1, attach importance to emotional intelligence and cultivate emotional intelligence, that is, the comprehensive ability of social adaptation. It is not enough for children to get good grades in school, but also to know how to accept others and let others accept themselves. This is also the basic meaning of love. While cultivating children's good moral character, we should teach them to form good temperament and emotion. 2. Cultivate children's ability to stand on their own feet. Parents should not let their children learn to do their own things in everything, and deliberately let their children run into nails and taste the pain. Temper children's willpower. 3. Don't close the children too much in the small circle of blind study. The modernization of the city has caused many people to move into high-rise buildings, and high-rise buildings with one door and one household are likely to create a closed environment for children. Therefore, children should be allowed or encouraged to walk down from tall buildings into the yard, play and communicate with neighbors or nearby children, and establish friendship. 4. Create conditions for children to make friends, not only let children walk down tall buildings and leave home, but also let children invite children into their own homes. Provide children with opportunities to make friends and teach them the art, methods and skills of making friends. 5. Try to let children participate in group activities, including games and homework invited by neighbors and children; Including cultural and sports activities organized by schools and classes; Including congratulating students on their birthdays, saying goodbye to teachers and so on. Experience friendship, wisdom and warmth from group activities.