Authorized parenting means that parents educate their children in a cooperative way. In the process of educating their children, they need to do the following:

First, respect children's feelings and needs.

Parents who adopt authorized education understand that children are the main body of growth, and the purpose of educating children is to achieve children. They won't usurp the role of masters and make decisions for children. They will respect their children's feelings and needs and will not impose their wishes on them. Even if children's decisions do not conform to their values and ideas, they will respect their choices and let them experience failures and successes and grow up by themselves.

Second, it has a win-win concept.

When our parents face their children, we go to work without any training, and it is lifelong. In the face of children's problems, wise parents will understand that this is not the child's fault, but our parents' fault, because children are like a mirror, reflecting our own shortcomings. With this understanding, when we educate our children, we will understand that we also need to grow and learn. In the process of educating children, we should keep a modest attitude when encountering problems, listen to children's ideas, experience together and grow together.

Third, set an example.

Being a parent is a powerful driving force for us to see clearly the purpose and meaning of life and a sincere invitation to life. When we change our words and deeds, our children's behavior will also change. Research shows that only 5% of learning in life comes from parents' teaching, while 95% of learning comes from our interaction with family and society.