Remember that "female Durban" who used to give lectures everywhere?

Among them, Ding Xuan, a very famous "female virtue predecessor", is still in my ears:

"Female exposure, inviting disasters and breaking money."

"It is disrespectful for a woman to marry herself without being introduced by a matchmaker."

"Rape of women is a disgrace to the ancestors."

"Three essences make one poison, which harms unclean women."

Later, with Ding Xuan being questioned and criticized, I thought that no one would be willing to spend money to listen to such brainwashing remarks.

Unexpectedly, as soon as the "female Durban" was driven away, the lecturers suddenly turned to talk about "male virtue" and made a lot of money.

For example, Liu Fang, who used to talk about "cultivating women's morality and living a happy life" everywhere, was called "the first woman in China" and once warned women: "Women should be gentle with their husbands."

Maybe those women who try to be "as docile as water to their husbands" find it difficult to get them to work when they come home, so they beat up their husbands.

Ms. Liu Fang had to turn to educating men and teach them to sing "nice songs" on the spot:

"The wife can't be wrong. My wife is wrong, and I must be wrong. "

"If I am not mistaken, it must be my fault that caused my wife's fault."

A training institution named "To Conscience" has used this course, plus a little "pseudo-Chinese studies" of loyalty and filial piety to become a new "male Durban", attracting a large number of corporate executives and young students.

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How popular is To Conscience in 20 19?

In March 1 1, they held a 15-day study class, with tuition fee per person 1 10,000 and about 500 students;

On March 26th, the manager took the shift, 5 days, 3,000 yuan/person, receiving 500 people;

April, backbone class, 10 days, 10000 yuan/person, 500 students;

May, the most beautiful family manager class, 5 days, 3,800 yuan/person, 5 12 students;

July juvenile class, 1 1 day, 10000 yuan/person, with about 500 people;

65438+2065 438+09 Yanqi Lake Entrepreneur Forum1October 28th, 7 days, 10000 yuan/person, attended by 4000 entrepreneurs, Chinese and foreign scholars and representatives from all walks of life.

In addition, they have also held special sessions for 3,000 teenagers and attended online classes for tens of thousands of people, earning countless incomes and earning a lot of money.

It is said that these trainings have been listed as "compulsory courses" by many enterprises. They not only spend money to train their employees, but also write about their feelings every day. They are very busy.

The standard of students' success is: "When you fully believe what the teacher says, you can learn."

In short, if you question the teacher, the leader or even your wife, you are stupid and smart.

The only thing you need to do is to let go of your point of view, obey unconditionally and express your loyalty, so that you can live a happy life.

I totally believe in the word "conscience"-if everyone around me can put down their opinions and obey unconditionally, then I will be happy and never quarrel with them.

But I'm the happy one, not the one who lets go.

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I am against "female Durban", but I will never talk about it because of the prevalence of "male Durban".

Because any attempt to bind a person by sex is sexist.

Later, the media reported that the headmaster of a primary school in Chengdu set up a "boys' and girls' class" because he didn't like "girls don't look like girls and boys don't look like boys".

What is the content of the course?

Teach girls to knit sweaters and boys to make airplanes, rockets and cars.

It turns out that, in the headmaster's view, the so-called girl's appearance should be sitting quietly knitting a sweater, and the boy's appearance should be heroic and making rockets.

Similarly, Shanghai No.8 Middle School launched the so-called "boys' class" on the grounds that boys' attention is difficult to concentrate and their grades are generally inferior to those of girls, which caused a "boys' crisis".

To this end, they invited more professional teachers to establish a meticulous and humanized education system for boys and patiently cultivate their practical ability.

A boy who graduated from a "boys' class" excitedly showed the reporter a photo of his college debate.

The reporter was very pleased after reading it, and specially praised: "As the only male debater, he stood up and debated among a group of girls without stage fright."

Seeing this, I can't tell whether these teachers and principals discriminate against girls or boys.

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Gender is innate, but life is your own.

The beauty of life is that there is no fixed model of assembly line, and everyone can write his own story without hurting others.

Therefore, we have Tu Youyou, a female scientist, Liu Yang and Wang Yaping, female space heroes, countless female academicians and snipers, and female workers struggling in the front line.

We also have an unforgettable brother, Leslie Cheung, and Li Jiaqi. He wears beautiful lipstick and says OMG has the ability to bring goods.

I can't help crying for girls and boys when I think about it.

Can't girls just knit sweaters and spend their time and energy on dressing up and taking care of others instead of building spaceships and rockets?

Do boys have to be informal, unkempt, covered in stubble, and can smell their feet from a distance to be considered "men"?

Should girls be engaged in the service industry and be the "wife's helper" of others, even though their grades are generally not suitable for scientific research?

Should boys acquiesce that they are naturally mischievous and inattentive, and need extra teaching to become adults?

This is discrimination against girls and boys.

Whether it is "female Durban" or "male Durban", the essence is to deprive a person of his thinking ability and try to control them mentally.

They are not only PUA, but also the kind that charges.