the plate and the teacher gave it to Jingjing.

It is estimated that when the child was doing morning exercises outside, she saw the aunt in the kitchen put the tableware in the disinfection cabinet for disinfection, so she remembered that the aunt took the steamed stuffed bun from the disinfection cabinet and she ate it.

So the child's memory will be confused.

Don't quote negative things.

For example, ask your child if someone is bullying you. Did someone rob your toy? Did you cry today? Have you been criticized? Have you been scolded?

In case the child is in a bad mood today, if you ask a negative sentence, the child will automatically expand a small matter infinitely. Then I'll tell you that XXX bullied me. In fact, it may be that when two children were playing together, someone robbed him of a small toy.

After the parents asked, they began to have a small theater. Is my child being bullied? Do you want to talk to the teacher?

suggestion

Try to be positive when asking questions. Which good friend did you play with today? Why do you like playing with him?

Let children know that it is necessary to make good friends in kindergarten, and it is really a happy thing to have good friends to play with.

Don't ask too general questions.

Did you do well in kindergarten today? Did you get the teacher's praise? What have you learned? What delicious food have you eaten?

Even when we adults came back from training, our colleagues asked you what you had trained during the training. Many adults don't remember it, let alone our children who just went to kindergarten.

These questions, which require memory and expressive ability, are too general for children to answer.

suggestion

Ask more targeted questions. Parents can look through their children's textbooks in advance to find out what their children have learned at school, and kindergarten teachers will also send some videos to parents to let them know what their children have learned today.

Ask the child what to learn in detail. Today, mom heard you sing the song "Looking for Friends". Which good friend did you find?

Don't lead children to be biased.

For example, which teacher do you like? What classes do you like?

Kindergarten teachers have their own characteristics and children will have their own preferences, but parents are not advised to guide their children, bring rhythm and give gifts to teachers.

suggestion

Mom saw you learning origami today. Can you teach your mother how to fold? Mom can't. This will make children feel proud and capable.

Children's small emotions are unstable. If parents want to know their children's situation in kindergarten, they must learn clever rhetoric.