When talking with the opposite sex, look into each other's eyes to show respect, but some people will have ambiguous misunderstandings, which is very confusing. Where should I look? Today, we invite the Duchess of Snowy Night, a nationally registered senior etiquette trainer and a special etiquette professor at the School of Overseas Education of Shanghai Jiaotong University, to talk about the best eyes when talking with the opposite sex.

The duchess of hakodate thinks that unless they are close lovers, they can convey tenderness and tenderness with their eyes for a long time. If you talk to the opposite sex in normal social life and work, smart women will definitely not stare at men for a long time, otherwise, they will either be regarded as rude or give people the opportunity to look down on themselves. Then where should I look? How long will it take?

(1) When talking with the opposite sex, women should look at the "triangle" from the other person's eyes to the mouth, which is the so-called social gaze area. If your eyes are always wandering around and scanning up and down outside the area, it will be very rude.

(2) The time to see each other should be 1/3 to 2/3 of the whole conversation time, and you can express your respect for each other in a friendly way. More than 2/3, that is, no matter what the other party says, you stare straight at the other party, which is bound to form an ambiguous or provocative "stare"; On the other hand, if the gaze time is less than 1/3, the other person will obviously feel that you are not interested in his words, which is not conducive to establishing good interpersonal relationships.