Tolerance is the foundation of being a man and the most basic sign of a person's kindness, so it is very important to cultivate children's tolerance from an early age. Tolerance is also a very precious quality for children. A tolerant child can forgive others' mistakes, understand others' behaviors, and play a positive role in supporting children's personality development. An inclusive child, in particular, can often achieve * * *, and can think from the perspective of others, especially with high emotional intelligence, which is conducive to the healthy development of emotions. Therefore, tolerant children often have strong social skills and good interpersonal relationships, which is of great significance to the future development of emotional intelligence and social skills.

1. The importance of children's tolerance

Around us, we can often see some children who are selfish, overbearing and arrogant. They often make other children cry and are willful. Such children have no children to play with. They are "warmongers" and always like to annoy other children wherever they go. And tolerant children, they are kind-hearted, gentle and sensible, gentle and gentle, especially likable and seduced. Therefore, no matter where you are, you will become the most dazzling star in the crowd, and you will be attracted by a group of children. Therefore, once children lack tolerance, they tend to go to extremes, have a bad temper and are not close to others, thus affecting social relations and interpersonal skills. Therefore, letting a child have a tolerant heart is helpful to his personality development and will be very beneficial to his life.

2. Parents' guidance is very important.

But now many children are mostly only children, who are held in the palm of their hands by their parents at home. They can't stand setbacks and are wronged at school. When they get home, they will cry for their parents, so their parents say they are very distressed, so their children often fight with other children when they first start school, so they will inevitably be bullied. Then some parents will educate their children: if others hit you, you must fight back! If someone else is sorry, you should be sorry for him! This educational model obviously does not allow children to suffer. However, this kind of education also encourages children not to get along well with their classmates at school, which will also affect their communicative competence. Therefore, fighting violence with violence will only make children more violent and even affect their ability to communicate with others in the future. Therefore, to teach children tolerance, we should not only deal with partnership and classmate relationship, but also deal with husband and wife relationship, so as to lay the foundation for a happy life in the future.

3. Teach children the meaning of tolerance

However, in real life, many people are doing things that harm others and do not benefit themselves. You know, people are different. We don't understand other people's behavior, and we shouldn't be upset by other people's mistakes. Just avoid it, don't care too much. Some things may be laughed off after they happen. This is the heart of tolerance. Therefore, tolerance is a quality, a virtue and a way of being a man. It will give you room to maneuver, and it will also give you more beautiful space in your heart to dispel negative emotions and unnecessary contradictions. A tolerant person can easily get happiness in life, embrace happiness, adapt to different environments, establish harmonious cooperative relations with others, and give full play to their talents.

4. Case sharing:

I remember that once the school organized a summer camp, I took my children to a resort. In the hall, I saw a staff member very nervous and apologetically comforted a little boy. The little boy was only four or five years old, crying and trembling with fear. Obviously, something happened. After understanding the reasons, I found that there were many children on the day of the summer camp. Due to the negligence of the staff, the child accidentally fell in place after the game and did not bring it back. Therefore, the venue at that time was relatively remote, and the children were frightened because they were alone on the field. Think about it, too. The four-year-old child is sure to panic when he sees no one around him, so he has been crying. After a while, his mother appeared and hurried to pick up the baby. Looking at the poor crying child, I want to ask you, what would you do if you were this mother?

Perhaps most parents will yell at the staff, complain about him, protest to the manager and the person in charge because of their impatience and love for their children, or leave the summer camp with their children and never join similar clubs again. But these reactions may all be instinctive reactions as mothers, but the performance of this mother has taught us a profound lesson. I saw my mother crouch down to comfort the child and tell him that she will be fine now. My aunt was very scared and nervous because she couldn't find you just now. You should know that he didn't mean to.

But now, fortunately, we found you and you met your mother. Can you forgive this sister's mistake? If you can understand and forgive your aunt's behavior, then you can kiss that aunt. Give him comfort so that she won't be afraid or worried about you. At that time, I saw the crying child suddenly stand on tiptoe and kiss the staff next to her, telling her, Aunt, don't be afraid anymore, I'm fine, so it is the tolerant education of parents that can cultivate tolerant and considerate children who can think from the perspective of others.

5. How should parents cultivate a tolerant child?

Therefore, many parents hope that their children can be broad-minded and considerate of others, but they often accidentally cultivate their children into a selfish and narrow-minded person. Therefore, even as parents, we have not obtained any education qualification certificate. For the happiness and bright future of our children, we must learn how to be a wise father and mother. First of all, we need to teach children how to have a tolerant attitude.

Parents should have tolerant qualities.

First of all, a tolerant child has a tolerant parent. You know, children are copies of their parents. Our every move, every word and deed are deeply influenced by children and imitated by them. Therefore, children learn how to treat people from their parents. If parents are tolerant and generous, don't haggle over every ounce, and get along with their neighbors calmly, then children will learn how to deal with interpersonal relationships in the dormitory and become.

(2) cultivate * * * ability

* * * Emotion is the ability to put yourself in others' shoes, especially when there is conflict with others. You can look at this problem from the perspective of others for the first time, solve this problem, think about why the other person has such behavior and behavior, and think about why the other person talks like this. If we can have this ability, we can understand, prevent contradictions from intensifying and reduce unnecessary contradictions. Therefore, when children have the ability to think from another angle, they can not only take care of their own feelings and moods, but also eliminate this phenomenon and have the ability of psychological transposition.

For example, people who can play chess generally have this experience. When they first learn to play chess, they will think about how to go in the first step 1 and how to go in the second step. They will never think about what others should do, so only at a certain level will they think about how others will respond and which step others should take. Therefore, people who can consider each other's ideas will have a higher level and a higher realm. The same should be true for dealing with life problems, so many contradictions will be solved. When a child has these abilities, he will get used to thinking from the perspective of his parents and understand their good intentions.

Especially when getting along with the elderly, most of them are nagging, and many children will be very upset if they don't have the ability to empathize. But with children, I can understand the care of the elderly and think from the perspective of teachers. Some children think that the teacher is too strict and hate the teacher in their hearts, but they are tolerant, have the ability to understand the teacher's hard work and dedication, and get along well with their classmates and partners, so the children have.

③ Encourage children to make more friends.

A child cultivated by tolerance will find that different people have different shortcomings and various small mistakes in the process of interacting with others. Then we can learn to tolerate the shortcomings and mistakes of others, so that we can continue to communicate and get along well. I also passed these trainings and realized the meaning and happiness of tolerance. Therefore, I want to give reasonable advice to people who make mistakes or make mistakes, share the success of others, share my own happiness, and make progress while helping others embark on the right path. Therefore, I support children to communicate with their peers more. At the same time, in this process, don't be jealous of partners who are stronger than yourself, and don't ridicule partners who are worse than themselves, so that children can learn to support others, learn to cooperate and learn to win.

Conclusion:

The so-called gold is not enough, no one is perfect, and everyone will have shortcomings and deficiencies. When getting along with others, don't expect others to always be as perfect as we think. There is no need to haggle over the shortcomings of friends. Pay attention to fairness and justice in everything. In the face of some setbacks and bumps, maintaining a tolerant and understanding attitude will give you a good mood. Of course, we should educate our children that tolerance is not connivance, cowardice or blind obedience. At the same time, let children learn to innovate and accept new things. In the process of getting used to innovation and adaptation, children will be tolerant of everything in the world.