Examples of success after suffering 1:
What he pays attention to is often the corner of the world that people don't want to expose. Before being together, he didn't even have a work that could go to the cinema. He can't tell why he should pay attention to these painful realities. But besides these, what else can you pay attention to? I don't get it, okay? .
In a punk-style cinema in Potsdam Square, Berlin, after the screening of the documentary Together from China, more than 500 people applauded warmly for a long time. A director who is uncomfortable in front of such a passionate expression can't help it? Is it embarrassing to let me stand there for a long time? .
Two months ago, this anti-discrimination AIDS documentary became the only China film in the full recording unit of the 6 1 Berlin Film Festival. ? This is a sincere work. A German reporter sitting in the audience exclaimed. It showed me the attitude of China people towards AIDS patients. ?
When I returned to Beijing to watch the latest screening, the cinema with more than 100 people was packed. After only 85 minutes, the light came on slowly and no one got up and left. On the wall, there is an unremarkable movie poster: in spring, pink apricot blossoms are blooming everywhere, and three protagonists suffering from AIDS are smiling and talking about life and death and the future under the apricot tree.
On the huge movie screen, there are infected people who are deliberately ignored. Yunnan, Heilongjiang, Shanghai and Zhao Liang, Sichuan, spent almost a whole year looking for this crowd in these cities. Aids prevention organizations recommended infected people to him, and hundreds of people contacted him online. They are infected with this terrible disease by using drug syringes, mother-to-child transmission, selling blood, ectopic pregnancy blood transfusion or unsafe sex. But most of them still live a humble and tenacious life.
It seems that it is a completely different world from Zhao Liang. The 40-year-old man wears black-rimmed glasses, a black leather coat and beige narrow-leg pants. Even sitting quietly in the crowded cafe of filmmakers, he is the most fashionable person. Sometimes, he uses the iPad every minute? Knit a scarf? Don't forget to upload it to your iPhone4? Is the Wild Great Wall full of flowers? Photos of.
This is not the first time he has recorded suffering with a lens. 1995 this man who grew up in Dandong, a small border town, came to Beijing Film Academy from Dandong TV station for further study. What does he know? Give up national distribution voluntarily, for the sake of? Blind flow? Wandering artists living in Yuanmingyuan? . There, he recorded the forced dissolution of the Yuanmingyuan painter village.
After that, he spent 12 years filming the petition village in Beijing. The young man with long hair rides a bike every day to find a subject. Suffering is the main process of life there. Does he often? Tears while carrying the camera? .
Zhao Liang claimed that he was shooting in 12? Being an old man is no longer easily moved, but what is on your mind more often? . But that memory cannot be erased. Is this job always valid? The director of Bitter Melon Face once asked the sound engineer seriously: Having been in contact with such people for more than ten years, has your face become bitter?
Three years ago, Gu Changwei planned to shoot the film "Favorite" related to AIDS, and planned to find some AIDS patients to join the crew. Gu Changwei found Zhao Liang, who is quite famous in the field of independent documentary, and tried to make a documentary for these patients.
For Zhao Liang, this is almost a? A small world you don't know at all? . Members of "Favorite" and "Together" are inevitably worried, and people in the set department are also worried that there are often wounds when building a house or putting on scenery. Will it be infected? Some people worry that in summer, men are shirtless. Can sweating lead to infection?
Editor Feng still remembers that when he first ate hot pot with infected people, he was always worried. I ate a meal and didn't even know what it tasted like. .
? We only have the most superficial understanding of AIDS, and at the beginning, we will inevitably be afraid. ? Geng Jun, assistant director, recalled that Zhao Liang just shouted:? It's okay, it's not contagious! ?
? Although no one knows whether he is afraid or not. ? Geng Jun added with a smile.
Gradually, this? No karaoke or breaking into nightclubs? The director found:? It's nothing to live together as a family. ? But when the fear disappeared, another more complicated emotion appeared again. ? Especially tangled! ? He sighed and felt the powerlessness of anxiety outside the camera again.
On the New Year's Eve of 20 10, Zhao Liang went to Linfen, Shanxi Province to photograph Zetao Hu's hometown. This is the only child in the family who is a patient. His mother died young and his father had a second wife. In that poor mountain village, this disease is enough to embarrass the whole family. In the lens, the hot pot of vermicelli, yuba and vegetables is a family reunion dinner. But that dirty little face was eaten again, and I never dared to put chopsticks in the hot pot again.
? Dad, give me a piece of tofu. ? The child cried timidly and raised the bowl.
Do people in the same trade still remember this northeast man at that time? Extremely angry? He even asked his father loudly: Did you stop him from picking vegetables in the pot?
Now, like the child star in Slumdog Millionaire, the little boy boarded the plane, attended the Berlin Film Festival and the Hong Kong Film Festival, and walked the red carpet with international stars.
But Mr. Zhao Liang will still worry that once they go home, they will still be faced with low adobe houses and dilapidated heatable adobe beds. However, he believes that although this film can't improve a person's fate at once, it is of practical significance to let more people see him and gradually or slowly improve the living conditions of infected people. ?
For Zetao Hu, a little boy, after filming, he can finally get food with his family, which is perhaps the most realistic significance.
Nobody knows, and it's often called? Newcomer director? Why on earth is a 40-year-old man so obsessed with the gloomy reality? Because in life, he is undoubtedly bright. A fashionable guy? .
Colleagues still remember that during the four months of filming together, although there was no internet in that mountain area, the director never forgot it? Smelly? ,? Always wearing a tight T-shirt, a little heroic, a new dress every day, even a different color? .
But when he picked up the camera, everything changed. Who is he in the eyes of colleagues? Treat the person who works the most seriously? Beautiful clothes? Don't care about being covered in mud? . But on weekdays? Very sincere, from the heart? But once you walk into the world of cameras? Normal hysteria? .
? You are so stupid! You ruined such a good opportunity! ? The workaholic yelled at the employees who accidentally helped him more than once.
But when he takes off his camera, he often feels exhausted. Is it really too difficult to make a documentary? . Because he often focuses on the corners of the world that people don't want to expose. Before we were together, he didn't even have a work that could go to the cinema. He can't tell why he should pay attention to these painful realities. But besides these, what else can you pay attention to? I don't get it, okay? . This always defines itself as? An ordinary literary and art worker? Of men believe:? Individuals will pay attention to these things as long as they have a little conscience and sense of justice. Otherwise, you are ignorant and cowardly and irresponsible to yourself. ?
Now, he is 40 years old, and his documentary has really entered the cinema for the first time. The audience waiting in line packed the whole cinema. In the cafe where filmmakers gathered, the man smoked five cigarettes in a row during the interview. A friend came up to tease him: yo, the mainstream director is here! ?
? Will be back soon. ? He looked into each other's eyes and answered solemnly.
? Isn't everyone suffering some unfair treatment? After asking a short question, he spit out a cigarette. What a cruel world this is! ?
Example 2 of success after suffering:
Xu Juying's home is in Jianyan Village, Zhangjiang Town, Shangyu City, Zhejiang Province. 1987 65438+ 10, at the age of 22, she fell in love with Zheng Huizhong, a 24-year-old boy who drives a tractor in the same village, and got married. After marriage, Zheng Huizhong went out to transport, and Xu Juying was engaged in farming at home, and she lived happily.
That summer, disaster suddenly hit the family. One day, Zheng Huizhong had an accident while pulling goods, and immediately fell into a coma. In the hospital, Xu Juying threw herself on her husband and cried her eyes out. At that time, they had only been married for six months.
Since then, pregnant Xu Juying took her husband and rushed to major hospitals in Hangzhou and Shanghai for treatment. However, several hospitals unanimously diagnosed that Zheng Huizhong's spinal fracture caused high paraplegia, and there was no rule of law. Helpless, Xu Juying got pregnant and brought her husband back to his hometown in Shangyu, Zhang zhen.
Zheng Huizhong was completely unconscious from the neck down. Not only was his lower limbs paralyzed, but his hands could not move. Feed when you eat, and take care of when you urinate. A strong man suddenly became a cripple. Facing the cruel reality, Xu Juying wiped away her tears and determined to support this family no matter how difficult it was.
Thinking that he will spend his whole life in bed, Zheng Hui's loyalty is unacceptable, and his character becomes withdrawn and irritable. He hit the bedside table with his stiff arm, broke the cup and hit the wall with his head. He even begged Xu Juying several times: Let me die. It is worse for me to live like this than to die! ? Xu Juying endured tears and comforted her husband warmly over and over again: you are dead. Do you want me to be widowed? Let our children be born without a father? Zhong Hui, don't be upset. The more upset you are, the more my heart aches. No one can predict bad luck in life. Let's face it together! Don't worry, no matter how difficult it is, I won't leave you! ?
1987 12 16, Xu Juying gave birth to twin boys in Zhang zhen Hospital. The arrival of two children brought joy and vitality to this sad family. Xu Juying carried her twin son to Zheng Huizhong's bed. A long-lost smile appeared on Zheng Huizhong's face, and his heart had the hope and confidence to live. Xu Juying and his wife named their twin sons Zheng Bo and Zheng Tao.
After having twin sons, Xu Juying is busier. She often coaxes her children, feeds her husband with water and turns over to wipe his back. Sometimes, it is inevitable to lose sight of one thing and lose sight of another. Either the husband soiled his clothes by urinating, or the two children cried so hard that Xu Juying was exhausted.
After a while, Xu Juying's eyes were black and her mind was dizzy, and she suddenly lost seven or eight pounds. She deeply realized the bitterness and hardship of life.
Built a stormy home with hard work,
Never give up taking care of her husband and raising her son.
Her husband is paralyzed in bed and twin sons have to be raised. How can a weak woman bear this burden? Everyone else is sweating for Xu Juying. Several neighbors quietly advised Xu Juying to make other plans. Xu Juying smiled faintly and said that she was responsible for her husband and son and would not leave them alone.
1in the autumn of 988, a relative secretly introduced an object to Xu Juying and moved to Xu Juying's mother's house as a lobbyist. Xu Juying shouted at her mother. Mom, why are you so confused? If I abandon Zhong Hui and get married again, will I still be human? My mother saw that her daughter was so determined that she had to leave without saying a word.
In order to earn money to support his family, Xu Juying returned to his old job and started farming. She asked someone to build a pigsty next to her house and raised 3 sows and 20 white geese. When three sows gave birth, Xu Juying asked her sister to help take care of the twin sons. She sleeps in a pigsty every day and delivers the sow herself. Sows have two litters a year, and three sows have 65 piglets. Xu Juying has 850 yuan's income, which makes her very happy.
1in March, 989, Xu Juying contracted 7 mu of responsible farmland in the village. During the busy farming season, she gets up at 4: 30 every morning, first changes her husband's urine bag, turns over and rubs his back, then makes breakfast for him and takes care of her two sons. After breakfast, she took her two sons to work, put them on the ridge and let them play by themselves. She takes care of them while working. When she is really busy, she has to ask her aunt (her husband's aunt) to help her look after the children. She carries two children on her back in the morning and takes them home at night.
Xu Juying only survived for a few years. Watching my two sons grow up day by day, although I am very tired every day, my heart is full of infinite expectations.
After the twin sons went to school, Xu Juying put her home phone at her husband's bedside and entered her mobile phone number. When she goes out to work, if her husband feels unwell, he can click the hands-free and redial keys of the phone with his finger or tongue, and she will rush home after receiving the call.
Zheng Huizhong's bad temper happens from time to time, which is upset caused by long-term bedridden. One day, Xu Juying came back a little late from working in the fields. Zheng Huizhong accused his wife with a straight face. You just work and don't care about my life? My stomach is growling with hunger! ? In the face of her husband's criticism, grievances welled up in Xu Juying's mind, and a string of tears could not help falling from the corner of her eyes, but she quickly calmed down, wiped away her tears and said with a smile. Zhong Hui, it is my fault that you have no patience! ? Then she hurried to the kitchen to cook for her husband.
Zheng Huizhong apologizes to his wife every time he loses his temper and calms down. He felt deeply guilty and hated himself for dragging down his wife and had been struggling painfully. On one occasion, he suddenly said to Xu Juying: Marry someone while you are young! ? Hearing this, Xu Juying stamped her foot and shouted, What are you talking about? Besides, I ignore you! ?
1993, in order to earn more money, Xu Juying took time to attend the training course organized by the town agricultural correspondence university. After learning the technology, she planted 4 acres of grapes in the contracted farmland. Xu Juying spent a lot of time on pruning, fertilizing and ridging. She is still unwilling to plant mulberry and raise silkworms and keep them under mulberry trees? Sanhuang chicken? . Xu Juying is very busy every day, and her neighbors say that she is like a tireless cow. Sometimes she is too busy to get away. Xu Juying simply took her husband to the hut in the field with a trolley and let her take care of it while working.
Long-term fatigue exhausted Xu Juying. On one occasion, two brothers, Zheng Bo and Zheng Tao, went to the fields to look for their mother after school and found her there? Silkworm baby I fell asleep on the floor in front of the bed, my calluses were still holding mulberry leaves, and my face looked haggard and sallow. There's nothing the brothers can do? Sissy. Tears slowly fell, gently waking up my mother.
1March 1996, Xu Juying excitedly said to her husband: Our old house is too shabby. Let's build a new house while our son is still young! How can you afford to build a new house? The husband couldn't believe his ears. ? There's not enough for me to borrow at home. ? Xu Juying has a firm tone. ? Juying, it's really hard for you! ? Zheng Huizhong had a smile on her face and tears in her eyes. Soon, with the support of relatives and friends, Xu Juying's two two-story buildings were built. On the day when the house was capped, Xu Juying collapsed and was taken to Zhang zhen Hospital.
Twenty-three years of hard work touched the world, and twin college students brought joy to their paralyzed husbands.
Xu Juying took good care of her paralyzed husband with his wife's warmth, so that his life could continue; Raise twin sons with deep maternal love and let them grow up healthily. No matter how hard life is, she never complains about being tired.
Xu Juying's kindness and strength have a subtle influence on her two sons. Zheng Bo and Zheng Tao grew up sensible. After the two brothers went to school, the elder brother was the style committee member in the class and the younger brother was the monitor. They secretly competed in their studies and both achieved excellent results. Every day when they come home from school, they all strive to help their mother. When the farm is busy, the two brothers will also help their mother with farm work. Xu Juying was very pleased to see her two sons so sensible and diligent.
Twin sons are Xu Juying's spiritual pillar. In order to provide for two sons to go to school, Xu Juying scrimped and saved to a harsh degree, and did not buy a new dress in 10. Every penny she earns is saved, and she is reluctant to use it. In the first year of junior high school, Zheng Bo won the first prize in Shangyu Olympic Mathematics Competition and the second prize in Zheng Tao Physics Examination. Xu Juying was very happy. She gave her two sons a cashmere pullover and a New Pants respectively, and the two brothers got a treasure. Zheng Bo's brothers all saw her mother's hardships and efforts. While cherishing their mother, they hope that they can grow up quickly and help their mother reduce the burden.
In the second day of junior high school, Zheng Bo and Zheng Tao's grades suddenly dropped continuously, and sometimes they didn't even finish their homework. The teacher in charge of the class quickly told Xu Juying about this situation. Xu Juying calmly asked his two sons: What happened to your study? The two sons said in tears that they didn't want to study and wanted to help their mother earn money. Xu Juying is angry. She scolded her son for the first time. You are so worthless and disappointing, let your father know, don't piss him off alive! ? The two sons admitted their mistakes with tears and said that they should concentrate on their studies in the future. Soon, their grades caught up again.
In the autumn of 2003, Xu Juying gritted her teeth and transferred her two sons to Shangyu? Zhejiang Huawei Foreign Language School? Read grade three. Before her son entered school, Xu Juying loaded the car with 600 yuan money for selling 55 Sanhuang chickens, took her two sons to Xinhua Bookstore in the county town, and bought a repeater and a bunch of counseling books for everyone. Only 12 yuan was left, and three people went home.
In the summer of 2004, Zheng Bo and Zheng Tao were admitted to the senior middle school of Huawei Foreign Languages School with excellent results. However, this family can no longer afford their study expenses. In desperation, Xu Juying is going to apply for a loan from the bank. On August 10, 2004, Chen, the boss of a private enterprise in Shangyu, learned of the plight of Xu Juying's family and made a special trip to Xu Juying's home. On the spot, he took out the 8,000 yuan tuition and fees needed by the Zheng Bo brothers for the first semester, and Xu Juying's family was grateful.
In the 2007 college entrance examination, both Zheng Bo and Zheng Tao were admitted to key universities. Zheng Bo was admitted to Zhejiang Normal University and Zheng Tao was admitted to Zhejiang University. When the news came, the whole mountain village boiled. Xu Juying held two university admission notices, with mixed feelings and tears in her eyes. Lying in bed, Zheng Huizhong couldn't wait to shout? Let me see! ? When he got the letters of acceptance from his two sons, his hands trembled and he burst into tears.
From June 5438 to February 2009, Xu Juying was awarded the title of Zhejiang Province in 2009. Touching the top ten people in Zhejiang? .
20 10 summer vacation, Zheng Bo and Zheng Tao returned to their hometown in Shangyu. They embraced their mother happily and confided in one another. Mom, after we graduate from college and work, we will give you all the wages we earn, so that you and dad can live a good life! ? A smile appeared on Xu Juying's vicissitudes of life, and Zheng Huizhong, who was lying in bed, also smiled happily.
Today, Zheng Huizhong is still lying in bed and Xu Juying is still working outside and taking care of her husband at home. Although life is still a little difficult now, Xu Juying is sweet in her heart, because she feels that the day is coming and the happy life is getting closer and closer to her.
Example 3 of success after suffering:
Beethoven is a world-famous musician and the one with the worst fate. In childhood, Beethoven grew up in tears. Family poverty and estrangement between parents make Bedouins serious, withdrawn, stubborn and independent, and have strong and profound feelings in their hearts.
/kloc-started composing music at the age of 0/2, and/kloc-participated in orchestra performances at the age of 0/4 and received salary to subsidize his family. 17 years old, his mother died of illness, leaving only two younger brothers, a sister and a degenerate father at home. Soon, Beethoven got typhoid fever and smallpox and almost died.
Beethoven simply became a symbol of suffering, and his misfortune was unbearable for a child. However, Beethoven survived. He loves music so much that he can't live without it. In his works, there is a shadow of his life, full of noble thoughts, revealing the pursuit and yearning for beautiful things on earth. He has endless feelings for the beautiful nature.
To say that Beethoven's fate is not only his miserable childhood, but in fact his greatest misfortune is that he was deaf at the age of 28. First, my ears are ringing day and night, and then my hearing is getting weaker and weaker. He went for a walk in the wild and never heard the farmer's flute again. Since then, he has lived a lonely life as a deaf person and devoted all his energy to fighting the suffering of the deaf. Beethoven lived in the world, few people could understand him, and the only thing that could comfort him was music. When composing music, he often bites a thin stick in his mouth to feel the vibration of the piano. He tells his love for nature, his pursuit of truth and his vision for the future in an inaudible voice. His famous Symphony of Destiny was written in a state of complete deafness. He believes it? Music can inspire the human spirit? . ? Fight tenaciously and win through struggle. ? This idea runs through Beethoven's works from beginning to end. 1827 On March 26th, in a thunderstorm night, the music giant passed away at the age of 57.