1, don't joke around.
Humor is the lubricant of interpersonal relationship, and proper humor is conducive to deepening friendship, but some people just don't like joking, so we should pay special attention to joking, especially when it comes to each other's privacy, friends and family. Many of these are taboos of others, so don't offend people by joking, and joking should be acceptable to others.
2. Speak according to your personality
Everyone has his own feelings and nature. The content and way of speech expression must be different from person to person and conform to the temper and personality of the recipient, so as to produce the effect of "seeking common ground". Extroverts are often "happy", while introverts are mostly "silent". When people of the same sex talk with others, they can talk in Kan Kan, and when talking with introverts, they should pay attention to persuasion, so as to achieve good speech effect.
3. Know how to read words and observe colors
You can't do whatever you want when communicating with others. Only by speaking according to the situation can the effective dialogue between the two sides produce great power. Pay attention to the other person's expression, eyes, tone and attitude when speaking. If you say that the other person doesn't like it, you should pay attention to moderation and learn to use remedial words Therefore, when talking with others, we should pay attention to listening to others' opinions and be good at reading words.
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