1, love is learning, marriage is giving.
2. You can break up at will in love, but you can't divorce at will after marriage. ?
Love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for two families. ?
4. Love only needs to see each other's advantages, while marriage needs to tolerate each other's shortcomings.
Should love be aimed at marriage? My answer is no.
In fact, love doesn't have to be for the purpose of marriage. The original intention is to have long-term companionship.
Why get married first? It is in the form of law to tell the world that we are economic subjects and legal subjects, and each of us bears part of the responsibility, which increases the investment cost of both sides. If we terminate the relationship, we will suffer some losses.
But what is love? This is a stupid and lovely thing. I really like it. Want to be close to each other, want to know you, want to take care of you, want to be nice to you, and even have many unrealistic fantasies.
If everything is for marriage, all good feelings will go up in smoke, and all I think about is the trivial details of daily necessities. This kind of love is too dry and not fun.
I hope everyone will start a pure love, and don't lose the ability to love someone because of reality.
How many times can you experience this numbness and heartache in your life?
Think about LGBT. If you are doomed not to get married, do you still love?