As a funny film with two-track development, "Flowers Like Brocade" not only reminds us of the happiness and sweetness when Geng Hao and Kang Xiaoyu fell in love, but also shows us the story that they left everything behind and gained the true meaning of love when they parted.
The first time I saw anthomaniac, it was probably funny, and I was very confused about the stories interspersed in the film. I feel that since the divorce, Kang Xiaoyu and go to dali feel incredible. The span between films is particularly large and incoherent, and they don't know what is playing at all.
In fact, this film does not use the usual flashbacks, positive narratives and gags to tell the story, but focuses on the hero and heroine at the same time. Attentive audience may see that after Geng Hao and Yi Hao divorced, go to dali was looking for the footprints once again, while Yuan Quan was the beginning of deductive meeting Geng Hao.
Geng Hao: As a person who dreams of becoming a singer, a failed marriage is bloody to him. In the face of Yu Xia who took away his wife's hatred, he thought he could give vent to his hatred by beating up like the protagonists in many movies. However, the film reversal sent a lighter to his rival in love.
Yi Hao: As an optimistic music producer who grew up in Geng Hao, he saw the pain of Geng Hao. In order to help him get rid of the pain, he took Geng Hao on an absurd trip.
Kang Xiaoyu: a young woman in literature and art, a romantic and sentimental school full of imagination, and a doer who says go for a song.
In love and marriage, there is nothing wrong with each other Perhaps Kang Xiaoyu just appreciated Geng Hao's talent at first, but in the long marriage, Geng Hao was a man with no taste, and he didn't know how to chat up girls with low emotional intelligence, how to enjoy life and had no romantic feelings, which made Kang Xiaoyu very disappointed.
Women are sensitive and emotional in marriage, and so are men?
In the story, Geng Hao is a rational species. When they got married and started a family, Geng Hao gave up his musical dream for a living and chose to open a shop, just to stabilize his life, restrain his emotional side and give his lover enough peace of mind and gentleness.
Kang Xiaoyu is a romantic literary school. In the process of getting along, there is no passion, no tolerance, no forbearance, and the only thing left is a dull emotional life, which leads to the breakdown of marriage.
In many marriages, I think this is what you want, but it is exactly what the other person doesn't care about. I want to give you a stable home, but what you want is romance, and love and bread can't be satisfied one by one.
After the divorce, Geng Hao and Yi Hao, their best friends, started the journey of healing. The appearance of girls, killing Matt and Bai not only paved the way for the development of the plot, but also confirmed the prosaic relationship with marriage.
Back in time, five years ago at this time, Kang Xiaoyu, a young woman in literature and art, decided to go to go to dali just because she listened to Geng Hao's songs ... After a series of wonderful experiences, she put aside her "shadow" and got to know Geng Hao.
I met Kang Xiaoyu in Geng Hao, Dali, and they left "Geng Hao is sorry for Kang Xiaoyu" on the wall. Who would have thought that this "sorry" turned out to be the name of a puppy, maybe it was arranged by heaven, and the appearance of sorry was only the final outcome.
Just like the sentence in the song: "If I had known it was like a dream, I wouldn't have put all my love in the same place".
Everything may have been doomed, perhaps at the beginning of love, the ending has been doomed.
Among Geng Hao's main stories, the most memorable one is the contrast between Geng Hao answering and hanging up his ex-wife at the airport.
Geng Hao's inner world collapsed and rebuilt countless times after receiving his ex-wife's sorry words again and again. He sincerely wishes and expects his ex-wife and pretends to be generous, but he also suffers a lot.
In front of close people, honesty is necessary, but pretending to be your hardest armor is to be kind to those who have hurt you, even if you are black and blue.
In the face of a woman who doesn't want to continue to love, if a man chooses to insist blindly, it will only make the other person look down on him, immerse himself in the whirlpool of feelings and can't go out.
Therefore, in this case, it is a wise choice for men to choose stop loss and be themselves with the same charm.
After hanging up the phone, Yi Hao was a completely different person. First, I bravely came out and boldly wanted to declare "Bai Fumei", but I accidentally found out that I was gay, and then I squandered it.
I believe this is a sign of loving someone. When two people love each other, a man will have enough heart to tolerate each other. Because of deep love, men will consider their attitudes together. If you can't find your old feelings again, men's attitudes will change obviously.
At the end of the movie, when Geng Hao saw the video of his ex-wife in the bar, his anger was real. Have you ever fought for the people you love? Maybe this is what Geng Hao wants to express. Even after the divorce, I have always loved my ex-wife.
There is a line in the movie that I especially like: "My previous failed marriage is a shadow in my life, but it is also a part of my life. Then you just insulted my ex-wife, which is an insult to my life. "
Many people maliciously slander their ex-wives after separation, which can't be worse, but don't forget that this is an indispensable part of your life, right or wrong. You insulted not only your ex-wife, but also your own life.
Love is never single, but gradually established and sublimated in mutual communication and communication.
Even if two people get divorce certificates, as an ex-husband, you need to give your ex-wife some warmth and support in front of everyone. # Marriage #
A happy marriage is never the result of one person's efforts, but the joint efforts of two people.
Therefore, when a love is ushered in or enters the scene of failure, men should realize that it is our greatest tenderness to cherish each other's good times and draw a satisfactory end to our previous love, which is the most ideal life.