That's what the older generation generally said. On the big day, the bride has to go into the bridal chamber to urinate, during which she can't go to the toilet, usually accompanied by female relatives. Otherwise, once she leaves home, it means they can't live together forever, which is unlucky. As the saying goes, Shili customs are different. Admittedly, customs and manners vary greatly from place to place. Some places do strictly follow the previous customs, but it is unfair to women. With the arrival of the new era, equality between men and women is well known, and such unreasonable customs are slowly withdrawing from the historical stage!
Marry a rural girl, and don't let the bride-to-be eat too much in the first three days. I can only drink porridge and eat rotten food. Anyway, the bride should not have a stomachache these days. In addition, eating like this can clear the stomach and ensure that you don't have to go to the toilet on the wedding day. On the wedding day, the bride's mother will take a small bowl of cooked chestnuts and let the bride peel some to eat. Chestnuts are sweet but not salty, so you don't need to drink too much water. And chestnuts are very hungry, and there are still some chestnuts in her stomach. Even if she doesn't eat at noon in the morning, the bride can bear it.
In the old society, when rural women got married, their families would tell their daughters the wedding rules in the first three days, such as pinching their faces, dieting, getting on and off the bus, taking braziers, coming to the door, visiting the church, serving tea, entering the bridal chamber, sitting in the wedding room and so on. And every wedding ceremony should be made clear to her daughter, so as not to make mistakes on her wedding day and be laughed at by her in-laws for life. On the wedding day, a rural woman kept her urine to match the wedding ceremony.
On the other hand, on the wedding day in the countryside, all relatives will come to the wedding reception. From the moment the bride walks in the door, waves of people will see the new wife, and waves of people will see the new wife. If you go to the toilet, relatives who come to see your daughter-in-law can't see the bride, but you have to ask: where is the new daughter-in-law Who has the face to answer: I went to the toilet. Since it is a custom, rural people prefer to pass it on all the time. It's not difficult not to go to the toilet. As long as you don't overeat, you are sure to live a good life.