The famous German philosopher Jaspers once said: The essence of education is that a tree shakes another tree, a cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul summons another soul. What is education? No matter how it is defined, we all know that in real life, especially in family education, parents' education for their children has always been a very concerned issue. Recently, the father of a four-year-old daughter in Hangzhou was distressed by his disagreement with his wife about his daughter's training class, which also triggered a heated discussion among netizens.

First, continuous training from an early age. It is reported that my father's daughter Xiaoshan is only four years old this year. In addition to attending kindergarten, she also has a series of interest classes such as eloquence, English, dance, early education, sports and music. Moreover, these training courses are advocated by children and mothers, and they even feel it necessary to add two more. Dad said he didn't understand. He thinks that childhood, which should be full of fun, was spent in study, and he can't communicate with his wife to reach an agreement.

2. Whether it is reasonable to aspire to success. In contemporary society, many parents want their children to become excellent continuously, and take a series of measures based on this, such as extracurricular training classes and so on. It is undeniable that this is an era full of competitive pressure. Many parents want their children to win at the starting line, but sometimes it may be too late or even counterproductive. From a certain point of view, the number of training courses will not be directly proportional to the child's mental growth. Similarly, the types of training courses may not fully meet children's talents and interests. If parents' choices are too personal, it is an irrational decision to impose them on their children because they have no chance to get them.

3. Education needs individual participation. As the saying goes, company is the longest confession. Used in education, it can be said that the company of parents may become a valuable asset for children's life. Aside from the training class, we may compare it to that everyone is a window, and communicating with someone is to see the world through his perspective. Then in the parent-child relationship, most of the world in the eyes of children is shaped by parents, so parents themselves play an irreplaceable role in the growth of children. Therefore, we can say that training courses are only an auxiliary means of education, and more importantly, parents need to connect their children with the world.

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