? I am in a bad mood these two days. I have encountered unhappy things in my life and work. I was depressed and wanted to find an exit, so I chose. When you are depressed but don't know who to talk to, you can talk about all your unwillingness and dissatisfaction here! No one will know that they can get rid of themselves, which can be said to be an excellent opportunity!
? At work, as a teacher in a training institution, I have to face all kinds of students and parents every day. The level of students is different, and the needs of parents are different! Teachers in training institutions are different from those in public schools. Our parents are more demanding of us. Parents will ask us to do things that schools can't do. Why? Because you are "paid teaching"! In fact, it is ok to meet reasonable parents, because the real level of the child is there, and we will definitely help the child to improve as much as possible according to the level of the child, so that parents can see the effect! This is the purpose of parents spending money, and it is also our original intention! But what if you meet a parent who can't be unreasonable, that is, set high expectations? Parents don't make longitudinal comparisons, and they don't consider it according to their own conditions. He insisted on horizontal comparison, and insisted on using a student who learned from the bottom to catch up with the first! So what should we do? Different starting points, how to reach the same height? Not complaining or complaining about anything, just hope all our parents! Be able to know yourself and your children correctly, and don't set an ethereal goal for your children! Small trees under strong pressure may also be bent!
? For the situation in our country, although there is great pressure on exam-oriented education, our children are under even greater pressure. They may be in class all day. We are parents! It is necessary to give children proper pressure, not too much pressure, which is counterproductive!