Pay attention to the child's speech speed and tone, and you can also judge whether the child is lying. Lying children speak at a different speed than usual, and there is no difference between high and low. He spoke carefully for fear that others would find out that he was lying.
3 Ask your child a few more words and make a judgment. Children are too young to lie for themselves, and they are exposed when asked. For example, my children sometimes don't want to go to training classes. When I was not at home, I even said that I went to class. I asked: Where are we today? What are we talking about? The child couldn't answer, so I knew he was lying.
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My second child is less than five years old now, but he is a little liar.
If the child lies, his language is not fluent and he falters. Then, tell her that a lying child is not a good child. After asking two questions, she told the truth. The reason why she doesn't tell the truth is that she is afraid of being scolded and image, but sometimes she can't stand the temptation. Therefore, parents can clearly tell when children lie.
As soon as you observe the child's expression, if the child speaks, he will not dare to look into your eyes, knowing that his lying expression is unnatural and his eyes will avoid you. Because he's guilty,
The second one pays attention to the child's speech speed and tone. Lying children speak at a different speed than usual, with no high or low tone, and speak carefully. The third one asked a few more questions. He won't let the cat out of the bag by asking a few more questions about his wit. Inconsistent.
Fourth, observe and pay attention to the child's behavior, and you can also judge that he is unnatural when lying, doesn't like to continue chatting with you, wants to avoid you, and wants to leave quickly. There may be small movements, such as looking around with your eyes or picking around with your little hands. Or put the fifth hand somewhere. You can make some appropriate reminders first, such as lying. If the wolf touches your nose, it will eat your nose. It is possible to lie.
It is easy for children to judge when they lie, and there are usually flaws!
1. Generally, children who tell lies have no confidence. After all, they are lying, so they have no confidence in speaking, their voices are definitely not loud, and their confidence is not enough!
2. There is also the fact that children usually tell lies without looking into their parents' eyes or at you. When they talk to you, they build one another. When you ask, it's, uh-huh, yes, yes, they won't answer your question directly!
3. There are children, who usually blush when telling lies to you, for fear that you will see the flaw. If you stare at him or her, he or she will feel guilty!
4. You can tell your child a deceptive story: for example, Pinocchio's story! Or give an example of lying and see how the child reacts!
You have a tough attitude. You can ask more questions. It's a lie not to answer directly!
Ah Qiu is here to share several kinds with you.
1, strange eyes
Children who lie are usually afraid of making eye contact with their parents.
Of course, this only applies to younger children. Those children with 15 or above have high EQ. They can disguise themselves very well, even if they visit their parents, they will not show any traces.
In fact, parents can still judge from the length of eye contact. Too long or too short is a problem.
2. The problem of repetition
Another sign of lying is to ask questions repeatedly, because it always takes time to make up stories.
For example, you may ask your children what they do after school, and they will probably answer, "Oh, what did I do after school?" ? After school ... "
3. The child unconsciously touches his face.
Children unconsciously touching their face, ears or nose may be a sign of lying, and licking their lips is also a common clue.
4. Speak intermittently and incoherently
Children stuttering is a very obvious sign of lying.
5, the reaction is not normal
Children usually overreact when they lie, trying to prove themselves.
6. Pose some strange postures
If a child suddenly stands in front of you with his hands behind his back, or expresses something in an unnatural posture, he is probably lying.
7. Keep blinking
Eyes usually reveal a person's secret. When the child is talking, he always blinks or his eyes are still staring at you, indicating that something has happened.
8, fidgeting, a little anxious
Children always fiddle with their fingers and look around when talking to you. A little absent-minded and flustered is also a sign of lying.
9. There are many words.
? Once a child tells a lie, he always wants you to believe it, so he may add many small details to prove himself.
Two of my family, the older one, especially likes to lie from kindergarten to primary school. I spent several times to pay attention and found some rules. Fortunately, they have all got rid of these bad habits now.
1. My children usually have no confidence in telling lies. After all, they are lying, so they have no confidence to speak. They must not be confident loudly!
Besides, when he lies, he usually keeps his head down and doesn't dare to look me in the eye. He talks to you one after another. When you ask, he just, um, um, right, right, won't answer my question directly!
3. And my children usually blush when they tell you lies, for fear that you will see the flaw. If you stare at him or her, he or she will feel guilty! If you ask him again, he will cry.
Find out the reason why the child lies, guide him more, tell him the correct solution, and make him realize that it is very wrong and irrational to do so.
How to judge whether the child is lying;
First of all, look at the expression.
Observe his facial expression when he speaks. If the child lies, his eyes wander and he dare not look you in the eye. Secondly, his facial micro-expression will be unnatural, so to judge whether he is lying, you can observe his facial expression carefully.
Second, listen to the sound.
If a child tells a lie, his speaking volume will be lower and his speaking speed will be very different in peacetime. Because of his lying psychology, he is afraid that others will find out that he is lying.
Third, ask questions.
Because the child is too young to lie for himself, you should judge whether he is lying or not, and you may reveal a flaw if you ask any more questions.
Hello, I'm @ Rainbow Science Parenting, and I'm glad to answer this question for you. Parents should trust their children more, but some of their lies can't be ignored. Whether you take it seriously or not, at least you should have the ability to judge whether the child is lying.
1, strange eye contact Children who lie are usually afraid to make eye contact with their parents.
Of course, this only applies to younger children. Those children above 15 already have high EQ, and they can disguise themselves well, even if they look at their parents. In fact, parents can still judge from the length of eye contact. Too long or too short is a problem.
2. Another sign of repeated questioning and lying is repeated questioning, because it always takes time to make up stories. For example, you may ask your children what they do after school, and they will probably answer, "Oh, what did I do after school?" ? After school, I ...
3. The child unconsciously touches his face. Children unconsciously touching their face, ears or nose may be a sign of lying, and licking their lips is also a common clue.
4. Intermittent and incoherent speech. Talking to children or intermittently is a very obvious sign of lying.
5, abnormal reaction Children usually overreact when lying, trying to prove themselves.
6. Make some strange gestures. If a child suddenly stands in front of you with his hands behind his back, or expresses something in an unnatural posture, he is probably lying.
7. Blinking often reveals a person's secret. When the child is talking, he always blinks or his eyes are still staring at you, indicating that something has happened.
8, fidgeting, some anxious children always pull their fingers when talking to you, look around, a little absent-minded, flustered is also a sign of lying.
9. There are many words. Once a child tells a lie, he always wants you to believe it, so he may add many small details to prove himself. If a child is always nagging something to prove something to you, he is probably lying.
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