I don't know if I didn't get much love since I was a child. You can handle your own affairs at an early age. 17 years old, went to Guangzhou to work with my little sister in the same village and rented a cheap rental house. In order to save money, I bought an inferior patch panel in a two-yuan store and cooked with an induction cooker, which led to great disaster!
That patch panel was originally a three-no product, let alone qualified and unqualified, only that the power could not be brought up by the induction cooker! The consequences can be imagined. When food burns, the plug board will burst, the fire head will crack along the wire, and sparks will be everywhere. In an instant, I jumped on the wall!
My little sister threw down the spatula and ran away screaming, leaving me alone on the narrow balcony. I have no time to think, only one thought, I can't set fire to the house! I didn't think about my own safety, and I wasn't afraid. I glanced at it and saw a vegetable washing basin next to it, but there was no water in it! I quickly grabbed the washbasin and ran into the bathroom. I emptied the water in the bucket and ran back to the balcony. A basin of water spilled on it and the fire was put out …
This mistake caused the whole building to trip and lose power. Fortunately, the landlord was very kind and didn't say anything to blame. He just said that the burnt-out sockets and wires should be replaced.
After dealing with things, Miss Jie is still in shock! She asked me, why didn't you run when it was so terrible? I said that minor accidents are not terrible, and it will be terrible if the fire is not put out in time. There are so many people in the whole building, the consequences are unimaginable!
Later, I heard that my handling method was wrong, and this situation cannot be splashed with water. But fortunately, nothing serious happened. No matter whether my method was right or not, I finally got it right.
Now, after many years, that sister still calls me every time she mentions this matter. How brave at that time! Actually, it's not daring, but I know from an early age that I can't panic when I meet anything. The more panic and chaos, the greater the loss.
My husband has a sister, who is frail all the year round. She has been married for many years and can't have children. 38 years old, I don't know how I suddenly got pregnant. The doctor said that for the sake of adults, it is not recommended that the child stay. After so many years, the brother-in-law family finally saw hope, and they could not give up.
The child was left behind when everyone knew the danger. For the sake of his wife and children, his brother-in-law went to work in other places and put his aunt in my house, so that he could earn more money. I was going to wait for menstruation to come back the month after giving birth, but I didn't expect menstruation to be born prematurely! More than two months in advance!
That night, after watching TV, everyone went to bed. Before lying down, my aunt began to have a stomachache. Our whole family felt bad and called an ambulance at once. When the ambulance came, my aunt's condition was already very bad!
My husband and I held the baby for three months, and my mother-in-law went with us. The doctor was busy in the operating room for a long time and came out to tell us that the situation was very bad! Originally, pregnant women were in poor health and the situation was complicated. If it doesn't go well, they may focus on one! Everyone should be mentally prepared and come up with several lists similar to the critically ill notice for family members to sign.
It was supposed to be my brother-in-law's business, but he couldn't get it back, so he had to let my mother-in-law sign it. When I looked back, my mother-in-law was shivering in the corner, unwilling to sign anyway, for fear that she could not explain it clearly to her brother-in-law.
I turned to my husband for help and found him lying on a chair, feeling nothing but tears and a runny nose! Nurses and doctors are waiting, and time is pressing, so we must do it quickly!
"This is no time, what responsibility is not responsibility, your daughter's life is the most important thing! If I am an immediate family member, I will sign it myself, not looking for you! " But no matter what I say, my mother-in-law won't let go. Maybe I'm scared silly, or maybe I'm really afraid of being accused of something.
As the only reasonable person, I don't care much. I gritted my teeth, put the child on the bench and took her mother-in-law's hand. She struggled desperately. I just came to put it down. I just held her hand and signed the critically ill notice.
Then, I called my brother-in-law and asked him to hurry home as soon as possible. Then I ran up and down with my child in my arms and went through the relevant formalities for her. When I am finished, I will sit next to them and comfort them, saying that signing is just in case, but it is not like this. Don't think too much, it will be fine …
After tossing for more than three hours, the mother and son were finally safe, and the mother-in-law dared to cry loudly. My husband breathed a sigh of relief and came back to life. The child had to be put into the incubator because of premature birth, and the mother also needed careful care. Mother-in-law stayed to take care of her daughter. We went through the formalities of putting the baby in the incubator and prepared what we needed to buy.
While preparing things, my husband said to me, "Thanks to you, my brain is no longer online and my limbs are resting. I want to cry at the thought that my sister may have left. How do you keep calm? " .
I rolled my eyes and said, "Why can't I calm down? Not my own sister. I am a bystander. Didn't you say that caring is messy? I don't care, so I won't mess around ... "
Of course, my husband also recognized that I was teasing him and deliberately said so. In fact, what I really think in my heart is: the whole family is a coward!
My brother-in-law arrived in the evening, and when he saw his wife and children crying, he must have been worried all the way. After hearing about the whole process, he said many words of thanks to me. When he left the hospital, he paid back the money I gave them in advance and invited his family to dinner.
Later, when chatting together at home, my aunt often said half jokingly and half seriously that I saved her and her children's lives. He also said, I really didn't see that a person who seems to be taciturn at ordinary times can handle it better than a man at critical times!
I said, don't say thank you. When my niece grows up, let her get more sugar for my aunt!
Because of this, I went back to my mother's house and was scolded by my mother! She said, "Your mother and brother are here. How can you be extraordinary? People's own mothers are afraid of taking responsibility, so you have to rush! This is good luck. Adults and children can. If something happens, can you get rid of it? Maybe your husband is blaming you ... "
I kept apologizing to my mother. Actually, I don't know what my mother said. In case of an accident, it is estimated that it will become a target of public criticism. Anyway, I'm an outsider and I shouldn't take any risks.
However, if I had thought about it for a long time, his sister would have been saved, and she would have been saved! Maybe God thought I did the right thing, so he gave me a peaceful ending. I don't regret it anyway.
A colleague once asked me that you are a girl's family and you are so calm when you encounter difficulties. Is it because of any training or other reasons?
I said, of course there is a reason, because I am Capricorn! hahaha ...
I will do it myself. Just after giving birth, I dragged my weak body outside the delivery room and shouted to my husband: I'm fine. Take care of my mother. Don't worry. Scared doctors and nurses came to shut up for fear of bleeding, but I knew I had to shout this sentence.
When my son was born that year, my mother came to me a week earlier than the due date. My mother has never been out of town except the last time I had an abortion. When she was away from home, she couldn't tell the difference between the east and the west. She doesn't know where to go when walking in the crowd, and she can't take the subway or take the bus.
That time, I couldn't get out of bed because no one took care of my mother. She set foot on the train that left home for me for the first time. She came to Beijing alone to take care of me and took care of me for half a month. She didn't go out to cook, clean and enlighten me once, but unfortunately she didn't keep it that time, so she had to go to the hospital to have an abortion.
I don't know why, it hurts especially when I have an abortion. It makes me vomit and twitch all over. Maybe it's hard for me. The attending doctor insisted that I was faking pain, refused to prescribe medicine for me, and even refused to admit me to hospital. He just told me to take abortion pills and wait at home, and then come back to the hospital for reexamination in seven days. However, I can't stand up in pain. I clearly remember lying in a chair in the hospital corridor, sweating with pain and vomiting all over. My mother is so anxious that she can do nothing but cry. She said over and over again, "Hospitals are places to save lives. How can you avoid destruction? "
Looking at me with severe pain, my mother, who has never been far away, doesn't know what to do. Later, a doctor walked around the corridor and found me. Then the doctor went to the attending doctor and asked him how to handle the matter and asked him to check it again. Later, I was admitted to the inpatient ward, stayed in the hospital for observation and gave me painkillers.
After this time, I really dare not look for my mother again, and I don't want her to be so helpless for me. I can never forget her helplessness and discomfort when she cried and said, "I have money but I can't spend it." During my stay in hospital, there was a small shop selling clothes in front of the hospital. When my friend came to see me and took her out for dinner, she saw it and silently wrote down the address. After I settled down in the evening, my mother went out alone and bought me a yellow vest. I forgot how much it was, only that it was expensive. I told my mother not to buy it. You're still wearing autumn clothes. Others have it, and I want my daughter to have it.
Abortion made my mother suffer a lot. Every time I think that I have never been out of town in my life, I don't know that my mother in the southeast and northwest is walking alone in the endless street, which makes me suffocate. I used to think that this was the last time my parents suffered for me. However, this time, when I have a child, I will never find my mother.
I know I can't let my mother be like last time, so I must be calm and strong. Even if the baby is in pain, I try not to shout, for fear that my mother will feel distressed and angry.
After giving birth, I heard the nurse calling my family and my husband's anxious voice. I quickly shouted "I'm fine, I'm fine, let my mother rest assured" because I knew that if I didn't tell them that I was fine, my mother would be very anxious outside. My mother was deaf in one ear for half a year because she was in a hurry to accompany her during childbirth. I will never let this happen again. Anyway, I had to call her.
Later, my husband told me that after I entered the delivery room, my mother began to listen to the door. Later, when she heard a woman screaming, she silently went to a deserted place and began to cry. She thought it was me who was yelling in the delivery room and didn't stop crying until she heard me say nothing.
Therefore, I am glad that my strength at that time made my mother's worries less and it was worth doing.
I saw myself. It is difficult to have a second child, and the fetus is too big to be born. The doctor said that it was too late to pull the caesarean section, and my head got stuck. At first, I collapsed. After the fetal heart alarm sounded, the baby's heart rate dropped. The doctor said it was dangerous. I worked hard, but it was over an hour, and my head was too big to give birth. Later, I remembered that my mother said that they had been squatting for a few years. I tried it myself, and the doctor said it was ok, but I was afraid I couldn't squat down. I let them hold me behind me and made two efforts. The child came out and gave me a dozen stitches. The child weighs almost eight kilograms. Because it is a small county town, the doctor only weighed more than six pounds when he evaluated it. I really walked in the jaws of death once. Now think about it and admire yourself. I was calm and heavy. I didn't cry, otherwise it would be over.
The coolest girl I have ever seen is a 7-year-old girl!
On the Dragon Boat Festival that year, we received several cases that children were accidentally injured when they went back to their grandmother's house for holidays or holidays. Other children cry in front of their parents before entering the operating room. Even if you don't cry before entering the operating room, you will be stabbed to cry during local anesthesia. Or, because of fear and nervousness, children will please or refuse medical staff and so on. One of the biggest characteristics of children is that when their parents are not around, they will cry less and then tend to be quiet.
The seven-year-old child, from the emergency surgery to the operating room, kept his mood unchanged, kept his heart beating, answered the doctor's inquiry like a stream, and described the process of his injury completely. She is not only as calm as water, but also comforts her grandmother, not to worry her, saying that she doesn't hurt. The little girl is more mature than her age. At first, we all thought that the child had a tragic life experience, but we really thought too much. I didn't know that her father was my husband's classmate until her father came to our hospital. The family is happy, and the 7-year-old girl grew up in a honey pot. [Yi tooth] Even when she was anesthetized with needles at the root of her fingers, she was calm and calm. Injured adults have experience. 【 Wu face 】 refers to the root anesthesia, adults will be twisted with pain. She didn't show! What a calm child!
Because I once cut my finger with a blade at work, that is, the root of my finger was anesthetized. It was useless. I was stabbed and cried ... [covering my face]
Do I count?
Last July, I slipped in the shower at home, my thigh was cut by a glass door, and my thigh tendon was completely broken (later 65 stitches). I fell in a pool of blood, and my heart couldn't move for almost five minutes. There were only two children at home with me at that time. In order not to be scared, I called 120 with a straight face and arranged for two children to get clothes for hospitalization. One went downstairs and called an ambulance at the gate of the community.
I don't think I'm calm, but I'm mainly afraid of scaring the children.
I am the one who is particularly calm in the eyes of relatives and friends. Who let me be a Scorpio? [Yi tooth] [Yi tooth] [Yi tooth]
I remember when I was pregnant, from the very beginning of the pregnancy test, I said that the fetal position was not correct. I don't do that little exercise every day. I sweat for half an hour in the morning and evening in summer, but I still have a heart. After eight months of exercise, the fetal position is still not correct [cover your face] [cover your face]. In the doctor's words, people stand comfortably and don't want to lie down. Until the day I gave birth, there was nothing I could do. I just tidied up what I was taking to the hospital, and I didn't say I was going to the hospital until the next morning when I reacted violently. When my husband saw the side cut, he suddenly sweated. I also advised him not to be afraid, not to look at the knife, but to look at me, so that he could [yi tooth] [yi tooth] [yi tooth]. After coming out of the delivery room, my husband immediately had loose bowels for infusion, which is said to be scared. Later he joked that I was in pain. Who can take your place?
Another time, I went out to work in the company car. I am sitting in the passenger seat. When we turned the corner, a motorcycle ran into us, and the glass in the passenger seat broke directly. After getting off the bus, I saw the driver lying three meters away. I'll call the leader directly to explain the situation. The leader accompanied me to the hospital for a comprehensive examination. While waiting for the result, several colleagues were present. I calmed down and talked and laughed with them. After making sure that there was nothing serious, the leader drove me home. I'm afraid my family will worry about what I will do when I get home. After dinner, several colleagues heard that everything in the afternoon had come to my house. Only this family knows, even my former neighbor heard that I was covered with blood in the hospital, and I ran out of control in a panic. I didn't breathe until I was seen. In fact, I was pretending to be calm and didn't want to give you any trouble, but the consequence was that I ate liquid food for nearly a month and my mouth hurt and I didn't dare to open my mouth [
Actually, no matter who it is, I always think it's best to calm down, don't you think?
Women must be calm when giving birth to their own children, because many things really depend on themselves. Because your family may be more flustered than yourself at this time.
At that time, I slept until three o'clock in the middle of the night and suddenly found that my amniotic fluid was broken. I got up and changed my pants, and then I woke my sleeping husband and told him that my amniotic fluid was broken. My husband was in a daze in bed, then jumped up and said to call my parents and in-laws quickly.
Then the whole family hurried to the hospital by car. Because there were still more than 20 days before the expected date of delivery, there was no hospitalization procedure at that time, and there were no extra beds in the hospital. Sister nurse found me a bed that I had never seen before. Although I went through the hospitalization procedure, I can have a rest for the time being.
At this time, my mother-in-law found that she hadn't taken her bag and forgot to bring something for her children. Driving home with my husband to get something. I really panicked.
At this time, my mother kept asking me if I felt anything, and it started. It really doesn't feel like the beginning at all.
At this moment, I looked at the time. It's past five. Then send a WeChat to Yue Yue and say, Sister, come to the hospital when you wake up. My water is broken, and I may have a baby soon.
Because it hadn't started yet, I had a neighbor's child who didn't get cerebral palsy because of amniotic fluid.
So the doctor came to ask us, there are still more than 20 days due date, do you want to have a baby? I firmly rejected myself. Let's cut it.
So I scheduled my first operation at 7: 00 a.m.
While my nurse sister was preparing for my operation, I was still on the phone with my friends. I have a caesarean section at seven o'clock today, and I need someone to carry it after the operation. Come to the hospital quickly.
Then I called my massage sister. You need to massage your legs after operation, otherwise you will be afraid of thrombosis.
When chatting with the clinical parturient, I took a fancy to the prolactin she recommended to me.
Then tell my mother, remember to cook a pot of radish soup for me. After cutting it, make it taste better when drinking water, which will help exhaust.
At this time, my cousin came, and I already told her that she would be the first to hug the baby when it came out. Take care of my mother.
After arranging these things, everyone is almost here. I looked at them specially before entering the operating room. Then tell them that I remember who you are now. When I come out, I will know who you are not.
So, after I cut it out, none of them dared to leave. They all leaned in and said, look, I'm here. I said yes, now take me to the hospital bed.
I think it is really useful to read a lot of books and tell people a lot of experiences before giving birth to a baby.
You can calm down and tidy up the baby. Your life is still in your own hands, which is more practical.
I went to my brother's house to play when I was a child. His house faces a large vegetable field. One side of the vegetable field is a straight road, and the other side is a fence. There is a telecom factory on the other side of the fence. There are often people who steal cables here, which seems to be a crime! I just turned the corner and have to walk one or two doors to get to my cousin's house. There are more than ten steps in front of his house, and there is a wide stream at the door. There is a gap outside his door, so I can jump over it. It will be a little small and difficult to cross! I turned a corner and came out from the telecom factory. The road was diagonally opposite and I saw a man being chased by two people on the road. They saw me, too I saw the action of turning my head, which was almost the turn of the road where I was. In an instant, a series of footsteps appeared in my mind. I rushed to my brother's house, but it was possible that the door was not open. If I don't open the door and run to the vegetable field across the stream, I will run [cover my face] as hard as I can. Luckily, I ran to the bottom of the steps and saw that the door was open. They just turned my way and ran towards me. When you run up the steps, slam the door and hear the running sound behind you, then dare to open the door. There was really no panic and fear at that moment, just thinking about how to escape and not let him near me. As for later, I don't remember if I was scared!
Myself!
It can't be said to be calm. Maybe I don't care about anything. I don't care. There is a mentality of "I am lucky, but I lost my life".
When I was pregnant with my first child, I went to have a B-ultrasound examination for more than five months. The doctor said there was no fetal movement, so I quickly went to the hospital for surgery. I didn't respond, so I called my sister for surgery, and then called my husband (when they were in different places).
Pregnant with a second child, I have been working. Live in the company dormitory. On the night of production, the new colleague invited the people in the office to dinner. I went back to the dormitory at eleven o'clock and just walked to the bathroom door when my amniotic fluid broke. I was lying in bed. First, I called my sister and asked her to wait for me in the inpatient department of the hospital. Secondly, I called the driver of the company and asked him to come up and help me move things (we all live in the company dormitory for what we need in hospital). Third, call my husband (my husband works in Shenzhen and I work in Guangzhou)
When I was pregnant with my third child, the boss was only one year old and more than two months old. No one helps to take care of the boss. I'll handle it myself. On the night of delivery, my husband has to work the night shift and is not at home. After taking a shower at ten o'clock, I just sat in bed and my water broke. First, call your husband. Second, call my sister. Then wait for my husband to come back.
When the second child was two years old, he took a bath at night and played in bed with his younger brother. He was hooked by the quilt and his calf turned to his thigh. The child cried in pain. I don't know if it's dislocated or broken, so I decided to go to the hospital. My husband was training in the neighboring city at that time. It is impractical to ask him to come back. Call one of my neighbors, who is also a fellow villager. Ask her to help. Then I thought about what I needed in the hospital, and I began to tidy up. As soon as my neighbor arrives, I will go to the hospital. It's a thigh fracture. This hospital can't do surgery, so we can only go to a big hospital. One is to call my husband and let him go home directly to take care of the boss. I took my second child to Shenzhen Children's Hospital. Secondly, I called my mother-in-law and asked her to come from my hometown to help the next day. Then send my neighbor and boss home and let her look after him for an hour or two. My husband is coming back from a neighboring city.
I went to Shenzhen Children's Hospital with my second child overnight, hung up the emergency department, was hospitalized, and stayed until the next morning to sign the operation. Take care of the second child in the hospital for three weeks. I gained four pounds when I came back, and my husband scolded me to death.
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When I was in senior three, the class teacher once chatted with us after class and said: XXX (my name) is really a very calm person.
I don't know if I'm really calm or selfish. Because only selfish people will look on coldly and never care. So as not to be disturbed by everything outside.
It is said that female drivers are terrible, so do you know what a calm female driver will do?
That was three years ago. My sister drove me from Jiaxing, Zhejiang to Bengbu, Anhui. Along the way, my sister's driving skills were quite satisfactory, and the speed was kept at around 100 yards. There is no hesitation when overtaking, and you should not be in a hurry when overtaking.
This situation has been maintained until we continue to hit the road from Jiashan service area. On that day, there were not many cars on the road, but it happened that two semi-trailers were driving side by side. The old lady who wanted to overtake honked her horn wildly, but the two cars in front didn't hear or something, and there was no response, so we had to follow.
Suddenly, the rain cover of one of the cars was blown by the demon wind and landed on the front windshield of the sister car, covering the whole field of vision. At that time, I screamed with fear, but my sister turned on the double flash as if she didn't respond, then slowed down slowly, parked the car in the emergency lane by the rearview mirrors on both sides, and placed warning signs in the distance.
Because I was too scared, my sister left me alone in the car and contacted the high-speed traffic police herself. Later, I didn't know how to solve it, but my sister's calm attitude was deeply imprinted in my heart.