Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, unless they really like them too much or are the kind of girls who are very brave and brave. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative. Don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, you may feel uncomfortable. Maybe the person you like is also miserable. Any girl's psychology is complicated when she is chased. She may be happy, but she is also happy. She has the psychology of refusing to welcome this boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you. She's actually fighting herself. She is afraid of being hurt. Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. If you start to confess, that's normal. Don't lose heart, who knows what this girl is thinking. Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved. If you encounter setbacks, you will leave immediately, never talk to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. While you are in pain, as everyone knows, that girl may regret it in her heart! Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and then she will be sad to see your indifferent eyes, but she won't tell you and never let you come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart. She will think that you don't really like him, or how can you just give her up? Some people say that it is really difficult for boys to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ ~ ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. However, there are few examples to the contrary. Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are dead-bound, which will lead to a bad reputation. But I think boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be nice to this girl after some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If they don't succeed, they won't regret it. Who makes people like it? I hate that others blindly follow me. I hate that boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them deserve not to find a girlfriend. If they are men, they should be brave. Girls are sensitive and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples can be seen everywhere. Girls are very gentle with their boyfriends. Moreover, most good girls are devoted to their love. Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girls they like, and don't be so timid. On the one hand, people feel that you are unmanly, on the other hand, people feel uncomfortable. However, the most important thing is: in the end, you get nothing. Happiness is always earned by yourself. Don't expect others to give it to you! Besides, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is what you really like. Girls are often passive and can only choose to accept and refuse, so I would rather take the initiative and love what I love without regrets. Thick skin: this is very important. Chen said in the movie "Young and Dangerous": If a man is thick enough, then he has successfully caught up with the girl. Hey hey! ! Later, I tried my best. Infatuation: No matter how wronged you are, you should show indifference, and find an opportunity to say to her on a special occasion: "XXX (name) I know you don't like me, and I know that feelings can't be forced, but ... (Remember: your eyes must be gentle to the extreme at this time, and then you look at her affectionately) Say: You can't stop me from liking you. I beg you not to take me as your burden. You can try to live your own life. I just hope ... just a little hope (eyes must be wet) that you can let me accompany you to take care of you and protect you ... although ... even if (tears are needed at this time, it's hard to say) treat me as a brother, as a younger brother, others can't help it, as long as. It's enough to be as sad as possible. That's enough. .......... (muttering to herself) At this time, remember never to tell girls that my life is yours and I can't live without you. Girls hate it when a boy dies in front of her. I can't teach you this, but you have to rely on yourself. At this point, I want to remind you that no matter what clothes she wears or what makeup she wears, as long as she asks you, you must say "good-looking", and it is also necessary to make up. Girls naturally like to be flattered. Stability: This is indispensable for compatibility with the third point. If you are not steady, girls will say that you are a playboy, and if you are not smooth-tongued, girls will say that you don't understand interest. Ha ha! Romance: It's up to you. It is enough to choose the right time to surprise her. Some parts of this trick will be greatly exposed. Don't be afraid of flowers.