"My husband and I are married for the second time. I am ten years younger than him. He has a daughter with his ex-wife. Her grandparents are in Grade Two. We all have a son. Currently in kindergarten, with my mother's hometown.

Because buying a house and decorating it is all our own efforts. There are more than 6000 monthly mortgages. At present, the credit card liabilities add up to nearly 6.5438+0.6 million.

Because my husband thinks that my daughter is ordinary and introverted, and it seems that her grades at that time will definitely not be admitted to a good university in the future, she is advised to study this art specialty student, and the annual tuition fee will be higher than that of a normal ordinary high school.

The pressure is very high at present. Husband and daughter's school said to organize training before senior three. It will take about half a year, from summer vacation to the end of the year. The training fee for art classes in Beijing is about 1.2 million yuan, and if you choose other cities, it will cost about 80 thousand yuan.

I used to hear him say that he would go to this extra-long class, but now I'm a little surprised to hear that he needs such a large sum of money. But now that he is a sophomore, it is not appropriate to give up. My husband and his whole family are considering how to raise money for her daughter's further education.

At present, we are heavily in debt. My husband doesn't take it seriously at all. In this case, I feel that I am a stepmother who is reluctant to spend money. I am really tired in my heart.

Think about investing this money, not to mention whether she can get in. If she doesn't get the money, she'll be wasted first and then admitted. In the next four years, universities, special students' universities and art majors will have higher tuition and training fees in the future. Think about the debt now, I don't know when to pay it back. I feel that life has entered a bottomless pit. What should I do now? "

My suggestion: This is a very troublesome thing. To put it bluntly, it is a question of children's educational needs. It's not that your husband has much money, but that he doesn't want to owe too much to his children. To put it bluntly, no matter how you choose, he won't let the children down. This is his multiple-choice question. If your child has such a need, and you are the only person that this child can trust, you will make the same decision as your husband.

If you are your own mother, you can object. Since you are a stepmother, it is wrong for you to object. You should consider these questions before you marry your husband. There are many contradictions between husband and wife in the middle. I suggest that if you don't want to turn against your husband, don't oppose him.