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Rousseau once said: "It is natural to hope that children will be like children before adulthood. If we destroy this order, we will make some precocious fruits, which are neither full nor sweet, and will soon rot. "
George used to be a child and was slow in many ways. When he was a child, when other children could turn over, he would not turn over; When other children can sit, he can't turn over; A child younger than him can learn to walk, but he still can't stand up. You can speak freely. George only talks about eggs and 12 1 1.
In the process, I heard a lot of unfriendly remarks. Someone told me, is your child stupid? Someone asked me, is your child stupid?
To tell the truth, I'm not too worried, because George learns quickly, but this language is the only one that children can't speak. When I was two years old, I was still mumbling.
I consulted a doctor during the routine physical examination. The doctor made a comprehensive evaluation and told me not to worry. I will talk in three months and come back for examination in three months, but your child doesn't need to come back for examination.
The stone in my heart finally fell to the ground.
The stone in my heart finally fell to the ground.
Awakening Ah Fu is China's version. The original English name is "Leo the Late Bloomer", which literally means "lower body bloomer".
Ah Fu, the protagonist of Ah Fu's escape, is not doing well. He cannot read, write, draw, eat or speak a word.
"What happened to Ah Fu?" Ah Fu's father asked.
Ah Fu's mother said, "Nothing, but Ah Fu is a little late."
"It's better to recover late than never." Ah Fu's father thought.
During the day, my father stared at Ah Fu to see if he was vulnerable. At night, Dad stared at Ah Fu to see if Mom K had come back to life.
"Ah Fu can certainly do it?" Dad asked.
"Be patient," mom said. "If you keep staring at him, he won't get rid of it."
So dad went to watch TV and stopped staring at Ah Fu.
It's snowing. Dad didn't stare at Ah Fu. Ah Fu still didn't catch its branch. The branches sprouted. Dad didn't stare at Ah Fu, but Ah Fu didn't speak.
One day, when the time comes, Ah Fu won his heart!
He can read, write, draw, eat clean and say it again. He not only said a word, but also said a whole sentence-I will do it!
What worries me most about this slow-moving child is how difficult it will be for him to face this cruel world alone in the future.
I am very lucky. When I saw this picture book, I was really moved sometimes. Picture books are usually not suitable for children, but they are suitable for ourselves.
After reading this book, I feel relaxed about George's all-round development. I began to believe that he had his own life track. Apart from some questions of principle, the way I trained him became easier.
Many parents think that if children can't speak, they can be forced to speak instead of acting as senior translators, but this is not feasible for my children. George has been a little old since he was a child. He resolutely refused what he didn't like. Yes, I followed my old mother.
Let him go. I'll tell him. If you don't want to talk, don't talk.
All I have to do is drive him crazy. He can go out whenever he wants except on cloudy days, no matter whether it is windy or rainy or whether the temperature is high or low. The farthest time during this period, I took him to Dalian to see the sea. In those days, he hardly landed. I took him away for more than ten hours on average during the day, and even took him down.
There is no doubt that during the free-range and crazy play in less than three months, George said: Now, he can communicate with adults and speak some simple English word strings.
If the biggest gain of the past year is what I have learned, it may be to let children live a real childhood like children.
The world of adults is too impetuous, busy with appreciation and salary increase, busy with better cars and bigger houses.
We indirectly pass on these concepts to our children: we must not lose at the starting line in life, and we must seize the time to learn more skills.
Adults will miss more things after hijacking their children's childhood: running in the fields, mud everywhere, small adventures, and occasional pranks. ...
I found an art institution some time ago. Their school philosophy is to let children bring things they don't use at home to school. Through their own imagination, teachers can help and guide them to do various things. You can also tell stories and draw them together. Their evaluation mechanism for teachers is that all children's works should not be the same to protect children's imagination.
I went to investigate, and although I was a little tempted, I met an art teacher later. She told me that art has begun to play a role. Take children to nature, see more and feel more. There is no need to design art for children under four years old. In the training class, all you need is free graffiti.
I prefer the latter concept.
I prefer the latter concept.
Jing Li, the host, once mentioned in a program that everyone goes to interest classes. There are also mothers who feel that other people's learning methods are diverse, and she will blame herself. Arrange ten at the same time
There are many such situations around me, especially the parents of children, whose development is slightly delayed.
Experts point out that mothers are eager to let their children attend interest classes. Whether you can't lose at the starting line or let your child have more playmates, the key is not the child's interest, but the mother's interest. Many children can't persist, on the one hand, because they are still young and can't cope with so many things. On the other hand, from the perspective of children's brains, they can't actually do many things at the same time. Children lack sleep for a long time, their diet is also affected, and their emotions are prone to fluctuations.
Professor of East China Normal University wrote that we have successfully turned children into TIC disorder patients.
A brief summary of TIC disorder is that some children's facial expressions suddenly blink and their mouths tilt.
Mothers may need to restore their children to their original state in the next decade.
In order to raise children, our parents should first relax themselves and let their children explore and know themselves as much as possible on their own life path. Education is a kind of waiting, and waiting is love for patients.