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What you need to grow up is to reinvent yourself again and again?
By September this year, I have been in Shenzhen 10 years. Like a bird, I go home for the Spring Festival. In the past ten years, from ignorance to maturity, I have met three or five confidants and a gentle husband in this city. I think I gain more than I lose. Although, according to the eyes of the world, I don't have a house or a car, and I'm not a successful person. However, life is not measured by these materialized things after all. Today, talk about what happened between me and Shenzhen in the past ten years ~

September 2006-June 2008 in Longgang.

It was my first time out of town, and my destination was Shenzhen. At that time, the bullet train had not been opened. There is a direct bus to Shenzhen in the town. Go at night, bump all night, and get to Shenzhen without traffic jam for 8-9 hours.

The first stop to Shenzhen is Longgang, Le Tong. Subverted my daydream about Shenzhen metropolis. There used to be factories, no tall buildings and untidy roads. Because Longgang was in the development stage, the subway was under construction. There are traffic jams everywhere. ...

For me who has no skills, if I want to survive in this city, I have to learn some survival skills quickly. Fortunately, it is not. I have no friends. My cousin helped contact the training school. Start with the most basic typing and office software. Then there is CAD drawing software. In this way, I finally have a life skill.

In this way, under the introduction of my cousin, I entered the furniture factory and became a clerk-printing documents, making statements and sending and receiving faxes every day. The rest of the time is usually my own. Some people chat on QQ in their spare time, some people watch movies, and some people go home to cook because they are close to home …

At first, I was bored. Also talk about QQ. But after all, I feel something is missing. In this way, after half a year unconsciously, the confused state hangs on my forehead like a dark cloud.

Later, I took my high school deskmate Y to work in a furniture factory, and she worked in finance. Then we continue to study in class. She studies accounting and I study English. Finally, the confused state is over.

The free time in the office has become-I go to work to form an English interest QQ group, and Y does accounting exercises. I learned oral English in the training class, and I'm having a strange conversation with Y in the dormitory.

Later, Y took an accounting certificate and left Longgang. Because a friend introduced her to work at Window of the World. In this way, we parted ways.

Z, a colleague in the office, has been to Shanghai. I think it would be better to go downtown for development. After all, there is not much room for the development of the furniture factory, and there will be more opportunities to go out and rush, so I was mobilized to find Y. So, after I got my pet certificate, I set off for Nanshan.

Summary: This stage is the beginning of the workplace. The biggest feeling is that you will be more motivated if you want to grow up and find like-minded people!

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In this way, I came to Baishizhou, Nanshan with simple luggage and a deposit of 2K, and shared with Y. At that time, the rent was 650 yuan/month.

Then, I began to run the talent market non-stop and submit resumes. I didn't have a career plan at that time, just wanted to settle down first. A week later, I got a job as a telemarketing clerk. But the work content is quite miscellaneous: answering the phone, quoting, receiving customers and promoting the website.

Because there are very few stepping stones-no education, no work experience and no skills. So I have to spend some time charging behind my back. Because there are very few stepping stones-no education, no work experience and no skills. So I have to spend some time charging behind my back.

This job will be more challenging than that of a clerk, some of which are new to me. For example, recommending products to customers on the phone. I couldn't say anything at first, and the price of the product was completely unclear. Once, I asked the price of the same product three times. At that time, the boss got angry. You asked so many times that you don't remember? At that time, my heart was tight and I couldn't wait to dig a hole to get in. After that, I went back to the dormitory with the price list for 2 days. Never asked the boss again.

Later, after the work gradually started, the free time began to increase. I started the self-study exam and signed up for an SEO training class. (Because I was also in charge of website promotion at that time. The boss often asks, why do we, Shenzhen+Businessmen, rank so badly? So I know there is SEO as a promotion method)

It was also at this stage that I met my best friend. She is very careful. Be sincere and friendly to friends. They say women are jealous. I think I seldom envy her. I hope she can live a good life, have something good to share with her and talk to her all the time. She is like family, but she understands you better than family. She gave me comfort and courage when I was depressed. I always feel that my best friend is the city that gives me the best karma.

In this way, work and study began to get on the right track. Take the exam 4 times a year to complete SEO promotion. I also ranked business words. The boss's business began to expand and his trust in me gradually increased. When opening a branch, let me stay in the new camp. It was just that the market environment was not mature at that time, and finally the new camp developed badly and ended in failure.

I also gradually saw the limitations of my industry, and the growth of desire began to slow down. So he offered to leave ... the boss kept him several times, but staying was not a long-term solution after all. So I made up my mind and went all the way.

Summary:

The workplace needs you to solve problems, so you should have the ability to learn quickly, quickly turn knowledge into skills, and dare to invest in yourself. Only in this way can you gain a foothold in the workplace.

It was also at this stage that I realized the demand change from a bite of rice to a job.

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I started looking for a job again, looking for a job in SEO. Because of the relevant knowledge and certain work experience.

So I found an internet company. At that time, it was in the early stage of development and the business model had just been determined. In this way, develop with the company. I have to say that this job is more difficult than before: First, the required technology is hard enough. Secondly, the division of labor is clear and the KPI assessment is clear. The pressure hit instantly and I wanted to give up many times. But I'm not reconciled, so I don't want to run when I meet a hurdle, because I won't cross the hurdle that belongs to you, and I will meet it again after all.

In this way, I gritted my teeth and persisted. Colleagues who walked together left one after another. I was the only one left in the end. Later, the boss had to go home and have a baby. Therefore, shoulder her responsibility. Start leading the team.

Yes, at that time, I lacked self-confidence, management skills and communication skills. The most terrible thing was that I felt inferior!

At that time, I got off work every night 1 1. The most tiring time is to follow up the products all night during the holiday. Although the individual is very tired, the team is in a mess. Every time you communicate with team members, you should make a draft in advance. And learn not to divide the work.

However, people will grow up eventually. Begin to learn to listen, to divide the work, to understand, not to preach, to think independently, to authorize, to train, and to establish a channel for team development. ...

In this way, the road began to go smoothly. The hardships of this road are only known after experience. Those in the past are small things. Going forward and looking back may feel trivial.

It was also at this stage that I met several friends who were better than myself in the community. Through communicating with them, I optimized my model and improved my efficiency. I really understand that sentence-people who are better than you are more diligent and efficient than you.

I know better that hard work and hard work are not enough to live a better life than before. But if you don't do these two things, you may never change your life.

Summary:

Growth requires self-transformation again and again. At the same time, we also need the right circle. If you choose to jump out of your comfort zone, your growth will be upgraded. At the same time, making good friends will help you find different patterns and see the world by borrowing friends' thinking. ...

Finally, I want to say that there is still a long way to go. For the workplace or life. No matter what kind of change, you can bravely accept and face it, and work hard, and things that belong to you will always gather around you. ...