Etiquette, as an important code of conduct in interpersonal communication, is not invented out of thin air at will, nor is it dispensable. Then, I will share the basic knowledge of interpersonal social etiquette for you. Welcome to read and browse.
1. Body Language People all over the world use gestures to communicate effectively.
The most common gesture begins with greeting each other. Knowing those gestures, at least you can tell what is vulgar and what is decent. It makes you more observant, and it is easier to avoid misunderstanding when you encounter silent communication.
1, eyes (speaking with eyes)
In business activities, look at the triangle on the other person's face with your eyes. This triangle takes the eye as the bottom line and reaches the apex angle to the forehead. When negotiating business, if you look at this part of the other party, it will look serious and others will think you are sincere. During the conversation, if your eyes fall on this triangle, you will have the initiative and control over my conversation.
In social activities, you also look at each other's triangles with your eyes. This triangle takes your eyes as the upper line and your mouth as the lower vertex, which is between your eyes and your mouth. Looking at each other's triangle will create a social atmosphere. This gaze is mainly used for tea parties, dances and various types of friendship parties.
Step 2 smile
Smile can show a warm and kind expression, effectively shorten the distance between the two sides, leave a good psychological feeling for the other side, thus forming a harmonious communication atmosphere, which can reflect my superb cultivation and sincerity in dealing with people.
Smile has a charm, which can make tough people gentle and make difficulties easy. Smile is the lubricant of interpersonal friendship and an effective means to make friends and resolve conflicts. Smile from the heart, don't pretend.
Step 3 shake hands
Is it ordinary? Meeting ceremony? It seems simple, but it contains complicated etiquette details and carries rich communication information. For example: shake hands with the winners to congratulate them; Shake hands with losers to show understanding; Shake hands with allies and express expectations; Shake hands with your opponent to show reconciliation; Shake hands with sad people in advance to express condolences; Shake hands with the farewell, say goodbye, etc.
The standard handshake posture should be equivalent, that is, extend your right hand generously and hold the other person's palm slightly with your palm and fingers. Please note: this method is the same for men and women! In China, many people think that women can only shake their fingers when shaking hands, which is all wrong! In social situations,
Pay attention to the following points when shaking hands.
1. Between the superior and the subordinate, the subordinate can only reach out and shake hands after the superior reaches out.
Between the elder and the younger generation, only after the elder reaches out, the younger generation can reach out and shake hands.
Between men and women, only after the woman reaches out, can the man reach out and shake hands.
4. People should shake hands while standing, otherwise both of them are sitting. If you sit and someone comes to shake your hand, you must stand up.
5. The time for shaking hands is usually 3-5 seconds. Holding and letting go in a hurry is perfunctory; It's embarrassing to persist for a long time.
6. It is an unfriendly behavior for others to reach out and shake your hand, but you don't reach out.
7. Hold out your right hand when shaking hands, and never hold out your left hand.
8. Don't put one hand in your pocket when shaking hands.
Second, correct posture and successful dress.
Body posture always exists between your gestures. Elegant posture is the perfect embodiment of people's education and self-confidence. Good posture will make you look much younger and make your clothes look more beautiful. Being good at communicating with others with body language will definitely benefit you a lot.
standing position
A woman's standing posture should be: head up, chest out, abdomen in, legs differential, face with confidence, a tall and straight feeling.
sitting position
The correct sitting posture is that the legs enter the basic standing posture. The hind legs can touch the chair and sit down gently. The two umbilicus covers must be together and cannot be separated. Legs can be placed in the middle or on both sides. Cross your legs and put your legs together; If your skirt is short, be sure to cover it carefully.
attitude
The correct posture is: head up, chest out, abdomen in, shoulders hanging back, hands gently on both sides, gently swinging, the pace should be light, not sloppily.
Squat posture
The correct method should be to bend the lid, the two lids should be together, not separated, the hips should be down, and the upper body should be in a straight line, so that the squatting posture will be elegant and beautiful.
Third, common bad behaviors.
1, improper use of mobile phone
Mobile phones and BP machines are indispensable communication tools in modern life. How to use these modern communication tools to show modern civilization is a problem that cannot be ignored in life. If things are busy, you have to bring your mobile phone to social occasions.
Then you should at least do the following:
A.put the clock down so as not to disturb others.
B. When the bell rings, find a quiet place to answer it, and control the volume of your speech.
C. If you are talking in the car, dining table, conference room, elevator and other places, try to keep the conversation short so as not to disturb others.
D. If the next time your cell phone rings and the visitor is next to you, you must apologize and say, I'm sorry. Forgive me? . Then go to a place that won't affect others and sit down after talking.
E. If it is inconvenient to talk on some occasions, tell the caller that you will call back, and don't force others to answer.
Step 2 spit casually
Spitting is the easiest way to spread bacteria directly. Spitting everywhere is very impolite and will definitely affect the environment and our health. If you want to spit, put it on a paper towel, throw it in the dustbin, or go to the bathroom to spit, but don't forget to clean up the sputum and wash your hands.
Step 3 throw garbage at will
Littering is one of the most uncivilized behaviors and should be condemned.
4. Chew gum in public
Some people have to chew gum to keep oral hygiene, so we should pay attention to the image in front of others. Shut your mouth when you chew. You can't make any noise. Then wrap the chewed gum in paper and throw it in the trash can.
5. Pick your nose or ears in public.
Some people are used to picking their nostrils or ears with their little fingers, keys, toothpicks and hairpins in public. This is a very bad habit. Especially in restaurants or teahouses, when others are eating or drinking tea, this indecent little gesture often makes onlookers feel sick. This is a very indecent move.
Step 6 scratch your scalp in public
Some people with a lot of dandruff often can't help scratching their scalp in public, and dandruff suddenly flies around and scatters all over the floor, making others feel unhappy. Especially on that solemn occasion, it is difficult to be understood by others.
7. Shake your legs in public.
Some people will make their legs tremble intentionally or unintentionally when sitting, or let their legs swing back and forth like a pendulum, feeling good about themselves and thinking it's harmless. In fact, this will make people feel very uncomfortable. This is not a manifestation of civilization, nor is it an elegant act.
8. Yawn in public
In communication situations, yawning gives the other person the feeling that you are not interested in him and show impatience. So, if you can't help yawning, you must cover your mouth with your hand and say:? sorry . It usually takes three months to adapt to the new working environment, which is also a crucial three months, because it leaves a deep impression on others. If you leave a bad impression, it will be difficult to change it in the future, so you should establish a good image at the beginning of entering a new company.
Here are the secrets of successful people:
1. Ignore other chores:
The new job requires a high degree of concentration. Spend as much time with colleagues as possible, deal with difficult work, and put personal matters aside for the time being.
2. Don't take all the responsibility:
Remember you're not? Superman? The company will not ask you to solve all the problems. So it is better to concentrate on doing some more important and urgent work, which is not ideal than every job.
3. Avoid getting involved in the whirlpool of right and wrong:
Every company has some gossips who love to embellish. You can listen to these right and wrong, but don't forget that you should have enough analytical skills. If you don't know the ins and outs of the matter, you'd better keep silent so as not to say the wrong thing.
4. Understand the company culture:
Every company has unwritten rules, understand and abide by them? Rules? Help your development. If you try to break the tradition, you will only waste time.
5. Redouble efforts:
In an ideal environment, a job may take three weeks to complete. In fact, your boss may want you to finish it at once, but he didn't provide enough training. Therefore, you should be prepared to study at any time. You may have to work overtime or even take your work home to meet the deadline. If allowed, you can ask your colleagues for help, but don't ask the same question many times. If necessary, you should write down the main points to help you remember.
Dress appropriately:
? Clothes make the man? This sentence is always right. Dress well and you will feel more confident. If the economy permits, you can buy some clothes and accessories every season. It should be noted that people in different industries have different requirements for clothes.
Don't be hurt by failure. Mistakes are not the grave of a career. Successful people should learn from their failures and remind themselves that they are human beings. You should focus on your achievements and potential.
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