LIKE rule refers to the first law of wearing, which consists of the initials of four English words: Love, I and Key: like rule, even if you don't show height, thinness, gentleness and nobility, you can wear it if you like.
The rule of liking is the last of the 20 dress rules, and it is also the first dress rule that I often jokingly call the best in the world and invincible in the universe. Now you can forget all the previous rules and just ask yourself: What style do I like? What color do I like? What material do I like? What state do I like?
One, like -l, love, love
Love, love, everyone has a love style, a love color and a love fabric. Just like "beauty is in the eye of the beholder", your love is the most important. After all, the first person who wants to be happy when dressing is himself.
Behind every kind of clothes we like, there are secret expressions in our hearts, but all emotions should be expressed through appropriate channels, otherwise it is easy to be depressed.
I have been training the communication industry in China for more than ten years. Because of the institutional reasons of state-owned enterprises (of course, there are other social and personal factors), some employees have related emotional stress problems, so I give many emotional stress management courses to employees here every year.
In hundreds of related courses, I divide students into two categories: those who wear basic shoes and those who wear design shoes. Why make such a distinction? Because these enterprises normally require employees to wear uniform tooling to participate in training, I can't judge these students from their clothes. However, many enterprises do not have too many requirements for employees' shoes, so shoes become the performance of employees' personality. I found a particularly interesting phenomenon, that is, employees wearing brand-name shoes, especially those with bright colors or exaggerated styles, generally have low values when making emotional stress assessments. I think these employees are venting their emotional pressure by wearing these favorite shoes.
Like Alexander? McQueen said that "fashion should be a liberation, not a bondage". Let's free ourselves from some bondage through our favorite clothes.
I have been a business training lecturer for more than ten years, and this industry is faced with all kinds of requirements of traveling all the year round and Party A's father, so all lecturers think of Alexander. At that time, more than 90% of my colleagues had health risks such as stress obesity or high blood pressure, and my survival may be related to my insistence on changing my favorite "shirt" every half day during my training for so many years.
Because I always like to wear all kinds of designs (others call them "weird"), I was kindly reminded by the boss of the company not to wear such flashy clothes, and my father complained that wearing too flashy clothes affected students' lectures. But sticking to my own style for so many years has also won me the title of "the most fashionable trainer". Of course, this love and persistence also helped me start my own business on 20 18.
Second, like-me, me
I, I, wear myself, don't care too much about other people's opinions, even if others say that this dress doesn't suit you, but you like it very much, then keep wearing it. It's just that we need to add a layer of thinking: why do I like this dress?
Quentin? Crisp once said, "Fashion is the self you choose before you know yourself".
We need to explore "who am I?" Judging from the style of clothes we like to wear. Who do I want to be? "
"Being yourself" can be said to be the lifelong practice of each of us and the ultimate happiness of everyone.
The first step of "being yourself" is to know yourself clearly. Only by knowing yourself can we foster strengths and avoid weaknesses in dressing and doing things.
Many times I don't dress properly because I don't know myself well enough. For example, I often complain about my poor leg shape now, which I didn't know until I was almost 30 years old. Therefore, most of my pants now are wide-leg pants. When I didn't know myself, I had to put my thick and crooked legs into my little pants, which also left me with many black historical photos.
The second step of "being yourself" is to have the courage to be yourself.
In the book "The Courage of Being Disliked", I wrote: Don't be afraid of being hated by others, be brave and be your own courage.
Sometimes even if you know your preferences, advantages and disadvantages, and what kind of person you want to be, you may not have the courage to be yourself.
We often live in the evaluation of others and dare not express our true views or practices.
I often get messages from my classmates: Miss Yang, I dare not dress too beautifully, or my colleagues will tell me what to do.
Every time I reply, your colleagues will tell you what to do if you don't dress beautifully. Since everyone will be judged and told what to do, why not choose a beautiful one and be told what to do? At least it is pleasing to the eye.
I remember when I was in high school, I was called by my parents for wearing "strange clothes"; I remember when I first went to work, I was criticized by the leader for wearing a skirt under canvas overalls; I remember when I was a trainer, I was talked about by my clients because I always wore fashionable suits ... But when I ignored these criticisms, criticisms and doubts, when I had the courage to be myself, when I had the courage to wear the clothes I wanted to wear, I found myself living more and more blooming, and I liked myself more and more.
Courage is the most precious quality. May all the ladies who have finished reading this book have more and more courage to be themselves.
The third step to be yourself is to love yourself.
Being yourself is not copying others, but being unique. Sometimes the unique achievement is not because of your own advantages, but because of your own shortcomings.
To fall in love with yourself is to fall in love with your imperfect self and accept those defects that cannot be changed. For example, it took me many years to accept the second half of the question.
Jenny. Versace said: "Don't follow the trend, don't let fashion dominate, you are everything that determines your personality, dress style and attitude towards life."
Like -k, key, key
Key, key, and key element. Learn to master the key elements that make you dress more appropriately, so that you can experience the freedom of dressing.
It can be said that most women's wardrobes are full of clothes, but not many women can wear their own styles and characteristics, and there will be many "orphans". I have been lying in the closet since I bought it, and I don't know how to match it. These problems arise because they have not mastered these elements that make them more colorful.
He has been running the community for more than three years and has coached more than 500 women one-on-one. After mastering these elements, they not only revitalized the wardrobe, but also became more and more stylish and became a landscape.
In order to better grasp these key elements of dress, on the one hand, we should integrate the contents in the book, on the other hand, we should practice more in our life. More and more women are very welcome to join our "beautiful state" community.
How do you know that you have mastered these key elements?
The first criterion: I know how to match any clothes I get.
The second criterion: I can interpret the reasons for the success and failure of wearing.
Fourth, like -e, energy, energy.
Energy, energy, every suit you like will give you energy, and others will praise you for wearing it properly.
Ralph? Waldo. Emerson said: No religion can bring you the peace of dressing appropriately.
All the clothes that suit us can actually give us energy. You put on a suit that suits you, and when you look in the mirror, you will be amazed: Wow, I can be so beautiful, too, that's great! This is a kind of self-empowerment and confidence.
When you go out confidently in this decent dress, the amazing eyes around you and the encouragement of your friends are an external empowerment, which will make you more confident.
Where does a person's confidence come from? Your confidence depends on how much energy you have. On the one hand, our energy value depends on our self-affirmation, on the other hand, it comes from the contribution of others. It is the easiest way to get such energy through proper wearing.
A confident lady will shine, and a confident lady will be invincible.
Let's fight with this confidence, to kill those disappointments in life, to pick up all the chicken feathers in life, to make a feather duster and to dust them off.