If you are depressed all day because of inferiority and indulge in such negative emotions, it means that you don't have a mature and steady heart. If you can find the gap between yourself and others, find your own shortcomings, and then correct and improve yourself, it means that you have finally grown up.
I used to feel inferior. When I was young, I always felt that I was not beautiful, while others were not only beautiful, with good skin and tall, but also beautifully dressed. But for me, I'm just an old hat, I can't dress up, I don't have a beautiful appearance and a beautiful voice. I often fall into this negative emotion, but I find that this emotion can't bring me any benefits, but it makes me more and more silent and introverted.
I used to feel inferior because of my study, especially in high school. I ranked sixth in our class, and the top five students at the opening ceremony all had prizes, because they were all unified recruits, and I was the index student, so the prizes ended with me. I felt very inferior at that time. I feel like someone slapped me, like a hurdle in front of me. Don't be too depressed.
Even now, when I have grown up, I still feel inferior. At work, there is a little girl in our unit, who is very lively and cheerful, and can get along with everyone in your unit, especially boys. I don't have that kind of lively and cheerful, outspoken, laughing and swearing. I know I can't do it, and I won't eat in a crowd like her.
But think about it, what does it matter?
When I feel inferior, find out the reasons for my inferiority, what I can and cannot change.
If the appearance, my parents gave me this appearance, although not amazing, but there is nothing ugly that people can't see. Then, looking down, appearance is sometimes very important, but sometimes it is just a vassal of people. We don't need to go to the beauty pageant. No matter how ugly a girl is, someone will love her. Even without the advantage of appearance, we still have other charms, such as kindness, loveliness, maturity, steadiness, calmness and elegance. As long as these advantages can reflect your different charm, someone will like you. Just like Bo Huang, although he is not good-looking, he has become a superstar.
When I can't compare with others in my study, I feel inferior, but I know that my shortcomings can be made up. I can improve myself and become a dark horse in our class through hard work, which can also be extended to other aspects. If we find out what we can do through hard work, why not do it? What's the advantage of feeling sorry for yourself all day?
Just like my personality, my personality will never be as familiar as some girls, so I can blend in with the people around me, but so what, I can handle the work at hand well, and I don't think I need to be such a person.
So when you feel inferior, ask yourself, what do you want? I don't want everyone around me. What I want is that in a team, I can show my ability and let others see my value, which is enough.
So when you feel inferior, don't be sad and don't indulge in such extremely negative emotions. Re-examine the gap between yourself and others and see what can be changed. What cannot be changed? What can be changed is necessary. What is unnecessary? According to your actual situation, choose the way that suits you best, try to adjust your mentality, let yourself live an optimistic and cheerful life, not be troubled by the confusion in life, and then get out of the fog and meet the new future.