500 words about family education (1) In 2022, by chance, my colleague mentioned a great teacher X, who told me after listening to my lecture on reading. At that moment, I was at my wit's end, racking my brains to find ways to help this boy who just started X improve his interest in reading and writing, and found nothing. * * * Read * * books? Very fresh words, easy to understand, but how to do it?
Teacher X told us that true happiness and true success = reading X books. "Reading" means reading more and learning more about the world. "Book" means writing more in the process of reading, not only writing beautiful words, but also writing more articles and books. How much is "Duo"? Teacher X made a comprehensive summary of reading and writing from a scientific point of view. How to achieve "more"? The method provided by teacher X can be used by everyone. The wisdom mentioned has been tested by practice, and there is a clear answer to which book to choose for children. Detailed books are listed at the back of the book. These books are read by teacher X and his daughter, which are of great reference value.
People who can't control themselves are not fit to control others. If you want your child to learn, it is better to learn first. Once, I was tired of preaching to my children and bought many children's books for them. My child seems to have read some, but I don't know how much, and the result is not too much. I didn't even write a diary in the whole elementary school. The initiative and effect of learning are naturally not good, so that the current learning is more and more inadequate. Looking back now, I can't completely blame my children, because, as a parent, I didn't study hard to write myself. Why should I let my children do it?
There is a road in the mountain of books, but there is no limit to learning the sea. I am lazy about reading. As far as hobbies are concerned, in fact, I like ancient poetry very much, and occasionally I write a few words in imitation. I also like to read poetry and prose, and record some small pieces of life in my spare time, not writing, just for happiness. However, I am afraid of big books and dare not touch them. Anticlimactic is probably the biggest weakness of my character. Just like writing, when a text is written, the best is only the first two lines. The more I write, the more I can't stand it. Although I have always wanted to change myself, I am very helpless. Good habits are hard to form and bad habits are hard to get rid of.
What you get on paper is so shallow that you never know what you have to do. Do as you say, take the boy to the book club. This is the first step for us to study together. It is not difficult to read a book and write a reading note in X weeks. The book list is also a masterpiece required by junior high school textbooks. With the same purpose, a group of parents, with a group of young children, can share experiences from reading, experience the fun brought by reading, and also exercise children's language expression ability. This is a multi-purpose thing. I heard about it several times, but I didn't see the progress of boys' reading. Perhaps, time is the standard to test the effect. Even if I can't see it now, I think that boy will become a parent in a few years. Perhaps, for him, these experiences will be a valuable asset. It's hard to say. At least, this has aroused my great interest in reading, and I want to start writing again, record my mood and share my life.
Sometimes, life is like this. If you plant flowers with your heart, you can't bloom. I remember that around the Spring Festival in xx, a group of strangers and like-minded netizens made a small collection of "xx Works" in their spare time, in which one of my essays was selected. I didn't expect anyone to recognize my graffiti, which was a great encouragement to my confidence. At first, I didn't tell the boy about it, and even my wife didn't know how trivial it was. Maybe I was wrong. Why not tell him? He also needs the power of example and the motivation to learn. Now, a few years later, I took "xx" home and said to that boy, read hard, let's make an agreement, read and write together, and see who can stick to the end! I don't expect my children to be as good as Mr. X and his daughter in the future. I just hope he can remember that I am a "friend" with him, reading, writing, playing and having fun together on his way to study.
Reading is not a dead book, a dead book, but a living study. There is a wonderful couplet in A Dream of Red Mansions, which says, "Everything is clear and learned, and human cultivation is an article." Books with words should be read, and books without words should also be read, that is, people should concentrate on studying outside books and study hard. This matter will never die. I think, further, this may be the so-called "unity of knowledge and action."
Family education experience, about 500 words. 2022 (2) I am ashamed to say that my friends around me recommended Mr. X's lecture very early and never had a chance to learn. Thanks for the study organized by the school. Today, I was lucky enough to hear teacher X's xx, which benefited a lot.
Parents always blame their children for disobedience, but do we really understand the motives behind their bad behavior? Whether he wants to seek excessive attention, power or revenge, we need to learn how to read children. Being a parent is never a natural thing. We really need to study hard. It's not too late to start education. As Teacher X said, we should be glad that our children are still in the wrong primary stage and everything is still there. In case of conflict with children, we should take care of their feelings, pay more attention to their mental health and avoid excessive behavior. At the same time, we should also reflect on ourselves and learn how to control our emotions and solve problems calmly. As a mother of two children, I am also introspection, trying to change from a terrible big tiger to a docile little white rabbit in the eyes of children. I really want everything to start over.
What is the best education? I like kohut's famous saying that the most important source of a well-functioning psychological structure is parents' personality, especially their ability to respond to their children's needs, determination without hostility, affection without temptation.
The real "for your own good" looks at the smiling faces of the little babies, as if returning to childhood. The difference is that as parents, we have pressure, responsibility and all kinds of intrigue in the face of society, thinking that we are always so naive and carefree.
I was lucky enough to listen to Teacher X's class yesterday, and suddenly I found that the distance between me and my children was so far. I thought I had done my best. Who ever thought I was not qualified to really understand what my children need and how they feel? Looking at the questioning eyes of children, I never take it seriously. I always thought I was right and good. Companionship is the best bridge between parents and children, and the growth of children is a trip for parents. In the face of children who make mistakes, we can't just be angry and punish them, but control our temper and help them peacefully. Only when you are really strong enough can you accept and guide your children to bear the consequences.
If children are kites, parents are strings; If children are arrows, parents are bows. Letting go properly is both fulfillment and respect, and it is really "for your own good".
Family education experience, about 500 words. (3) When eating, my son suddenly asked me, "Mom, when is the summer vacation?" "Why do you ask?" I was surprised to ask my son, "I envy our classmates talking about computer games together today, but I know you won't let me play now." After the summer vacation, I can do what I want, play computer games and read humorous books. " It's not a taste to hear him say this, but I can understand his feelings.
Yes, children nowadays have been running in time since they were very young. Sometimes they practice piano and calligraphy, and the time for playing games is also cut, which makes children who can't play around feel tired, bored and unhappy, but their learning efficiency is not very high, and their consciousness and initiative are not enough. Although I know in my heart that I need to give my child enough time to play, so that he can feel relaxed and happy physically and mentally, and have the mood to create and imagine all the beautiful things in life, so that his personality and creativity can be developed. But in reality, they always give their children some pressure to learn, and learn from other parents invisibly, so that their children can learn this and that.
In a thousand words, being a parent, respecting children and cultivating children are endless courses. More importantly, as parents, their attitude towards life is the best education for their children.
My daughter xx is X and a half years old. She is a student in Class X, Grade X, Experimental Primary School in xx District. At present, she has excellent grades and a wide range of hobbies. Of course, this is inseparable from the hard education and patient guidance of teachers. Here, I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to all the teachers. Family is the second classroom for children's education, and parents are teachers' assistants. Children's education cannot be separated from parents' cooperation. Here I want to talk about my feelings about children's growth education:
1. Actively guide but don't force her hobbies: xx's current extracurricular interest classes mainly include painting and piano, and my educational method is mainly to guide her hobbies. I asked her for advice before she learned the piano. She didn't want to learn at that time, and I didn't force her. When she was almost X years old, I showed her a movie "xx Pianist". She was moved by the wonderful performance and humorous performance of the pianist xx, and took the initiative to learn the piano, and has maintained a strong interest until now.
2. Love in life, but not love: As the child grows up day by day, we will let her do some small things in life, and sometimes we will let her help adults do something within their power. We want her to understand that she should not only read good books, but also learn to live and care for everyone around her.
3. Praise more when you get achievements, encourage more when you encounter difficulties, and face and solve with your children: xx has been studying painting for almost X years. She studied gouache x years ago and drew very well. She once represented the Youth Palace in the xx Campus Painting Competition. At that time, she was the youngest participant in the Youth Palace and won the X prize in the children's group. This year, she began to learn sketch, which was much more difficult. At first, the posture of holding the pen was always wrong, and the ribbon cable didn't know where to start. The advantages before were gone, and she gradually lost interest in painting. She once said to me, "Mom, I don't want to learn to draw." I don't know anything about painting, but I don't want my children to give up halfway, so I look for videos online. Every time she paints, I stay with her and teach her patiently in the way I saw in the video. Sometimes I take her to draw while watching videos, and she makes rapid progress. Now every time she hands in her homework, the teacher says it's great and her interest is restored.
4. Communicate with the teacher more, keep abreast of the children's situation at school, and cooperate with the teacher to solve problems in time.
5. In addition, we should adhere to the principle: parents should grasp the general direction, cooperate with teachers to do a good job in students' study, strive to improve their academic performance, don't spoil them, and let their children learn to be independent from an early age and develop good study and living habits, such as packing their schoolbags after finishing their homework and preparing books for tomorrow's class.
6. In addition, parents should spend as much time with their children as possible, talk to them more, be their good friends, and let them play happily in their spare time instead of always being in a state of high pressure.
There are many methods of education, and different people have different views. I hope to have more exchanges and discussions with parents, improve their ability to educate their children, so that every child can grow up healthily and happily and have a wonderful childhood.
Family education experience, about 500 words. (5) Being a good child's first teacher is something that every parent has to experience. From the moment the child is born, we are duty-bound to bear the responsibility of raising and educating him. As a mother of two children, I have some experience in educating children. Here, I want to talk to you about educating our children.
I am a "professional" mother. Since I had children, I gave up my job and took care of them at home. My family Dabao is X and a half years old this year, and now she is in Grade X in primary school, which is also a sensitive age for Dabao. My second child was born. Now, X and a half months have passed, and the birth of Bao Xiao has brought infinite happiness to our happy family. But it also took me a lot of energy to be happy. So that I can't play, chat, play games and sleep with Dabao as usual. So I obviously feel that Dabao is not confident. Every day, I ask, "Do you love me?" I am helpless and anxious. I know that the child's heart is sensitive, and I have to spare more energy to take care of Dabao's emotions than before. Someone once said that communication is the best communication. Only through communication can we understand the inner thoughts of children. Although busy, I changed my old anxious attitude and gave my baby a hug at school with the best posture, telling him: "Mom loves you, so listen carefully at school!" " At noon, at the dinner table, I happily listened to all kinds of interesting things that happened to my son at school. Before going to bed at night, listen to what the baby wants to say today, listen carefully to the baby's shortcomings and advantages, and guide and correct the baby correctly. After a period of hard work, I obviously feel that Dabao has regained his usual optimism and happiness, and he is still humming a ditty when he walks. When others tease him again, "Mom doesn't love you, but loves his little brother", the baby will never be like before. "I am very pleased, because children's self-confidence is very important, and happiness is the most fundamental.
Lead by example. Parents are children's earliest teachers. It is very important for parents to do what they are asked to do. First, cultivate children's good habits. In life, children should learn to do their own things and finish their homework first after going home every day. Don't set too high demands on children, give them some room for free development, cultivate their interests in many aspects, and sign up for taekwondo classes in their spare time. I have been studying for several years now, and my children are very interested and my grades are good.
In a word, I hope my child is not only a child who is immersed in his studies, but also a person who loves life while studying hard. Fortunately, my son's teacher is a good teacher with rich teaching experience and strong sense of responsibility. In the future, I will often communicate with teachers to understand the reappearance of children in school and find more suitable educational methods with teachers.