How to cultivate a good child? What three points do high emotional intelligence parents do well, which will affect their children's future life? 1, early standard setting. What most parents don't know is that after the age of 2, it is a sensitive period for children's behavior rules. It is best to make rules from the age of 2. Parents should not worry that their children are too young to understand. In fact, children are very reasonable. If you tell the standard in advance, all the children want to abide by it.

The most important thing in setting standards is that parents should keep their promises and take the lead. If they agree with the child, they must finish it, and they can't cheat, otherwise the child will cheat you instead. But you need to pay attention: the standard must conform to the child's psychological characteristics and development level, and parents must not consider it from their own perspective and be overbearing.

2. Children have awe since childhood, which is a basic feeling. In fact, it is easy for children with awe to observe discipline, listen to teachers, respect others, be objective and upright, and it is easier and smoother to go to society in the future. Parents understand that it is a blessing for them to mold their children's awe.

When a child knows from an early age that he is not the center of the world, there are many things that are extremely magnificent; When she makes it clear that everything is not only young and ignorant, but also a learned person and not omniscient, she will understand that it is necessary to remain modest and diligent, and smart people should also be afraid and control themselves. Respecting and lowering yourself is a kind of development.

3. Parents also need to show weakness. As children grow older, parents should change their communication methods and learn to show weakness. When parents learn to show weakness, children may be more brave to take responsibility. When the child is not as good as you want, expose but don't tell the truth, and leave a face for the child, so that he can be a good child and the child can bear it. Only when you trust the child can the child undertake the obligation, not when the child undertakes the obligation, will you believe him.

There are no eternal underachievers. Give your child a chance to be a good child and a possibility to bear it. Parents should understand weakness. Children lack motivation to learn, that is, they lack love, but they are not valued and seen. Without love, there is no cooperation. Smart parents treat their children as human beings, and treating their children as human beings is also the moral bottom line of parents.