Although the probability of "school shooting" is very small, every parent will have such a shadow in his heart. In fact, such worries are unnecessary. Parents don't need to worry about the "school shooting" incident, but it is some unsafe factors around them that deserve more attention.
Due to the common phenomenon of international students' foreign exchange, loneliness is inevitable in the country where they study, and there is a need to make friends. However, in the process of choosing, international students should be careful to avoid being deceived. Many international students choose to explore abroad or invite friends to travel during their holidays. During holidays, students must pay attention to personal safety, make detailed plans in advance, and carefully choose their traveling companions. In addition, in view of the recent frequent traffic accidents abroad, students should learn more about foreign traffic laws and regulations to avoid traffic accidents caused by their own reasons.
2. Psychological safety: overcome impetuousness and relax.
Almost all international students, during their first time abroad, are faced with great learning pressure and psychological pressure caused by their inability to understand the language, which makes some students with poor psychological endurance at a loss, anxious and even unable to continue their studies.
Don't take sudden pressure too seriously. This is a problem that every international student has to face. Relax, discuss and communicate with teachers and classmates around you, and constantly improve your language level. China students' learning ability has always been excellent, so don't worry too much. In addition, parents should not say in front of their children that learning costs are high and the family burden is heavy, which will increase the pressure on their children. For a few children with poor psychological endurance, it is best to have some mental health consultation and necessary independent education.
3. study safety: select famous schools carefully and work moderately.
The concept of "learning safety", after many students successfully studied abroad, the undergraduate course that should have been completed in four years has not been completed in five years; Or being repatriated by immigrants for various reasons is a heavy blow to the family economy and students' psychology. The reason is that in the process of studying abroad, students ignore the original intention of studying abroad and pursue things beyond study too much, which shows their enthusiasm for famous schools and jobs. When parents plan to study abroad for their children, it is best to extend the fixed number of years appropriately and reserve enough budget to avoid being caught off guard when problems arise.
Almost all parents in China want their children to attend prestigious schools, which is also a "prestigious school complex" rooted in the hearts of parents in China. In fact, foreign famous schools are not as easy to enter as expected, and schools need to examine students' comprehensive ability before sending admission notices; On the other hand, the educational methods of famous foreign schools are quite different from those in China. The courses of famous schools are more in-depth than those of ordinary colleges and universities. Many students with average learning ability can't keep up with the progress, study hard and can't even graduate. Therefore, parents should give up the famous school complex and choose suitable overseas institutions according to their children's interests, abilities and family economic conditions, so as to avoid the mentality of being eager for success and ambitious, and delay their children's future.