Lead: I always thought that marriage was an exam. As long as I work harder, I can get satisfactory results. Later I learned that almost everything in this world can be obtained through hard work, but marriage is not.

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Tong Xin got divorced. This year, she just turned 48. After nearly 30 years of marriage, she left, like a kite in the sky. Maybe if the thread breaks, the kite and the thread will split in two.

? At the age of 48, she is neither too old nor too young, just wandering at the gate of middle-aged and elderly people.

When her husband heard the word "divorce" pop out of her mouth, he was shocked. He really can't understand that this woman who has been weak in front of her for most of her life has the courage to tell him about the divorce.

? My husband didn't agree at first, but looked at her with contempt. Seeing Tong Xin's resolute attitude, he slowly spit out a sentence from his nostrils: "Leave me, you are nothing, don't trust us."

Tong Xin was full of anger and asked her husband, "I have been married for almost 30 years. What kind of life have you given me for so many years? " What have I done in this house? I am raising two children in a woman's house. Do you deserve to be the father of your child? "At some point, Tong Xin wanted to cry, but she couldn't let the man in front of her look down on him, so she ran out of the door and stood alone in the field, crying silently.

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Tong Xin and her husband were arranged by a matchmaker. At that time, Tong Xin, who failed in the college entrance examination, worked as a substitute teacher in the primary school in the village. Another elderly teacher in the school thought Tong Xin was good and had a good personality, so he introduced his nephew to Tong Xin. That is, Tongxin's current husband.

At first, Tong Xin didn't want this marriage. Tong Xin felt that the man in front of him was fooling around all day. He has a series of employers, wandering around in the west. Several times, he stole the chicken from Aunt Li's house in the village. When Aunt Li came to see you, he denied it. Finally, his mother scolded Aunt Li.

However, Tong Xin's parents agreed. Tong Xin's parents took a fancy to his food wholesale department. Don't look at this snack wholesale department. People from several villages come to buy anything they need. Annual salary of 50,000 to 60,000 is not a problem. Tong Xin thought at first, "If my parents force me to marry him again, I will run away." But when you think about it, reality always comes faster than fantasy. Tongxin's father got cerebral thrombosis. When he was sent to the hospital, the doctor asked him to pay 10 thousand yuan for the rescue. Tong Xin's mother was dumbfounded. Selling vegetables at home is only 2000 yuan. Where can the remaining 8000 go back? At this time, my mother saw Tong Xin come in and immediately had an idea, so she quickly ran to the man's house to advance 8,000 yuan for the bride price.

In this way, Tong Xin married her present husband with a feeling that she could not control her own destiny. Shortly after marriage, Tong Xin discovered her husband's bad habit of being lazy and stealing chickens and dogs, and advised him to take the right path. But the husband pointed to Tong Xin and accused him of meddling. I had no choice but to tell my mother-in-law, who said strangely, "My son is a man who can't control himself. What is his skill? " I thought to myself, divorce without having children, so I went back to my parents' house to discuss it. When my mother heard that her daughter was leaving, 10 thousand people disagreed and said, "Life is bitter, how can it be bitter?" If you want a divorce, there is no way. Your own husband is Huang Lian, and you have to swallow it. "

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? Just then, Tong Xin found herself pregnant. Looking at the baby in her belly, Tong Xin's heart softened, so the divorce was put on hold. Originally, I thought my husband would be better after having children. Although my husband is not doing business now, as long as he is sincere and works hard to get through it, he can see the bright sunshine and hear the sound of flowers. Later, Tong Xin discovered what "dogs can't change but eat shit". Later, I had a second child, and our two children were always worried about Tong Xin. Then, my mother-in-law became seriously ill. Because the money at home in recent years is almost the same as that of her husband, I can't afford to treat my mother-in-law. Moreover, the food wholesale department operated by the family is not good because of more competition. Helpless, Tong Xin can only transfer the former food wholesale department and get money to treat her mother-in-law. However, the money was used to treat her mother-in-law's illness.

After her mother-in-law's funeral, Tong Xin looked at the two children in primary school, and spent more and more money every day, so she went to work in the factory in the town. At night, after the child fell asleep, she quietly went out to collect waste and exchange money. On this day, Tong Xin persisted for 78 years. In these seven or eight years, Tong Xin's husband continued to eat, drink and be merry, and gave it to Tong Xin if he had no money.

This is one of the things that finally made Tong Xin decide to divorce. That day, Tong Xin came home from work and just cooked a meal. Her husband came back from the outside, clamoring for food, and asked Tong Xin to fill his rice. Tong Xin has just delivered the meal to her husband, and he feels a little hot. He directly threw the bowl on the ground and scolded Tong Xin. Tong Xin didn't talk back from beginning to end. She looked at her husband coldly and acted like a clown. Husband finally scolded tired, he said two words very calmly: "divorce."

? Home is a place to nourish women's essence and empty women's blood. This family has been drained of concentric blood, so what's the point of continuing?

Later, the divorce lasted for several months, but her husband didn't agree, she insisted on not leaving, or her family didn't agree. I'm afraid I'll go back after the divorce. The two children in the same heart are very supportive of their mother's divorce. Especially the daughter who just graduated from college, she said, "I admire you very much. I can live for my father for decades. For decades, you have never lived for yourself. Now that I am divorced, I support you. "

After Tong Xin's divorce, she went to her daughter's school, and then signed up for a monthly training class. Because Tong Xin is kind and diligent, many users want her. Tong Xin finally pulled herself together and returned to her life.

? A woman gave everything for her husband and lost herself in marriage. She thinks that sacrificing herself in this way is the greatest love for her husband. Little did she know that it was more harmful to herself. Life is not long. Women should live for themselves, learn to love themselves and manage themselves.