How do parents do psychological counseling when children are depressed? Many parents left messages for me: the child said that he was depressed and anxious as soon as he entered the classroom, and he didn't want to go to school. Is he pretending to be sick? Many parents take it for granted that their children should not be depressed.

As long as their children are noisy or have some emotional changes, many parents will worry about whether their children have psychological problems and what are the symptoms of their depression. Let's see:

Behavior: hyperactive, attacking others, afraid to go to school, unwilling to socialize, deliberately avoiding acquaintances, not obeying discipline, impulsiveness, truancy, poor expression ability, poor grades, poor memory, running away from home, and even world-weariness, self-harm and suicide.

2, will be easily agitated, do not like to express themselves. When I meet something, I will be very depressed and depressed. Like to cry quietly, not good at communicating with people.

Seeing that your child's performance is similar to depression in many ways, what causes the child to be depressed? Have parents analyzed it carefully?

1. Parents and children lack communication, and children are easily influenced by adults' emotions and behaviors. If there is a lack of communication, they are likely to misunderstand each other and make their children suffer from depression.

2. Parents only criticize their children and don't encourage them. Children's hearts are simple. When they finish something, what they want most is the praise of our parents. But sometimes children make mistakes because of some mistakes. If you are a praise who only criticizes children, then such children will live in pain.

What harm can childhood depression bring?

1, affecting personality: Depression can also have a bad influence on children's personality, and may also cause serious personality defects. Maybe they used to be cheerful and lively, but after suffering from depression, they will make the whole person look very negative and even irritable.

2. Interfering with social function, patients with severe depression often have slow thinking association, slow speech speed, low pronunciation, less language, slow response, and difficulties in interpersonal communication; On the other hand, patients with severe depression are slow to move, even bedridden, showing depressive stupor, which almost completely deprives patients of their self-care ability.

When parents know that their children are suffering from depression, especially some children are depressed+bipolar disorder, or depressed+mania, parents will be more worried and try their best to adjust and improve. What are the common methods of conditioning and improvement?

1. In addition to actively taking care of children's daily life, paying attention to children's learning and training, and meeting children's physical needs, we also need to pay attention to children's psychological needs, communicate with children more, and create an intimate, harmonious and warm family atmosphere for children. Parents, in particular, should not vent their anger in front of their children from time to time, even if they have troubles, let alone insinuate and take it out on their children.

2. After the child suffers from depression, there will be symptoms such as insomnia, physical weakness, loss of appetite, constipation, physical pain, nausea and vomiting, palpitation and sweating. The above symptoms can be eliminated by meditation. The way is to imagine yourself on a beautiful beach, surrounded by beautiful seabirds and endless sea. Meditation can eliminate distractions and improve the symptoms of neurological dysfunction.

3, adjust the child's depression, if the degree of depression is light, you can let the child self-adjust and do more things you like, which is conducive to maintaining a happy mood. If the degree is serious, you need to go to the hospital to seek the help of a psychologist, and you can take antidepressants orally, which will gradually improve in a short time.

Many parents gave us feedback that the children were treated according to the advice of experts at that time, so parents never dared to mention any boundaries with their children and tried their best to satisfy them. Even they are cautious when they speak, for fear that if they say something wrong, their children will be unhappy, which will further affect their depression. In this case, because children don't have to go to school, they begin to indulge in online black and white.

If children want to improve their depression, they must have a normal work and rest, a normal diet, normal exercise and a good family atmosphere. Instead of simply accepting and relying on drugs to control improvement. Do you agree with your parents?