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Dear parents:
Hello!
I am writing this letter to you. I hope you can take some time out of your busy schedule to have a look. I hope it can bring you inspiration.
I have been teaching for fifteen years and have met many parents. Whether in educating children to establish a correct outlook on life or in promoting learning and development, most of them can form a tacit understanding with teachers, but some parents can't reach this level. On the issue of educating children, it is impossible to reach an understanding with teachers, but it is somewhat out of place and even runs counter to it. So I really want to say something to these parents.
First of all, I want to say, please all parents believe that we love your children as much as our own.
Just like educating my children, I have devoted myself to educating your children, and even spent more energy on them.
Just pay more attention to your own language and behavior, never hurt your child's dignity and body, but be stricter with your child. So please don't always tell your child: "As soon as the teacher talks about you, tell your parents that we will sue him, and a phone call will make him unbearable ..."
Now some children often talk about these words, as if they had an umbrella from now on and were not afraid of any mistakes.
Ask parents to think about it, is the result of educating their children in this way favorable or unfavorable? In addition, if you always say this to teachers who care about and educate yourself, teachers will feel sad and feel why they are always thankless. Educating children well requires our joint efforts, so it is inevitable to discuss children's education together.
So I hope parents can understand that communication with teachers is necessary. If children fight or make other mistakes,
The school lets parents handle it, not to find fault with your children, not to lose your face, but to make them pay more attention through such measures and not to make such mistakes again. Moreover, some parents are very reluctant to cooperate with school work, and even very emotional: "Children are sent to school, we spend money, you have to educate, and always look for us. What do you do? "
I remember once, a class teacher said that he asked the parents of a child who was always making trouble in class to come to school to talk about the child's situation. Parents say that the responsibility in the school is yours, and his trouble is because of your education. If you pay me, I will educate you. Otherwise, don't call me again.
Children are our hope. No matter how naughty the child is now, parents should continue to love him and don't give up, otherwise the child will be more desperate. I have encountered such a thing. That boy is so naughty that he not only doesn't study, but also fights, falls in love, keeps up with the joneses and plays games. Once in class, he said to go to the toilet and didn't come back until after class. It smelled of smoke.
I'm sorry that a clever child should go on like this. Tell him to ask his parents to contact me, but I didn't expect him to say that they had already left me alone and I couldn't get in touch. I wonder where they are now.
I also want to tell parents that children need proper criticism and encouragement. No matter how good a child is, he can't always praise him, nor can he cover up his mistakes. No matter how many shortcomings he has, he can't always criticize and dig. He always has merits worthy of recognition and encouragement. So at this time, he should be consistent with the teacher, give him the criticism and encouragement he needs at the appropriate time, and let him know himself more comprehensively and improve himself.
Children's education is a long-term work, so we should have patience and confidence.
Thank you for reading. Best wishes to Shang Qi!
I am here to convey
Salute!
Sincerity from Quan Quan.
June 15
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Dear parents:
Hello!
With the children's hard work, your expectation and joint efforts, the school year is over. Children in this year, they have grown up. Most of them love life, care about the collective, respect teachers and unite classmates. They are positive and have goals in their studies. They can challenge their laziness in their daily study, overcome the difficulties in their study and get good grades. Thank you for your love and effective education. A child's success requires your selfless love and daily care and communication. Good children grow up under the encouragement of proper praise and timely help.
This school year, a large number of advanced deeds emerged in the class. Among them, the class cadre team of 12 class is an excellent team, not only the backbone of the class collective, but also the right-hand man of the class teacher. Monitor Lu Cuishan, Wenshan Wang, Yang, Pan Jiayang and Zhu Jiaxian managed the class affairs seriously and responsibly, and maintained the good discipline of the class. In order to create a clean and comfortable learning environment for everyone, health Commissioner Feng and classmates strictly check the hygiene every day; He Jiaming, a member of the public security committee, opens and closes doors and windows for students every morning and evening, as well as members of the study committee, members of the physical education committee Liu, Lin Ligang, Cheng Yu and the dormitory director, all of whom have contributed to the growth and progress of the class. Thank you, teacher! Thank you, class! In the final exam, Feng, Sun, Jin Xin, Deng, Lin Ligang, Zhou Tianhua were among the top ten in the class, especially Feng, Sun, who were in the pre-grade 10, and were rewarded with partial tuition fee reduction by the school. Huang Xiaoyang, Su Yongjun, Fang Maorong, Zhu Yifeng and Huang Xiaoyang were among the top ten in the class. There are also a group of students in the class who are active and serious in learning attitude, good in behavior habits and outstanding in all aspects, such as Lu Cuishan, Feng, etc. Who can consciously use their leisure time after class and before evening self-study without wasting a minute; Cen, Lin Ligang,, and other students have good study habits and do well in every learning link; Sun, Lu, Liang Xiting, Feng and other students are down-to-earth and responsible for the class tasks to the end. Ou Wanling, Zhu Jiaxian and other students are friendly and enthusiastic to help teachers and classmates. Yan, Zhou Tianhua, Wenshan Wang, Huang Zhuoyong, Deng and other students are versatile and show and improve themselves in various school activities. Parents are requested to praise the outstanding performance of these children and hope that they will make persistent efforts and strive for better performance.
With the joint efforts of the children, the class was rated as "civilized class" in this school year, and won the first prize of the school's "fresh air class", "health red flag class, radio red flag class" and freshman military training competition for many times; The total score of the 7th Sports Art Festival is the fourth, and the cultural performance is the second. Second prize of the 7th broadcast gymnastics competition; In March, he won the title of "excellent class" in the love activity of learning from Lei Feng, and also carried out a variety of campus activities such as "beautiful moment" graphic collection, book forum, poetry reading, star dormitory creation, thanksgiving theme class meeting and so on. In these activities, the cohesion of the class has been enhanced and the sense of collective honor has never been stronger. The children are proud of being a member of Class 1 12. This is also closely related to your education for children and your support for schools. "The attitude of active participation and the style of doing everything seriously" are the keys to children's future success.
Parents and friends, thank you for your supervision and strict management of your children since the beginning of school. The class atmosphere is positive and the learning atmosphere is strong. However, some children still lack consciousness and can't abide by the discipline of classes and dormitories well, which requires repeated supervision by teachers. Unconscious learning leads to unsatisfactory academic performance. A small number of students have serious partial subjects, such as weak grades in Chinese and mathematics. Premature partial subjects will affect the improvement of children's comprehensive learning ability, which is very unfavorable to their future development. For the learning in the basic stage of middle school, partiality is very harmful and affects the learning quality. If left unchecked, it will be deeply rooted and difficult to reverse ideologically. A small number of children despise subjects other than Chinese, mathematics and foreign languages. Political history and physical education are also exam subjects in the senior high school entrance examination. Knowledge of other subjects will appear in high school, and now it is time to lay the foundation. It is very important for children to realize the importance of every subject. Whoever realizes this first will win. Whoever does it first will take a step towards success. I hope my parents and friends will work hard with me. In addition, the second day of junior high school is the main stage of "adolescent phenomenon". This summer vacation, parents must pay attention to their children's words and deeds, dress up, make friends, surf the Internet, study and work and rest. Although it is a cliche, I have to say that many children have changed a lot since they came back this summer vacation. Parents should try their best to seize this educational opportunity and let their children make a smooth transition to adolescence.
As the head teacher of the children, reflecting on the work of one year, I can say with a clear conscience: "I have been working hard!" " "But no one is perfect, there will always be some regrets. I am strict with my children because I don't want them to get into the habit of muddling along. I think you and I agree on this point. I hope that children can understand, and I sincerely hope that our children will be sensible as soon as possible, understand the true care of their parents, and understand the hardships of their parents in order to survive; Can understand the importance of mastering knowledge, know that any job requires not only enough knowledge and skills, but also good behavior habits and conduct, and be responsible for your future survival and development.
20 12 summer vacation is coming, and your children will come back to you. I believe you will take the baton of education, strengthen ideological and moral education and psychological communication for children, urge children to finish their homework on time and improve their study, work and rest, physical exercise and social practice, and help them live a meaningful holiday life. Finally, I hope that the children will spend their summer vacation happily and safely with your deep affection, and strive to welcome the arrival of the new semester with full spirit.
I wish all parents and families happiness and peace! Children progress!
Your friend
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Tisso
Dear parents:
You have worked hard! Thank you for your support of education and your hard work for students. At present, facing the new situation of quality education, many parents are confused and have misunderstandings in education. At the same time, some students become "problem students" when they enter junior high school. Psychologists call this stage "psychological weaning period", and parents have deviated from their children's education. To this end, I put forward some views for your reference according to my own understanding and peacetime experience and practice.
Regarding "quality education", some parents think that students have little study time, teachers don't care, and they don't take exams at ordinary times. In fact, this is a misunderstanding of "quality education". In my opinion, the most important aspect of quality education is learning, which is also the main task of students. Teachers and students are still in strict management and have not given up. Our province is one of the birthplaces of quality education, which was first put forward by Zhang Zhiyong, deputy director of the Provincial Department of Education. As it happens, during the summer teacher training in 2009, Deputy Director Zhang Zhiyong answered some questions from netizens online, all of which were related to this issue. Here, I quote some speeches by Deputy Director Zhang to clarify the misunderstanding.
"I don't quite agree with the view that students are relaxed. In fact, it is not that students are relaxed, but that the way and time of students' learning are undergoing fundamental changes. When it comes to quality education, we always talk about a problem, that is, students' classroom study time is less than in the past, and teachers' class time is less. As a result, teachers and students are relaxed in teaching and learning. This is a misunderstanding of curriculum reform and quality education. In fact, the class hours are reduced and the requirements for teachers are higher. The high level here requires teachers not only to improve classroom teaching efficiency, but also to improve teachers' quality, which puts forward higher requirements for the development and integration of curriculum standards, teaching materials and curriculum resources. How to identify holidays, weekends and no classes at night? According to national laws and policies, we don't allow self-study on holidays, weekends and nights. What are these hours for? Is it the time for teachers and students to study life independently, or the time for teachers and students to prepare for classroom teaching-preparation of life experience, preparation of learning interest, preparation of knowledge, etc. , not for teachers and students.
In my opinion, everyone should correctly understand the problem of canceling score evaluation. First, in a scientific sense, the new curriculum does not cancel all the score evaluations like the mid-term and final exams, but there are still score evaluations. Of course, here, we don't advocate making students' rankings public, but students can know their own rankings, with the aim of protecting students' self-esteem and not causing them terrible exam anxiety, and so on. Second, there should be scores in the junior high school level examination, because it will become an important index to evaluate students' learning quality, and it is also an important basis for students to enter the high school stage. Third, students' daily exams, such as unit exams and routine exams, are not allowed to evaluate scores. The function of this examination is diagnosis. Teachers and students should focus on the diagnosis after the exam, let students know their own strengths and weaknesses, especially what problems exist, and let students make their own efforts and improve their direction. Students should be clear about their problems in knowledge mastery, ability development, study habits and so on, so as to learn in the next step. "
The above statement is instructive to both parents and teachers. Some parents also pay attention to students' homework. Deputy Director Zhang also has a passage here, which is copied as follows: "Now many teachers attach great importance to how to improve the efficiency of classroom teaching, but do not pay attention to the guidance of students' extracurricular study life. It is not right to give students a lot of homework in extracurricular time and seize students' extracurricular time with homework. As a teacher, we should scientifically guide and guide students how to read, how to live, how to do necessary homework and how to practice after class ... Students' willingness to learn their own subjects after class is not controlled by homework, but depends on their own subject learning guidance, the cultivation of learning interest and the cultivation of learning habits. If our teachers don't do such guidance and guidance, but blindly suppress students with homework, such reform is meaningless. "Some parents also said that teachers don't change their homework, let students change it, and let students talk in class. Teachers are really lazy. In fact, it is not a bad thing to let students do something. In the past, teachers didn't do everything they should. Of course, what students do is only a small part. The key still depends on the teacher. Please rest assured.
Speaking of lectures, students are encouraged to explore independently at present. Of course, this is only part of the knowledge, so that students can "experience" themselves. This is a good thing, but not everyone can do it. For example, I once talked about the problem of "chickens and rabbits in the same cage". A student suddenly asked, "Teacher, how many legs does a rabbit have?" He really doesn't know, because no one has told him that there is no storage in his mind. This shows that some knowledge depends on teachers. Moreover, human beings have thousands of years of civilization, and it is impossible to explore thousands of years of knowledge in a short time. The main task of teachers is to "guide, teach and dispel doubts".
The education of students is indeed worthy of attention, especially for students with problems. It is necessary to prescribe the right medicine and find the breakthrough point for handling, and parents should avoid impatience and "confusion". During this period, their emotions are very fragile, they are the most impulsive, they are reckless, and they have a poor understanding of the consequences. As parents, we should attach great importance to it and not have adverse effects on our children. We must pay attention to the proper choice from family life to movies and TV programs. Impulse was the biggest feature of their period, and curiosity was the peak of their life. Although they can't distinguish right from wrong, they are confident, and their self-restraint ability is the lowest during this period. Therefore, parents must strengthen education and guidance and don't spoil their children too much.
Parents should pay attention to their words and deeds. A few years ago, there was a student who got good grades, just because his aunt's words had a great negative impact on him. Seeing that he studied very hard, he said "Don't study, I will take the senior high school entrance examination later" out of "kindness", and he has always kept it in mind, and his grades have plummeted since then. Don't always say in front of students that it is difficult for college students to find a job. You have to say it's harder to be a college student. Some time ago, I put Zou Yue's speech "Let the world be full of love" in my class, which aroused great response from my classmates, and many of them were moved to tears. Parents are advised to have a look.
Finally, I put forward some suggestions to parents:
1. To develop the good habit of self-study at home, we must create a peaceful and peaceful learning environment for children and encourage them to study quietly. When the child is doing his homework, don't talk loudly, argue or watch TV around him.
Don't nag your children. Perhaps the most annoying thing for students is nagging, and they should be educated in an orderly way.
3. Parents should understand the requirements of proofreading students and actively cooperate with the school to do a good job. For example, we should educate students to be polite at school, and parents should do this well at home, so that the education of children can be consistent. For another example, the school requires students not to enter the "three rooms, one living room" and Internet cafes, but as far as I know, some students still enter Internet cafes on weekends, and even get closer to some social youths. But now there are too many miscellaneous things in the society-such as video game halls, computer online games, unhealthy movies, comics, novels and other books, dance halls, which far exceed the attraction of textbook knowledge to them and can make their academic performance plummet.
4. According to the students' situation, contact the teacher in time and communicate in time. There are many students in our class. As a class teacher, I don't often get in touch with my parents, and other teachers have fewer opportunities to communicate with their parents. Parents and friends have more contact with teachers, on the one hand, they can make their work more targeted, on the other hand, they can also form the motivation for students to move forward. Now some students, parents and teachers hide from each other, and finally they feel at ease. The result can be imagined. Some children have complicated personalities. On the surface, they listen to their teachers, but behind their backs, they do whatever they want. Therefore, we need to keep in touch, exchange more information about children, and both sides should cooperate with each other to nip small problems in the bud, and don't wait until the problems are serious to come to the teacher. Pay more now and do your duty, or you will be in debt. The more you owe, the more you can pay off your debts. There are three aspects to paying off debts: one is going to school, the other is getting employed, and the third is getting married. When they can't survive in society, they need your constant support and help. Now some parents only think about their own happiness and relaxation, and don't pay attention to education. They can only punish the next generation, a vicious circle. However, knowledgeable families have.
Dear parents, if you don't give up education, every child is a talent. I want to say that parents' expectations of their children are also our wishes and our goals are the same. Let's join hands to guide children's youth. I believe they will be our pride in the near future!
Liu Binghua, the head teacher of Class Two and Class Five.
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