1. convince doting parents.
When talking, we should first affirm the advantages of students, sincerely appreciate and praise their good performance, and then point out their shortcomings in time. We should fully respect the feelings of students' parents, affirm the correctness of parents' love for their children, and let the other party accept your opinions psychologically. At the same time, we should also point out the harm of doting on children's growth in earnest language, patiently and enthusiastically help and persuade parents to educate their children in the right way, and inspire parents to reflect the situation of students realistically. Never protect your children and cover up your mistakes because you spoil them.
2. "conniving" parents should be fact-oriented.
Teachers should report more good news and less worries in conversation, so that parents can realize their children's development prospects, stimulate their love and expectation for their children, change their laissez-faire attitude towards their children, and attract them to actively participate in educational activities for their children. At the same time, we should also gently point out the influence of laissez-faire on children, so that parents can understand that it is very painful for children to grow up in a family that lacks love, thus enhancing parents' concern for children, strengthening the feelings between parents and children, and creating a suitable environment for the good development of students.
3. Parents who beat and scold should advise.
For parents who are rude, willful or even unreasonable, we should treat "heat" with cold, brake with static, and make hard with soft. The more unreasonable it is, the more we must insist on understanding and reasoning; Listen before you act. Be tolerant and understanding.
4. Respect parents who are separated from each other.
For educated families, we should truthfully reflect the students' performance to parents as much as possible, take the initiative to ask parents to put forward educational measures, listen to their opinions carefully, fully affirm and adopt their reasonable suggestions, and put forward their own opinions in time to jointly do a good job in the education of students with their parents.