Psychological counseling for adolescent girls. Children are the culmination of a mother's heart. When children enter adolescence, parents need to give them some psychological counseling so that they can correctly understand adolescence. Next, I will take you to know about the related contents of psychological counseling for adolescent girls.

Psychological counseling for adolescent girls 1 commendation and encouragement method

Everyone yearns for the certainty of others. Parents should use praise, encouragement, affirmation and appreciation to teach their children, learn to appreciate their children and learn to look at them from another angle; Of course, when praising children, we should be timely, moderate, sincere, not exaggerated or excessive. Otherwise, it will go the other way.

Enrich students' spare time life.

Teachers can enrich students' after-school life by developing their specialties and hobbies, so as to divert students' attention and let them use their energy in other aspects. For example, take part in sports, badminton, shuttlecock, basketball, skipping rope and so on. Join various interest groups, choirs, dance teams, art groups, etc. And chat and play with same-sex friends as much as possible.

Environmental edification method

Man is the product of the environment. Both the humanistic environment and the natural environment of the family have an impact on children. In dealing with interpersonal relationships, parents should show ideological qualities and personality charm such as kindness, generosity, justice, progress, civilization, generosity and hard work, and form an excellent family atmosphere.

How to educate and guide adolescent girls?

1. Adolescence is a period of resistance. You should control your emotions reasonably and don't lose your temper with your children. No scolding, no beating.

2. Adolescence is a period of sexual impulse. Take the initiative to learn some knowledge about sex and correctly understand and face up to this problem. Then to guide the psychological problems of adolescent children.

3. Adolescence is an important period of development, and all kinds of physiology and psychology are changing. Pay attention to your health, take a bath frequently and change clothes frequently to prevent the growth of bacteria. Take more exercise. Tell children how to spend adolescence better.

Adolescent girls' psychological counseling 2 Adolescent girls often feel confused, confused and even uneasy about some problems encountered in their growth and development, especially some situations in the process of sexual development. So how do parents give psychological counseling to adolescent girls? In fact, at every stage of girls' sexual psychological development, there is a very complicated and contradictory mentality: they pay attention to the behavior of the opposite sex and hope to get the good impression of the opposite sex, but they bury this desire in their hearts, showing formality and indifference, reserve and shyness.

In fact, the sexual psychology of adolescent girls is in an immature state and has great plasticity. Through active education, they can cultivate and shape healthy sexual psychology. If left unchecked, it may slide into the abyss of sexual crimes. At the beginning of adolescent sexual intercourse, two situations can occur. First, influenced by the feudal concept of chastity, they thought they were unfaithful and unclean, and since then they have been burdened with heavy regrets, unable to lift their heads, or can be broken. Second, sexual desire starts prematurely, which leads to a violent increase in sexual desire and sexual excitement and falls into a state of pursuing sexual pleasure. This is the way some girls go from sexual experience to sexual crime. Sexual crimes can easily form dynamic stereotypes and become stubborn sexual habits, which are difficult to change.

After many investigations, it is found that the sexual maturity tendency of Chinese teenagers is earlier than that of 1950s and 1960s, and the forward inclination of sexual maturity leads to the early appearance of sexual psychology. Cognitive psychology believes that the information about sex has greatly increased, and people's sexual concepts have also changed greatly. All these frequently stimulate girls' brains and gonads, promote the germination of sexual physiology early, and inevitably promote the development of sexual psychology. However, the development of social productive forces and the increasing complexity of social life have delayed the social psychological maturity of girls. Under the condition of immature social psychology, they lack scientific understanding of physical development and sexual psychology germinated by physical development, and are easy to fall into blindness.

Tips: In fact, every parent loves their children very much, but sometimes there are more and more estrangements and misunderstandings with their children because of the wrong educational methods. Then we should pay more attention to children, less scolding, more understanding and less misunderstanding, and more positive education of empathy, which may cultivate and shape healthy sexual psychology. If they beat, scold, close and beg, then wisdom makes it harder for them to turn back.

Psychological counseling for adolescent girls 3 leads you out of the psychological misunderstanding of adolescence

Curious, competitive, one-sided vanity.

With the development of the body and the expansion of social communication, the self-esteem of teenagers is increasing day by day. However, this self-esteem is easily distorted by the pursuit of vanity. For example, one-sided vanity is used to satisfy one's curiosity, competitiveness and psychological desire for self-expression. In recent years, the number of teenagers smoking and drinking is on the rise, mainly because of curiosity, which makes them look like adults, easy to make friends, more relaxed, natural and unrestrained, generous, competitive and so-called "psychological rebellion." Some girls excessively pursue dressing up and emphasize high consumption before they go out of society. If this kind of bad psychology is left unchecked, it may go astray.

Dissatisfaction in spiritual and cultural life

Many teenagers in rural and remote areas share this mentality. They think that their real life is far from the way of life in books and movies, and their cultural life is poor, or they are overwhelmed by the increasingly heavy study burden and have no time to enjoy the fun of cultural life. The dull and monotonous life can't meet their spiritual and cultural needs, and they are dissatisfied or bored. In order to enrich their spiritual life, they will blindly seek spiritual stimulation and so-called joy in society. It is conceivable that if it is allowed to develop, what kind of consequences will be produced.

Immature love psychology

Due to the development of physical developmental psychological activities and the influence of objective environment, teenagers gradually have a good impression on the opposite sex, and the courtship psychology begins to sprout. However, limited by their knowledge structure, knowledge level and life experience, their understanding of love is still superficial and hazy, which seems childish and immature. Some people are eager to find opportunities to experience the taste of love, so there will be unhealthy phenomena such as puppy love and polyandry. For example, there is a high school girl who wants three male students to help her: one should study hard and help her study; One should be able to talk, play and play with her; The other will be considerate and become her faithful servant. After some attempts, she was able to get what she wanted while maintaining a super friendly relationship with them. When someone asked her who she would marry in the future, she easily replied, "I haven't thought about getting married yet!" " "This immature love psychology is harmful to yourself, others and even society.

Sexual Mystery and Sexual Impulse Psychology

After entering adolescence, due to the rapid development and maturity of sexual function, teenagers are interested in sexual knowledge, but due to the failure to carry out adolescent sex education well, a considerable number of them have a certain sense of sexual mystery and ignorance. Driven by this psychology and the above-mentioned immature love psychology, people often lack sufficient understanding of sexual morality and sexual civilization, so that they can't control the temptation of external bad factors, which is easy to produce sexual impulses and eventually lead to deviant behavior and serious consequences.

Degrade one's inferiority complex.

Inferiority is a defect in the development of teenagers' personality, which degrades their ability and quality, and may be accompanied by some special emotional experiences, such as shyness, guilt, sadness and self-blame. Inferiority often affects interpersonal relationships, thus deepening inferiority complex. A large number of facts show that they often get low test scores, often repeat grades, are often criticized, fail in the college entrance examination, can't find a job or a job, can't get the attention of leaders, and are frustrated in marriage and love, even in appearance; The body does not meet social aesthetic standards, etc. This may be the reason for inferiority complex. Inferiority can easily cause teenagers to give up on themselves and not strive for progress.

Right and wrong fuzzy psychology

Teenagers are mostly inexperienced, inexperienced. If we relax in political and ideological education and lack correct guidance, we will easily have a vague mentality of right and wrong. In addition, some parents or teachers adopt closed education methods, which leads to various rebellious psychology of teenagers, which will lead them to distinguish right from wrong, run counter to the correct guiding ideology of education, and even go astray.

The study of teenagers' unhealthy psychology and the implementation of its prevention and treatment should attract the attention of the society and need to be strengthened urgently. Teenagers themselves should also strengthen the cultivation of their own political and psychological qualities, show the courage and perseverance to overcome and get rid of the above-mentioned bad psychology, and strive to make themselves useful talents for the country and the people.