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"TV series is TV series, and there is still a distance from reality. My husband's annual income is 6.5438+0.5 million, but I can't live Luo Zijun's life. 80,000 yuan to buy custom-made shoes and designer bags is unrealistic, not to mention living in Shanghai, even in Hangzhou. In the days after Luo Zijun's divorce, I can only think. For a woman who has stayed at home for many years, it is not so simple to return to the workplace. "
"Why do you have to use the workplace or family to distinguish women? Sounds particularly feminist. Some people get satisfaction from work, and I get satisfaction from my family, but there is a little difference. "
This is two stay-at-home wives in Hang Cheng talking about their full-time life. One is the post-70s, the other is the post-80s, the other is the drama My First Half Life, and the other is that I have never seen it. What is the life of a full-time wife in reality?
At 9 o'clock in the morning, in the hot Hangzhou, the sun is already very sinister. After watching her daughter walk into the classroom of the training institution, Chen Jun (pseudonym) returned to the car and was ready to take a nap, but her eyes were bloodshot and she couldn't sleep at all. Last night, my son shouted, "Leave me alone in the future!" It always explodes in his head. Jun Chen, born in 1973, originally started a business with her husband and was responsible for the company's finance. After the birth of her second daughter in 2005, she worked full-time at home.
"You say what I have done for so many years? I work full-time to bring my children back to my family. In the end, the rebellious period of a child made me feel that I was a failure. " Although the air conditioner is on in the car, the atmosphere is still sultry.
"I am not a full-time wife. To put it mildly, I am a full-time mother. To put it bluntly, I am a full-time nanny. Besides making money, I have to do everything at home and outside. If you have a job, no matter how much you earn, you can always shirk it, but who will be pushed to a full-time home? "
Chen Jun once enjoyed the joy of being a full-time mother, and that was her most fulfilling time. When my son went to primary school and my daughter went to kindergarten, my son was excellent and got good grades. I won many prizes for flute. As for my daughter, there is no academic pressure, and dancing and painting classes are very happy. Just hire an hourly worker to do cleaning at home.
"Many stay-at-home mothers like me have a sense of accomplishment from their children. My husband and I are high school classmates. We worked hard all the way from Quzhou to Hangzhou, and finally we had a small company. Frankly speaking, I really don't have the worry that my husband was robbed like Luo Zijun, and I rarely spend money on myself. What I want most is how to create a good future for my children. Unexpectedly, after my son went to junior high school, I didn't know whether it was a rebellious period or a decline in grades. There are more and more contradictions with me, and I don't know what to do. "
"My daughter went to junior high school in the second half of the year and reported several remedial classes in the summer vacation. My task is to pick it up and wait. In fact, my most daily life as a full-time wife is waiting, waiting for my children to leave school and waiting for my husband to come home.