First, ideological and moral education.
From her words and deeds, I feel whether she is polite, honest and caring. In fact, in such little things in life, we should cultivate her spirit of public welfare, and her parents should give her support and praise, so that she can know that benefiting from kindness can make people happier, but we should also strengthen the education of children's self-protection while carrying out moral education.
Second, start with small things and cultivate good habits and independent ability.
Habit becomes nature, and we make some agreements with our children for the little things around us, such as independently letting our children do what they can, and agreeing with their children on the time, way and content of watching TV. The standard need not be too high, but it needs to be persistent, which is of great help to cultivate children's good habits. In many people's minds, children always feel that they are too small and clumsy to do anything well. But in real life, children actually need to share the responsibility. For example, adults go out first and children go out later. She must learn to close doors and windows, power supply and so on. Tell him not to close the window. When it rains, the rain will float in through the window and leave the door open for fear that thieves will come into the house to get things. Turning off the power can save electricity and let her know the difference between the bad consequences of not doing something well and doing it well. The object of criticism is not children, but telling children that your mother doesn't like or doesn't like what you do.
Third, cultivate children's broad interests.
When it comes to children's interests, we naturally think of those "interest classes and super-long classes" and think that children should learn piano and painting to cultivate their interests. In the conversation with some small classmates, more children have to go to those training classes at the request of their parents, which is not their interest at all. In fact, for children, interest is a spontaneous part of children, and parents and teachers play a promoting role. Find ways to stimulate children's extensive interests and cultivate them! Playing some parent-child games properly, giving children some encouragement, listening carefully to their needs, constantly communicating with teachers, and the trust of teachers and parents can also make children more confident, studious and optimistic.
Fourth, make a study plan, and have a normal mind.
Don't put too much pressure on children, let them have a relaxed learning environment, make study plans with them, study regularly, make habits natural, and try to help children digest the new knowledge taught by teachers, instead of giving them too much extra pressure. I suggest not to reflect too much on children's exam results, no matter good or bad, treat them with a normal heart and guide them to face the gains and losses correctly. Words of encouragement and praise are the motivation for children to learn in the process of learning, and I have a deep understanding; We have never criticized her for her poor exam results. We will tell her to answer the questions carefully and get full marks. Teachers and parents will be very proud, but if it is because of poor handwriting, we will remind her that you are a student and must write well and accurately. Before or after every exam, we will say to her, "Come on, Xiaoyu!"
Parenting is an arduous and complicated project, which requires not only material resources, but also energy and endurance. However, we can gain some happiness and sweetness from learning with our children, and at the same time we can get some thinking and enlightenment. In short, as long as our children make a little progress, we will be surprised, because it is the fruit of hard work of teachers and parents. As for how to help children correct their bad habits of spelling and carelessness, these problems are our most nerve-racking at present, and we will also consult other parents to see what good methods are available. So far, I haven't found the most effective method; In addition, some learning methods need to be improved. We need to constantly explore good parenting methods. I hope that good parenting methods and teachers' guidance are like a canoe, carrying children to the infinite ocean of knowledge and making them healthier, better and happier!